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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Come on people, am I in denial? Is this an obvious one or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I’m dating a guy who’s most cherished memories are when he was in a band as a singer and both men and women adored him. 1.He’s extremely meticulous about everything he does from dressing to cooking to barbering. He unconscienably spends hours in ...

How to talk to a guy who knows you have a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - After being introduced to a new group of people I found myself thinking about this guy all the time, I worked with him and his group for a week however stayed good friends. I really liked him but I didn't let on and we exchanged emails for a long ...

I don't understand the things he said when we were making out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I let my boyfriend of 3 weeks finger me yesterday. Before he did he asked if it was okay and I said yes, if I was allowed to touch me. He said "I'm not as exciting." What did he mean by this? I ended up just kind of rubbing him through his jeans ...

Could my weight be holding him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I'm overweight, and i've liked this boy for a while now and i talk to him all of the time, he's usually flirty and says he loves me, and i've kissed him before but only when drunk. He offers to walk me home on a weekend and he tells me i'm pretty. ...

Is it ok to act as his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - My 2 friends like eachother but the girl wont admit that they are a couple. They guy is completely in love with her and would do anything to make her happy. Is it far to the guy for my friend to act like a girlfriend but not admit that they are a ...

We share a foot fetish... we didn't do anything wrong did we?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hello, well I'm a 14 year old. And the thing is, I have a really good friend who's a girl (though not a girlfriend) and we visit each other often. One time when we were assigned on a school project and it was during our exams. She came to my house, ...

One day a week really isn't enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - hello every1, me and my bf r goin out for 5 yrs now. he says he really loves me, he also plans for our future, and when we are together we are so right for each othjer, we also have great sex life but the prob is he never initiates our date....

How can I like him when I hardly know him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Is it possible to fancy someone you hardly know? This guy in my year at school is so cute and seems really nice and funny, and i know he likes some of the same stuff as i do. But I've only ever actually spoken to him once, so we're not even ...

Would a girl say yes when you ask her out and give you her phone number if she weren't interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - I finally got the courage to ask out this girl I've had a crush on for a while. She said yes but said she was busy this week but maybe we could get together next week or this weekend sometime. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me no ...

Am I being selfish for at least wanting him to talk to me occasionally? He has a lot going on with his family but his inability to balance things in his life is getting annoying!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I'm frustrated cos the guy I'm dating doesnt know how to balance career, fam etc. He told me hes either 0 - 100 % about things and once hes 100 - thats all he focuses on..which usually applies to work.Recently hes been tryin to get a job, a car ...

How do I show him that I am no longer interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - So how do you give a guy signs you're not interested? I thought I really liked this boy, so I was really into him and flirty and stuff.. now I've gone off of him. Its for various reasons, but the thing is he still keeeeps on texting me and ...

This "father figure" situation has gone too far....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I have been dating a girl on an off that has only been living in the US for a few years. I myself have lived abroad for almost 2 decades. I tend to become a father figure to the girls I have dated and I don't mind it. I am not controlling, ...

I cringe at compliments!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - There's this guy who likes me, and he constantly tells me how beautiful and amazing i am and how it's so good we have a lot in common, (music etc) However, i feel uncomfortable when people say things like that to me, im not sure why exactly,...

Is he into me? Or is he not that into me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Okay, so there's this guy I am somewhat interested in. And one day he came up to me, and asked me for my name. He purposely came over to talk to me even knowing I am gay. On top of it, he's very shy with everyone else, but he seems to only talk to ...

Is it wrong to pursue a guy? Or do I have to be chased?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - is there a proper dating process? Ive hung out with this guy a cpl of times, we talk a lot here and there. After we met he had implied he wanted to kiss me, so when I saw him the next time (he made me dinner/movie - it was nice) I thought it was g...

Inattentive Boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I feel like our relationship is fading quickly. My boyfriend used to be so attentive, calling/texting daily, making time to see me, and generally doing all the right things in a normal ...

I feel like I've become a bitch towards men...because the treat me as if I have no feelings, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - So, lately I've been having some problems with relationships and stuff like that in general. My first boyfriend cheated on me, and so did my second. My last boyfriend and I recently broke up because we needed a break because things weren't wor...

Am I cheating on my boyfriend, or is this harmless fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Im really confused! Ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks and i really like him. Thing is ive been speaking to a guy online for about 18 months, and we've recently got back in touch, exchanged numbers and that. Am i cheating on my bo...

My long distance relationship has reached breaking point, what should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm 23, my girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 years and her communication with me has broken down completely. She's always had 'rules' that I have to follow, like I am not allowed to phone...

My girlfriend really has an interest in me or shes just using me or avoiding me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - hey guys, I was wondering if my girlfriend really has an interest in me or shes just using me or avoiding me. We started dating about a week ago but shes so confusing. She dosent like talking on the phone and never talks to me on myspace anymore. ...

I really really like him but I'm not visually attracted to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I need some advise, the situation is this I met this guy that I exactly what I have been lookin 4, he treats me good, he compliments me every time he has a chance, we can sit and talk about anything, I have been in a relationship before and that ...

Afraid of the future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hi, i'm a 20 year old male. I'm a virgin, and would say i've never really been in a real relationship. In every potential relationship i've ever been looking towards getting in, the girl in question has constantly picked someone else over me. At ...

Do men think like women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hi! Everyone help me out here I've liked this guy I've gotten so to the point that I've feel in love and we've been friends for about 5 years every since I was twenty we've past the sex thing I've done a lot for this person but when we first started ...

Am I missing something here with my boyfriend, wedding rings and man code???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Been with my b/f 5 years and we've discussed marriage in the near future, like this summer. We're not planning a big wedding, in fact we want to just elope in Vegas, no frills. I've been looking at rings (nothing elaborate or extremely expensive) ...

Did I handle this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - This last saturday I went to a party with all of my friends and saw this guy that my best guy friend told me that he thought I was cute. I went over to him and I'm not exactly sure how it happened but we ended up getting really close and we kissed ...

I just feel like there is nobody out there for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - I broke up with my ex since Janurary and we have sort of talked during Valentines day, and very rare after that. I've been talking to this girl who really caught my attention and i have been basically kising her ass left and right and last time we ...