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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I made the mistake of hooking up with this guy that I've been dating for three weeks last weekend. We had been seeing each other 2-3 times per week (so it was plenty of dates) and he seemed nice, respectful and interested. I thought it would be okay to engage physically with him, but now I'm not so sure. We were suppose to hang out two days later and he sent me a text saying that he was busy and won't make it but asked me what I was upto the next day. I told him that I"d be working late, so he suggested that we get together this weekend. I said that I'd love to and that he should let me know when he's free. He hasn't yet. I also sent him a brief email today about an article related to his job and he hasn't replied.Could it be possible that he's that busy or has he lost interest now and is just being polite in sending me those messages? I feel a little disappointed because we were getting along really well, were very attracted to each other and slowly going down the path of getting intimate (so its not like it just came out of the blue) and he really didn't seem like the "hit it and quit it" type to me.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 November 2010):
 You know I hop into bed with a guy after about 3-4 weeks, just to see if we're sexually compatible before becoming official. That's a deal breaker for me..although that's after I've determined he's telling the truth when he says he wants a relationship.
You've made contact, he said he was busy..but it's his turn to get back to you. I'd give him a maximum of 3 days to see if he contacts you back. We all know it takes a matter of minutes to send a text. After that, and you got nothing, then I'd brush it off like lint on your coat.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (5 November 2010):
 when u get along well with a guy,dont sleep with him.
drive him crazy first.
now...just give it time.
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