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Dating: Help and advice

My friends are acting VERY weird after my break-up. From trying to set me up with a terminally ill patient to inviting me for a threesome!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Ok--this is kind of weird. Bear with me, please. I just split up with my partner of 6 years. I'm pretty upset over it. Most of my friends have been very supportive, but 2 of them (a couple) have started acting just plain weird. 1--they trie...

Has he lost interest? my boyfriend is ignoring me, not texting me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend has been acting mean to me lately. We've been going out for one year and two months now. He doesn't seem to care about me any more. At school he barely talks to me and he doesn't Text me. We don't hold hands or kiss much. He tal...

He's a senior colleague of mine. But does he really like me? I'm not sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I work in a professional firm in the city in I was born outside USA and have top academic and professional credentials and am closeted gay. There is a senior colleague in our firm who is gay. I have told him I am gay and we spend a lot of time toge...

Why do I feel funny about kissing my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - hi there. i love my boyfriend alot. i trust him and we have known each other for a long time. the thing is i'm just not wanting to kiss him. i'm fine with him hugging me really tightly and feeling me up but not kissing. it just feels so wrong. i ...

My boyfriend heard a rumor that I'm cheating on him. How do I prove I'm not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has trust issues due to his ex girlfriends cheating on him. He has a hard time trusting anyone. Every time something related to cheating comes up he gets so mad and accuses me. He gets so jealous when another guy even says hi to me. The ...

In my 50s, never had a gf or intimate relationship, and am looking for guidance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I’d be grateful for some advice. I’ve posted this on a couple of forums to get various opinions. I’m a heterosexual man in his 50‘s, and I’ve never had a girlfriend or had any intimate relationship with a woman. I was an adopted only child an...

How do I get her see past my skin colour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Okay life story.. This question is specifically about a girl I like but I'll probably go off the point a bit. Alright then - there is this girl I've liked for a while now (a few months to half a year). We'll call her S. She is black, I'm wh...

Lack of interest in sex, new password on her phone, deleted texts: Is my gf cheating on me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have not long been together. At first, everything was perfect, we had loads of fun, always saw each other and one night (only been seeing each other for a few months) she tells me she loves me. I must admit i felt the same. ...

I like a girl who's taken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Hello. I like this person for a few years now, despite she's been taken before I met her. I would feel bad if I made someone I like realize that her current relationship may be wrong. At the same time, it's kind of helping as if it would be say 5 ye...

"I'm working on it"...I'm not sure what she means

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I was/am (you see, I don't know) together with my partner for one year. She is 39 and I am 41. I have a child from a previous marriage, a lovely 12 year old girl while my partner is childless but wants children. We live 2 hours from each other, me ...

I just don't know what to make of her behaviour!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Pls help me. I am really upset. Please :'( I have loved her like crazy for 4 years. We started uni 4 years ago together. I was a Pakistani and she was too. I fell in love with her. She did not love me. I made her say yes to me after a lot of effor...

I'm only truly happy when I'm in a relationship, what's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - This is an inconvenient truth for me... I've realized that I'm only ever truly happy when I am in a relationship. I love the feeling of being loved and I absolutely loving making someone else feel special. For me, nothing in life is better. Unfor...

How can I get over him ASAP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi, Mkay so basically I've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasn't my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didn't want to. we eventually broke up because...

How long should he take to confess his love to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - How long does it normally take him to say he loves you and mean it? I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 months and I'm pretty certain he loves me as much as I love him, but I'm not sure whether to wait for him to admit it first or whether I ...

Do I assume that he is cheating on me or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I am so insecure when it comes to my boyfriend. I want to trust him, but I have been hurt in my past. Anyway, I figured out his password to his cell phone, and I check it often. Once I heard a girl leave her name and told him to call her back. I ...

I want to get my ex back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I had this gf that had left me and I met this other girl that I've had been dating her for 2months. And I left her for my other ex and then after a while I started talking to her and I did the same stupid mistake. And now I really want something ...

