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Dating: Help and advice

Blind and can't read the signs possibly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - There is the guy and we both get along. at the start of the year i like him and we talked but we kind of became distant due to studying as we both want the same career and course in collage but lately he keeps bumping into me and trying to get my ...

What to do about my love triangle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - i am in a triangle situation. its me, and my ex of 6 months travis, and the other guy i've know for 3 years jarrett. and well jarrett used to date my bestfriend, yet me and him have always liked each other, ever since 6th grade. i just ever really ...

Is it okay for my biological mom to date my brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I was adopted as a baby and about a year ago met my bio Mum for the first time. Got on with her great and really glad I've met her. But a couple of weeks ago she told me she's dating my big brother and I'm really not happy about it. I'm only related ...

Could he like other girls too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Umm basically i have a boyfriend right and he loves me and i love him back...we've been together for about umm 7 or 8 months now and we didnt really have the "gay" way of asking eachother out.. he movved to my school and then we were chatting online ...

How do I get him to lighten up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has been getting too serious like he is taking life too seriously. how do i get him to lighten up??? He used to joke more and we would have a good time and laugh. i am worried that maybe we arent rite anymore.. help....

I feel like I'm just useless in bed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He was a virgin when we met, and for the first few times that we were intimate with each other, he didn't orgasm at all. I thought it may have been because he was nervous, but it still happens a lot ...

Is my boyfriend uncomforable with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend for nearly a year now; as expected things were perfect in the beginning, we did everything together and spent so much time hanging out and talking and having fun and things were wonderful. After a few months I ...

He stutters when he talks to me, he's so shy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (?) - I really like this guy but he is so shy! He stutters when he talks to me, finds it hard to csrry the conversation etc, but before he started to fancy me he was fine and we talked all the time!! How can I tell him, or should I leave it, can I ...

Even though we aren't exclusive, why is he dating others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been exclusive for a few weeks. However, before becoming boyfriend and girlfriend we were friends and then we began dating for about 6 months. I didnt want to get into a relationship right away because when I met him I was ...

How do I control the rumor mill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - i have been talking to this guy for about a week now and he told me likes me and i like him to. i told 2 of my friends but heres the problem they told someone who told someone and so on. i hate it when my buissness is known by the world and i dont ...

What do you recommend I do before taking this relationship any further?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - FIVE MONTHS BCK!!! I met this guy on a house party arranged by my best friend and that first meeting with him was quite a thing to remember for the rest of my life! He was extremely courteous and chivalrous to me n my girlfriend till he got d...

Should I start a relationship with this older woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Hi I am a 19 year old male and I really like this lady. she also likes me but there is a problem. she is 39 with 3 children. she is afraid of what people might think of her and the complications the children bring. we both really want this but don't ...

Tips on dating after a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Hi,I'm divorced after 20 years and reentering the dating scene and I've forgotten how long people that you meet put on their best performance before you start seeing their flaws. I'd appreciate any help that you could give me....

Why won't she accept my apology?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - I like this lady she kinda mad at me over a stupid arguement because i couldnt see her when i wanted to. We been talking for about a month and i like her she liked me but now its bad. I sent her roses to her school and asked her to accept my ...

He said I mess with his head. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - A guy who i used to be in love with has been okaying me for four years now because he says he likes me but doesnt want to commit to anything too serious as he is too young for any of that and wants to live his life while he can , he is now 20 and ...

Three questions about my Swedish exchange student boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Three questions about my Swedish exchange student boyfriend! Are all Swedish girls really good looking? I'm seeing a Swedish exchange student and am rather insecure. He goes back to his country soon and I am really insecure because from what yo...

Why can't he see all I've done for him and return my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - this sounds so silly but i need advice. i have a very close friend but he doesnt know im in love with him. he was in a bad way when i first met him and over the last 8 months hes got his confidence back and ive supported him and made sure hes ok. ...

Help! I don't know how to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - I need to pour my heart out.... I was with my ex for almost 3 years. I started law schol, and after a semester, she felt unhappy, unimportant, and uneeded, so she broke up with me. She started dating her best friend (for years) almost a week af...

My bf never has time for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend never has time for me....we see ourselves like once in two weeks. when i go see him, he leaves me to hang out with his friends, but he calls me every day to know how am faring. what do I do? I love him and he is my first boyfriend....

