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writes:ok so ive been getting to know this guy for a few months now.. we've been chatting everyday for hours in a month...phone calls and text messaging..when i saw him..we kissed alot..i gave him a massage (he loved it) and he said he loved been around me.. we walked down the street hand in hand and he wants me to meet his friends on saturday..but am not sure if we are girlfriend and boyfriend..i really like him.. hes different from all the guys ive met.do you think i should ask him anything?? also i wanna ask him if hes just looking for sex or a relationshipp.. but i dont wanna seem needy or desperate so please help me,what should I ask him?? and how should I say it??thnx...xxx
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 You have to keep in mind that some people don't like being put on the spot. But I can see where you're coming from...Maybe you should give it a few more days before you say anything about whether or not you are bf and gf.I hope it all works out well.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I think you're jumping the gun. Just enjoy his company for now. Why the need to define things just yet? Go out together a few more times, then it may be time to have the "are we BF/GF" talk.
Don't ask him if he is just looking for sex. Even if he was he would never say yes. It is ok to express what you're looking for in a relationship. If you're looking for something long term, go ahead and tell him that. See how he reacts.
Still, I wouldn't get into relationship talk until after you've been on a few dates and are sure you want to pursue something with him.
Let the initial buzz wear off, and see how you're feeling. Hopefully you will have more perspective after a couple more dates.
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