I have somewhat of an existential crisis. Please help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I have absolutely no idea where to go from here. I recently broke up with my boyfriend for probably the sixth time after finding him have cyber sex with random girls. I want to stay broken up for good, I really do, but it is almost impossible for me ...

A question about this guy and his bestfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - This is two related questions is one big question. 1) There's this guy I've known for a while but we just recently started talking. He chatted me on Facebook on Tuesday telling me I was cute and asked if I would hook up, and I said I didn't kn...

It took me three years after the break up to find someone else, but I fear getting hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - hi i broke up with my boyfriend 3 year ago and it has took me this long to find some one else but there is this guy he is really sweet but i just dont know what to do as i have two boys and i dont want to get hurt and i dont want my two boys to get ...

A married man at work wants my attention. I am attracted to him, so I'm struggling with this. How can I stop these feelings, and how do I get him to leave me alone

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I am a pretty young woman. There is this man at work who is always trying to get my attention but he has a wife and family. I really find him attractive and think he is a nice person. But I do not want to get in the middle of a marriage or caus...

I was her rebound, will she ever realize how much I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - She is in a relationship with her bf for 5 years now, but it was not easy for her. Went through many break ups but patched back with him, got emotionally hurt, he slapped her once, cried a lot and her bf is possessive too. For a year, she had ...

I cheated on my boyfriend, and he is contemplating revenge cheating. How can we get past this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

4 March 2011 (?) - My boyfriend is trying to get pass the fact that I cheated on him and lied about it. The situation is that I kissed a coworker about 6 times and we ended up touching on each other. I lied about how the kiss happened and how many times we kissed. ...

We were engaged, broke up, I contacted him, he sent me a Valentine's gift and message. I rejected him, but I still love him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I had a boyfriend. After a year and a half he proposed. We were engaged for 4 months and we broke up because he started a business with his family and told me nothing about it. I didn't like it because he was totally invested in it and practically ...

He told me he didn't want a relationship, which is fine. I just want him to be like he was when we first met! What's his deal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi there! I met a guy at a bar in December and it was one of those "wow! I feel like I already know you" type things. The sexual chemistry was totally there, we were chatting, he was very affectionate toward me, and saying really nice things to me. ...

I'm worried because I have no sexual experience. How will I know what to do when I finally have a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hey. I have no sexual experience and I'm not exactly popular or pretty. How will I know what to do when it comes to it because I would actually like to have a sexual relationship without my lack of knowledge affecting it? ...

I want to move with my best friend, her family, and my brother, but she doesn't want me to go! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - My best friend and I were very close until she started to date my brother. I lived in England with my friend and her family, and then we all moved back to Ireland. Her mam wants to move back to England. The only problem is that my brother is going ...

I'm 15, pregnant, no parents of my own AND my baby will be without a dad! Please advise!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hey guys. Please don't judge me I have enough on my plate as it is without other people adding to it. I am 15, 16 in November and I got pregnant when I lost my virginity. But we used a condom that split and the pill but.. you know, it happens...

My girlfriend broke up with me twice. She's receiving counseling and takes full responsibility. Should I give it another shot?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me, twice. The first time was like a weekend, I agreed to get back together. The second time, I was tired of being taken for a chump and that was that. It's been 3 months now. We've been talking a lot. She's been ...

The man I am dating and planning to marry has a fetish for shemales. I worry about my future. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi I have read some similar subject as mine but I need some advice, or get some idea of what this is or not? It is important for my future. My friend now for a couple of years has an interest in shemales. In fact, after four years of marriage -so...

My boyfriend broke up with me, and it hurts so much! He was my everything! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend had being acting funny for a month, asking to go on a break. He'd come back, we'd make up, and he'd ask for a break again. The third time he came back and he said he'd been thinking and that he doesn't want to be in a relationship ...

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We don't want to hide our relationship. How can we approach my parents about this, and what should we say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hello! I am 16 years old and the guy I love is 19. We met a year ago at my youth group (church). We hit it off as soon as we met. He saw me at my worst and still thought I was beautiful. We will have dated for 4 months on March 14 2011. We ha...

