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writes:She introduced herself to me. Ignored what the other guy said when speaking to me. Stood close to me while entering classroom. Waited until I finished a conversation to say hi. Asked me to sit next to her so she wouldn't be alone. Her arm and foot kept rubbing against me and she didn't move.BUT when she has seen me around with her friends and when I am with friends she doesn't anything. Except look to the side to see whether I am looking at her.Bear in mind she has had a conversation with me when another friend has been present.However a few I said hello to her she responded but didn't say anything else just stood in front me. She also sat behind me. I JUST feel like I have messed this up and I feel so down and low. That I am just not good enough.Following this a few days later she spoke to me first and kept standing near me.I don't really want this to be a repeat of a previous experience where I was used for attention. It has been suggested she is playing game by others and if that is the case then I am not going to bother.I will really appreciate all the help that I get Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Before you start accusing her of games, she's mostly likely shy or is very well waiting for you to make the first move and ask if she wants to go see a movie or go grab a bite to eat. Make a move or you will never know the real answer to your question.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Her actions indicate interest, but I can't discern intent. If you like her too, then why not go on a date. I'm not sure where people think she could be using you for attention, but since they know you better than I do, you shouldn't dismiss your friends easily. Still, what would be the harm if you went on a date? You could have fun and might start something good.
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