My ex bf's friends always stare at me when I'm out at the same clubs..why are they doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Hi, Why does my ex boyfriend's friends stare at me when i see them out? We broke up a month and a half ago (he broke up with me). every time i have been out since and seen his group of friends, they stare at me so blatantly the whole time, and i ...

I just want someone to cuddle up to and spend time with without it just being about sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - hey i really just want to settle down i know im still young but im fed up of getin hurt. all the boys i go for have what they want and then dont bother with me untill they want it again. iv tryed not givin it to them but then i just get up set and ...

Since we slept together he has been in touch less

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - dear all... i have been chatting and phoning a guy for the last 2 weeks....every day...at length.. and we met at the weekend....the date was great... and we both said we wanted to meet again.... we did sleep together and it felt very natural.......

Every time I propose she says "I hate you"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Hi... I love a girl 4 last many years. She was my old classmate. The only problem she cant accept is that she is 2 months older than me. She takes it as a problem even though i dont because i love her that much.how can i make her understand her....

Could she be interested in me despite her male companion on the bus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - I have a situation for you: I see this young woman, occasionally, when we have managed to catch the same Metrobus on our short ride to work. (Different jobs, same exit.) We've caught each other's eye. She's very attractive; has this mys...

Should you pursue the girl you like or let someone else pursue her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - A question for the guys out there (girls are welcome to answer) If you pursue a girl you like, probably a few people will be hurt. If you let someone pursue the girl you like, only you will be hurt. So. To pursue or not to pursue? ...

Do you think he will ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - so im confused on whats happening! there is this guy i met him in the begining of the year and he got a gf before i got to know him, and when we were getting close as friends him and his gf broke up and a lot of flirting happening but he's a flirt ...

I'm not used to these new feelings! Do I care, or am I playing it safe? Where is the passion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - Hello all. I have very recently started dating a new man. I am a 41 year old female. For the whole of my adult life I've had 'high octane' dramatic relationships, full of love, pain, and wanting. I have realised I have become addicted to that...

Irrational thoughts about my girlfriend regarding - relationship, religion, attraction

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Hi i have a girlfriend who i know deep down i love but as of late i have been having irrational thoughts racing around in my head about my feelings about certain aspects of our relationship. To start off she is from a super religious background, her ...

I have been a player all my life but this women brought me to my knees

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Ok I recently moved to Southern California my brother owns a business I started working for him and I met one of his employees...love at first site she was beautiful my kind of people and just really cool...but she had a boyfriend of 4 years...he ...

He's pushing me out because of his ill father. Do I wait around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I've been dating a friend for months now, things were going great until they took a turn for the absolute worst. He found out a few weeks ago that his dad is sick and has about a year to live. I've seen him upset over it and I've even seen him cry ...

Dating and inexperienced man--can I show his the basics? I'm still hurt from last relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - a little history of my situation. i recently left a physically and mentally abusive man. shortly after that, i started seeing a friend of a friend. we like each other quite a bit, thats not a question. he has never been in a "serious" relationship, ...

If we don't have sex now he gets mad at me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot and we love eachother. we're 15 and have been together for just about a year. a couple weekends ago we had sex for the first time and it wasnt his first time but it was mine, and now if we dont do things ...

During sex he just stopped and said he'd had enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy who seems really nice.He seems interested in everything I say. Hes very complimentary and affectionate. I got the impression that he really likes me but I'm starting to wonder if he does. The first few times we had sex ...

HOw do I get him to trust me when I haven't done anything wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, 10 months to be exact. We are currently in a long distance relationship, not by choice, I haven't finished high school, so I can't leave home yet. Anyways for my question: I feel like we hav...

Tips on meeting a pushy, aggressive woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, Hello, I have a question for the ladies. I, um, have jsut been wanting to meet a girl who is, to use a generic term - dominant. Not like whips and chains and all that, but assertive. Bossy. Demanding. High maintenence. ...

I want to be with him but he likes younger girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (F) - im 14 and my best guy friend is 19 he is a virgin and i cant tell if im in love with him but i know that he likes girls that are younger like 15 and 16 (im bout to turn 15) i cant see my self without him in the future does anyone have any advice?...

She says I'm too good for her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

10 May 2010 (M) - This girl I wuz seeing says that she isn't ready for a serious relationship right now. We've 6een texting ever since then and recently she told me that she's sorry for all she put me through goin out and that any girl would be luccy to be with me. ...