My family are wealthy. His is not. Should I pay for everything on our first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Please give me advice.. I have a boyfriend. He was my friend when i was in junior high school. Now he lives in another city. Two months ago he found me on facebook. We share all. Two weeks ago he said he loves me. And so do i. So we decide to have ...

Why? I get get left out of dating, kissing and my friends houseparties.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - hey guys, i was just wondering. you see, i'm fifteen and i've never been on a date nor kissed a guy before. my friends are all starting to go on dates and be kissed now and i feel left out. it's not like I am huge or have an ugly face or somethin...

I'm gonna guess a 4th date is a no?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - 3rd date we've gotten allog great then we have sex twice and I pay for an expensive hotel .....our personalitys click and we both laugh and enjoy each others company ....she was attracted to me and she liked me all the way up to this point.... ...

How do I tell her I like her when she has stopped talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Friends please help me i have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily we just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship and she is a bit shy and doesnt like this that som...

Queries about love, long term relationships, choice and looks.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I had been in a problem of fancying about love a lot.I must say that I am a shy kind of person and short tempered sometimes but get well while flirting with classmate or joking around with mates.I am 22 and had never been in any long relationship ...

13 year old boyfriend wears briefs. Does it really matter?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 13 and he still wears briefs. Does it really matter? He wears ones like these: http://direct.asda.com/george/kid-s-clothing/older-boys/underwear/5-pack-camo-briefs/GEM61476,default,pd.html...

Is he just taking things slowly or I'm just a "casual gf" to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for the past 4 months. We are still at casual dating stage. We only see each other a couple of nights a week and I dont get to see him much on weekends and we never go anywhere through the day time. He says I should go ...

He said he loved me too soon...but now I'm catching feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I'm 17 yrs old.there is a guy, we studied together in o level the same school (boarding). after final exams we all returned home. when i was home after two weeks i saw a text wishing me good nite, since it was new number he introduced himself, ...

He's so handsome and so inexperienced? What does he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - one thing that is troubling is that the guy I've been seeing for almost 4 months now is he's never had a girlfriend let alone had sex either and he's almost 23. I was VERY surprised because he's very, very attractive, very affectionate, smart, kind, ...

I think I could be bisexual...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi guys! I've asked a question on here before and the answers were very helpful, but now I have a different question. I'm confused about my sexual orientation! I think I could be bisexual. I wouldn't have a problem with being bisexual, but my ...

Communication & Sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy who is 3 yrs older than I. We are both still virgins and we want to have sex, but everytime we try to, something happens and it gets put off. I love when he holds me and kisses me and such, but I'm afraid he ...

I'm too young to be thinking about this stuff! right?

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4 March 2011 (F) - Hello aunties. I have a new question. I am a commitment phobe, and my boyfriend is the complete opposite (seems kind of rare, huh?) We've been dating for two years, and he was my best friend who I never fully realized my attraction for until my...

I found out my boyfriend of 2 years was having a long distance relationship! Should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I just found out today that he's had a long distant relationship with another woman for the last year, so I wrote him an email to end our relationship. I found out by making a fake profile on a social ...

I'm 31, have 2 children, and I'm divorced. I know I'm a lesbian, but how do I convince others this is who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Please help me... I am 31. I have 2 older children, and was married to their dad for 10 yrs. Ok this is where it gets complicated... I always wondered why I seemed as a 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13yr old that I had thoughts about other girls, I even went as ...

My boyfriend tells me he would be happy with or without me! We're supposed to marry next year. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Please give me advice! My boyfriend who wants to marry me next year is telling me he is happy with me or without me. Why would he say something like that? Is it because he doesn't love me? I can't get the answer. Please you might have good answer ...

Will lose my home and my car if I continue dating this boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hello, So my problem is that my grandmother(with whom I live with) absolutely hates the boy I'm dating. I am 17 years old, he is 18 and as of the moment she doesn't know we're dating. We've been dating for about 6 months now without her knowing ...

I love this girl in my class. She's all I can think about! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Hi friends, Please help me. I am a student of class 11 and I have fallen in love with a classmate of mine. I just truly love her, but all my friends and her friends now know that I like her, and most probably she also knows that I like her. She...

