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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Signs, signs, signs..but does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - There's this guy who I really like, but the problem is that I can't tell if he's interested in me too. I mean, there's things he does or says that seem like he could be interested but what if it's just my imagination? He's a sports assistant at my ...

I like a thicker man as this man does not feel masculine to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Am i being superficial? I went through hell in my divorce four years ago. It has taken me till now to get my self esteem back as I had a horrible divorce and a few bad relationships after. I am feeling well and my self esteem is back, I went on a ...

Am I naive or is he a pro liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Hey, how do i know if the guy i'm in love with is not taking me for sex, we dated for a couple of months before i realized that he has a girlfriend, we were having a long distance relationship and seeing each other once every 3 weeks. To cut the ...

I do love her but know she isn't the one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - I don't know what to do. I'm in love with two girls. One of them is a friend of mine and the most amazing girl I've ever met. The other is my on-again off-again girlfriend of three years. I've been contemplating breaking up with my girlfriend fo...

Why is she telling me that other women are checking me out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend and I go out to clubs and go dancing. We both love to dance and have a great time. One thing that drives me crazy is that she keeps telling me about other girls that are checking me out. I am there do dance with her. I dont ...

My friends have ditched me for relationships. How do I let them know that it hurts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (?) - Should i tell my friends it really hurts me that they've all ditched me for boyfriends and girlfriends? I recently moved to a new school and have found it really hard to fit in, anyway about a month or two ago I felt really sure that I had made ...

Does his friend's reaction mean that this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - I have a huge crush on a guy. We get on very well and often smile at each other and generally are really comofrtable around each other. Sometimes I sense he might like me as well but like me he's hesitant to show it. One day we were talking and...

He sees me only for casual sex and I care about him a lot! How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - I feel so lonely... I have great friends,I am surrounded by great people but I feel so low. I found out the guy I was seeing only sees me as someone for casual sex, and I know for a fact that he is sleeping around. There are 2 other guys who I...

I like two boys! Which one should I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Hey There is a boy whom I've known for years, and we have been out on and off since i met him, which is about four years. Im in year 8 now and on facebook he asked me out. But my mum said that she wouldnt like it if i went out with him again, ...

He says he doesn't want to lose me..so why is he being distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4924 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and I've been with my bf for just over two years now and up until a few months ago everything was great. Our relationship resides us between long distance (see each other at weekends) when I'm at university and being cl...

Girlfriend wants to go clubbing, but shes only 15!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is only 15, and she wants to go clubbing. She lives in Montreal, and im in Toronto (long story, she had to move for a little while away from Toronto but were going to stay together). Im 15 as well, and i think a) she is way to young, ...

Should a guy ask a girl out...on the street or in a mall?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Would a guy ever ask a girl out just on the street or the mall or something? Basically I know its kinda sad but I don't have a load of friends and I don't really ever go out clubbing. I work in the city so I often go shopping during the day and stuf...

The signs are there...so does he not love me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Are these signs that my boyfriend no longer loves me: - Turns up Late Alot - Puts His Mates First - Breaks Promises He always hugs me, kisses me, tells me he loves me and we still have sex alot (maybe too much) but some days he can be very dis...

Does she like me and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - DO NOT SAY ITS IN MY HEAD BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN WITNESS TO THIS AND SO HAS MY FRIEND. 1) Seemingly brush against you on purpose when walking past. She has only done this ONCE but it seemed she did this on purpose as there was plenty of room to avoid...

Is he really interested in developing a relationship with me?

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9 May 2010 (F) - I went to a pub with my mates last Saturday and I met this guy M there. After chatting for a while he asked me if he could give me a hug and I said yes. Then he went on asking me if he could give me a kiss. I was quite reluctant to do so because I ...

We broke up and I can't get over him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - hiaa I have a problem. I broke up with my bf a few months ago and now he's with someone else. but I can't get over him. its when youve not got someone that u realise how much you needed them. and now when ever I see them together I have to leave ...

I didn't get a card for my birthday and now, the GF is upset at me??!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - It was bothering me that my GF didn't get me a card for my birthday(2 days later). She noticed that something was on my mind and asked me. I asked her if she got me anything for my birthday and she told me she "didn't know what to get me" (so I got ...

I'm shy..how do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Ok I am 13 and this is the second time I went out with my bf and we kissed once then but we broke up but now were back together. He is good friends with my step brother 'guess what I am thinking an once I that I knew he had to leave :( well he told ...

Just friends, but I want more!

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9 May 2010 (F) - The past few months have been very stressful for me. Im graduating college very soon. I fell for my best best friend. He spent xmas at my house and we hooked up. It was so exciting and everything was great. we have lots in common and he was mad ...

Does he like me or not? What are signs I should look out for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - To try and keep it short, I need some advice on figuring out if this guy likes me or not. We go to different unis so I've seen him out only a few times, most times have been at clubs when we go with our own group of friends. He is a friend o...

Hes got a gf, is there no chance now? (I'm gay)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - Im so confident, and comfortable with myself. BUT I fall in love to easily. Its starting to hurt. Theres one boy. Everyone says were cute together. I love him and I flirt with him all the time. But just yesterday he got a gf. Is there any chance for ...

Guys who say they aren't ready for relationships..yeah right

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - So I have a question that has been bugging me. Four years ago I had just arrived at college. I met this guy first at the club and I hooked up with him. The day after I realized I just wasn't interested in the guy I met at the club however I did ...

My parents limit the time that my b/f and I can talk on the phone together

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Dear Aunties, My parents limit the hours I may text/talk to my boyfriend. my mom won't let me have my phone past 10 on weekdays and 11 on weekends. My boyfriend and I have been together over a year, and I love him. I know I'm only 16 and I know no...

She can't get past the idea of smoking weed

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been going out for 6 months and we have a blast together. I've never been in a relationship so strong before. Recently, we've been fighting about one subject and one subject only: my smoking habits. It's not that I smoke ...

He has a g/f but flirts with me alot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I like this guy, and have for a long time. He has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me a lot. He's three years older, and I don't know what to do. Help me?...

Is there potential for a lasting, healthy relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: the fact that I was ...

I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we ...

I've been in love with him for 4 years but we aren't really together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - i have been in love this this dude for almost four years now but we havent been in a committed relationship. he is or has been engaged.but says he's loves me and want to be with me. I dnt kno if i should wait on him or move on? he havent talked ...

I'd love to date my close friend but I'm ashamed of my financial situation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - i adore my close friend and would love us to date-i know hes fond of me. im scared of him knowing stuff-like how my ex left me edging on bankruptcy thanks to his grasping so im insolvent for 3 more years and my flat looks really bad. i have little ...

How can I get my b/f in the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Hey i was wondering when me and my bf are away from each other we mostly text or talk on the phone, well most the time when i want to talk about sex il say some thing like "im cold come here and warm me up or im hot help me cool off" Do you have any ...