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Am I gay or am I going through a phase?

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Question - (29 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey am 15 .. I know most people would say am confused ..

But i need help ! I find girls attractive at times but guys too. At the same time i would choose a girl over a guy. To be honest i don't even like the look of the " the third leg" i don't even like saying it.

I've had boyfriends before but i would check out their sister and also like the guy too ..

Am i just going through some crazy phase ?

I need help it driving me crazy .

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A female reader, CrystalTippsx United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2010):

CrystalTippsx agony auntIt could just be a phase, or normally from the sounds of things I would say bisexual. But you never know, and you don't need to know yet. Just wait and see, and one day you'll know. I know it's confusing, but you will find people who have been through it who can help you, and your straight friends will be supportive too. So telling someone can help. Good luck! xx

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntThe first thing you need to do is stop worring? You maybe gay, or bisexual or it may even be a phase you get over but at 15 all those things are ok! Im 20 but when i was your age i stopped looking at boys as much and more at girls and then eventually all i looked at was women, but you may be totally different! As long as you are happy with yourself and in your emotions then dont stress, go with how you feel try new things and meet new people and just find out what you enjoy, its fun! lol best years your life these are enjoy them no matter what sexuality you eventually determine =]

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A female reader, Fish Say Moo United Kingdom +, writes (29 September 2010):

Errmm.. I don't really know, but I do not see anything wrong with gay people--they are always nice people, they just are not interested in the opposite sex--or in your case, more interested in the same sex. You shouldn't feel worried about it. My friend is a lesbian and yes, she did get teased for a while, but then they stopped--she was not embaressed. One in ten people are homosexual (I think..That might be an old figure or something?), But you should be proud of who you are--not saying you're crazy:)) It might be just a phase, I don't know really...... I proberly was no help whatsoever, but I really and truly hope that this turns out how you want it to x

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