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female
age
30-35,
*W2010
writes:I really like this guy i have known for a really long time. Recently i gave him my number and he has been txt me every day and i have hung out with him alot. We can set there and hold a conversation for hours. He seems like he really likes me but he has had a bad past with relationships and has been hurt alot. I am trying my hardest to make him see that i am nothing like the girls he has dated in the past and that i will commit to him and only him. Tonight i went to his house and watched a movie with him and he put his arm around me, after the movie he had to go to work so as he was telling me by i kissed him, and he kissed me back, but i am scared i might be pushing him. i want him to be confortable and not feel rushed into this. what should i do to make him see that i truly like him and that im not going to do any thing to hurt him? and should i just wait for him to kiss me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Just be persistent with who you are as a person. He needs consistency as he hasnt gotten that. Show him youre the real deal and you wont have to worry about hurting him as you'll have his trust. Dont be scared to kiss him...he needs to feel desired and wanted and once he feels that that you are genuine, he will feel very comfortable. Good luck.
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