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writes:Hey, I'd love some advice, especially from guys out there, about whether it's good to play a little hard to get or not. I've been with my new bf 2 1/2 months. We both work shifts, so don't get to see each other too much. I really like him. He says he feels he is falling for me, too, and that he wants an open and honest relationship with me. It's all going so well, I guess part of me is waiting for the bubble to burst.Anyway, I'm wondering if I should maybe play a little hard to get? I'm always keen to see him when we have time off together, but am keeping up my own interests and seeing my own friends too when I can... I don't want him to lose interest, and my friends say I need to make him chase me a little more... what do you think? Should I do this a little? If so, how? I've never been someone to play games, but I really want to keep him interested, and if that would help, I'd like to try it.Thanks so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 So long as you don't flake on him, and you return all his calls, being busy with friends or hobbies now and again is entirely healthy. Making him make time for you is fine, to a small extent.
This crosses over from playing to flat-out turnoff when you start standing him up or leaving him hanging. So keep your word, and have a little fun otherwise.
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