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Prostitute girlfriend crazy emotional situation

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Question - (4 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This is a crazy trip and one which I have ridden probably for too long but here goes:

I met this girl in a lap dancing club and had a VIP with her and could not keep my hands off her. She eventually at the end of the night broke the house rules and gave me her number...yipee...!

Any way when the club closed I naturally left and headed home. On the way home I called her....No answer!....However 30 mins later my mobile rings and its her making her way in a taxi to my house after taking my address. Yipee...! Keeping it brief she eventually turned up and within an hour we were doing what dogs do and she was fucking me all over the bedroom. Fantastic sex, best ever !...That morning I took her home but on the way she asked if she could borrow £150...I knew the scoop immediately but with no reaction whatsoever I said 'no probs' and called at the ATM and got her the cash...

A day later she calls up asking me to come to her house to see her which obviously I did just that....She was trying to fuck me so much that I just thought afterwards she will ask me for more cash so I held back miraculously...All the while her phone was going off which I thought to myself calls from clients, and she's a Prostitute...

Anyhow she soon got fed up and said she had something to do and she would call me later...I left and indeed she did call me about midnight...

I was home in bed and she then turned up at my house...same thing, tried screwing me and i held back...she eventually pretended she had to go home because the babysitter was calling....Forgot to mention she has a 1 year old baby!...I should also mention that before this I had never been with an escort/prostitute ever before...Anyhow IMO each time she failed to fuck me meant she could not ask for cash so while her phone is going off she's trying to line other clients up which each time is when she has to get rid of me or leave...Any how this went on for a week until at which point she moves out of the area...She does however keep in touch with me and invites me two or three times a week to see her...I go over and things are different....we have sex but no mention of money whatsoever...In fact it was like that for a couple of months....anyway eventually she moves back to my area and has her own flat and I start seeing her even more regularly...By this point we have already talked and I understand that she is a prostitute but I think a hell of a lot about her and love her.

It's great for a while but then she starts saying things like I how I get all the sex for nothing / no cost...I should also mention she already separated from her husband...Anyhow she eventually starts rationing the sex with me and the communication also drops off....sometimes I would call at the flat and she would pretend to not be home...Ignore calls when it suited her etc etc...things were cooling off altho I was still seeing her but less frequently...I had a key to the flat and one night i turn up, enter and find her in bed with husband..I said sorry and left rather pissed....she said sorry and it was not like i thought etc etc....I now know she fucked him for money...I know she wont be with him...

this stuff kind of carried on until she moves home again but this time the deal is she moves in with her husband on the understanding that he pays the rent and she fucks him but he thinks she wants him back but she just wants the money (I know this, she told me)...so now I am in a situation where shes fucking her husband, she,s fucking me still albeit slightly reluctantly (I can tell because not as good as when I was a client, that first night) and she's fucking clients....I keep getting pissed off thinking what am I doing and we fall out and argue all the time....Eventually because i do her a hell of a lot of help, she calls me as usual, can I babysit while she's with client or can i take her to do outcall and I just say yes but it will cost you....I say it will cos you sex as good as before, basically the same great service the paying clients are getting but me as her boyfriend am not getting....She agrees and guess what I get a discounted rate and the best sex ever again...Blow jobs and everything...fuking hell!!!....Few weeks pass and it everything starts going backwards again....i get pssed off again, we argue and fall out and I leave....

I dont hear from here for days but I learn that she has joined a dating site....So I set this fake profile up and contact her....she bites and hours later I'm chatting her up and she's telling me I'm a very charming and intelligent guy and were falling in love with each other....I can tell she's eager for me because I'm being super charming and direct but also acting like the dominant male who is in control and knows I have her...

I mean I am that guy so what the fuck is going on here ?....its crazy?...she still does not know its me and I have not heard from her in real life...

My questions are:

Do I keep it running?

Do I eventually tell her?

If we make up in real life do I tell her it was me all along?

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I know by now people are thinking ditch her and should have ditched her ages ago but I fucking care about her, probably because she's the dominant one in my realty but as my alter ego I'm dominant but I cant be my made up character in real life because he's much better looking than me and taller and naturally physically his looks would make it easy for him to be alpha male...

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Thanks in advance...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

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Recent add....

She went out apparently to do an outcall the other night...!!

She asked all nicely earlier on the phone if i was calling to her house to spend saturday night with her. When I got there she was getting dressed up.

I did not believe her about the outcall / wont go into detail but have sufficient evidence that she met a boy online and was going to his house...

She returned three hours later, drunk....

She spewed up a few times...

I was furious so I slapped her round the face.

She approached me to explain and I pushed her away and she fell down.

I am not a bully or a beater I just completely lost it after months of mental abuse. I should have walked months ago I know...

She is a liar, she is abusive, she has previously left messages on my answerphone which my daughter has heard...saying things like I am doing you know what to my daughter....

Fuck I wish there was a tablet you could take to make you fucking hate someone and walk away cos no one deserves this kind of treatment....

I know I know I know...I have allowed her to do it cos am weak person..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

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Recent add....

She went out apparently to do an outcall the other night...!!

She asked all nicely earlier on the phone if i was calling to her house to spend saturday night with her. When I got there she was getting dressed up.

I did not believe her about the outcall / wont go into detail but have sufficient evidence that she met a boy online and was going to his house...

She returned three hours later, drunk....

She spewed up a few times...

I was furious so I slapped her round the face.

She approached me to explain and I pushed her away and she fell down.

I am not a bully or a beater I just completely lost it after months of mental abuse. I should have walked months ago I know...

She is a liar, she is abusive, she has previously left messages on my answerphone which my daughter has heard...saying things like I am doing you know what to my daughter....

Fuck I wish there was a tablet you could take to make you fucking hate someone and walk away cos no one deserves this kind of treatment....

I know I know I know...I have allowed her to do it cos am weak person..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010):

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Miracles!....Ha....already feel like I have metaphorically walked on water and turned water into wine. I mean for all the techniques you can learn as a man on how to attract a woman I'm thinking 'should life be like that' ?...

She never says so but I am sure she enjoys the sex side as well as the money.

One time a client left after his half hour (he never even touched her) and she was all frustrated and told me to get on the bed and please would I "lick, fuck and suck her" ...thats exactly what she said...."I need to cum" she said...

Jeeeze i want a balanced relationship that focuses less on sex! but want it to be with her.....Maybe thats the reason for her pushing me away....maybe I want it too much and she is trying to keep her independence intact?

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A female reader, frogrus Ukraine +, writes (5 November 2010):

frogrus agony auntIf you want her to quit this business you will need to give her some other options. The best one would be paying her bills. I really don't know if you need this, tho. But I wouldn't suggest you to expect a miracle.

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