We argue a lot, and I feel like I'm his slave! I don't want to leave him, but I need to know how I can make this relationship better. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi everybody. Please advise me. I really need it. I'm afraid my future husband and I will be breaking apart. We have been together for 3.5 years. The first year went pretty good we had a bit of fight but not too big of a deal. But the past three ...

Do these signs point to an orgasm or is she faking it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I had this fear until last week that my girlfriend was faking orgasms. We are each other's first sexual partners, and I relied on my fingers/tongue, rather than my woefully average 5 inches in girth to get the job done. I don't see a reason why she ...

What's the best way to get us communicating better together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - I'm seeing this girl at the moment. We were dating last year for a month or so, when she decided to cool things off. After about 2 weeks of her being cold with me and not knowing where I stood, I called the whole thing off. A few months later, we ...

Is it normal that it takes me 6 hours to climax when I'm having sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

4 March 2011 (?) - Hello again. I have a question about my performance. My girlfriend and I had a lot of sex during the past summer. We had sex for about 6 hours every time we had sex, almost non-stop without me climaxing. I know she climaxed many times, but what ...

I love this woman, but she has lost her feelings for me. I'm in emotional turmoil! How do I get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (M) - Hi. So... where to start. About a year ago, I met a girl online, and we started talking via IM. We grew closer and closer as the conversations got more frequent, to a point where we'd talk for hours on end every single day. It was obvious to both ...

The whole time he seemed like he wanted a relationship too but then just changed his mind..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I was dating a guy for 2 months on a regular basis and he kept persuing me for more dates and everything was going great. He invited me to meet his parents, I hung out with his friends but we both never really spoke about what we wanted we just wen...

My facebook pictures make me look amazingly perfect and a lot of guys have been asking me out based on them...but thats not how I really am! What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Hi! I would really appreciate it if you could help me! Ever since I made a Facebook account, I found that I looked so much prettier in my photos, whether they were mobile uploads, photoshopped, or profile pictures. Somehow my itouch was able to ...

My boyfriend's turns 16 on Wednesday, and I need gift ideas! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid...my boyfriend's birthday is on Wednesday and he's turning 16. I have absolutely no idea on what to give him. I want to give him something REALLY CUTE that shows how I feel, and something that he will greatly appreciate. I already gave ...

He holds eye contact, is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - So if a guy always makes really prolonged eye contact, would you say that it's because he might be interested? There's this guy that I catch looking at me pretty often and we'll hold eye contact for quite a few seconds (usually until I look away). ...

I am getting mixed signals from this guy! Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I met this boy about two years ago. I met him through a friend, and only started talking to him because my gay friend fancied him. So, as soon as I started talking to him, I felt this really strong sexual tension. Honestly, you could cut through it ...

If your partner smokes weed, what effect does that have in terms of your daily life and sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - Someone I like smokes weed does what does that affect in terms of everyday life and sexually? I really like him and he feels the same but I feel turned off by him smoking weed and his friends do to, I have read many times how it stops them getti...

New relationship insecurities or valid concern?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I really, really like this guy that I work with and he seems to like me. We've been on a date to the movies and he's come over to my place twice we made out and talked for hours... so much fun. He's very affectionate and we're having fun getting ...

A co-worker has a crush on me. Is it my turn to pursue him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - I have a question regarding the game of romance. A co-worker has a crush on me. It used to be that he would just stare at me. Next step was going out of his way to walk past my desk, etc. He knows that I have feelings for him also. We doesn't ...

My dominating boyfriend who thinks he's "Gods Gift" is making my life miserable...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - hey, so im about to turn 17 and my boyfriend is about to be 21. we have been together for a couple months and things are getting very complicated. im becoming scared of him. he keeps pressuring me about falling in love... he always says "i dont thi...

I'm abusive to my boyfriend, help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4812 days ago

4 March 2011 (F) - About 8 months ago, I got into a relationship with an amazing guy. He's sweet, caring, funny, and he'd never do anything to hurt anyone. Unfortunately, I have emotional issues that have never been resolved, and a couple months ago, I began ...