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Dating: Help and advice

I feel my paranoia is getting the better of me and it's ruining my relationship...

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4 May 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 9 months now and it' been absolutely brilliant with her. The thing is, I have trouble with paranoia. * I'll say now that this is a long distance relationship but she is coming to live with me ...

How do I attract guys without completely changing who I am?

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4 May 2010 (F) - Most of my best friends are very attractive and are constantly asked out. I on the other hand have never been on a date. Truthfully I am no a very small girl but I'm not completely overweight either. I am also know as the hippie girl which some ...

Why do I have feelings for this other guy but love my boyfriend?

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4 May 2010 (F) - well i am a freshman and i am 14 years old going on 15 anyways i have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 7 months and i really do like him but he is a real dick like i wanted him to come out in my 15 and he said he didnt do 15's and ...

Do you think this girl and I are right for each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I wanted to ask whether this girl and I are right for each other. I think we are. I'd like some more feedback before I make a move. I care about this girl so much that the though of rejection petrifies me. I want to be as certain as possible ...

Why does he not talk to me but try to make me jealous?

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4 May 2010 (F) - This guy had this huge crush on me. We're 16 (year 11). He used to show all the signs (staring, glancing, copying, imitating, stands closer etc.) and I showed signs back.He shows few signs now. We used to flirt with each other all the time but now ...

Good sex with unloving husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend of a year. I have never felt like this about anyone else - not even close. However, i have been married for ten years and have two children. My boyfriend is married too. We knew each other for two years before we ...

He's giving VERY mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I lost my boyfriend a few weeks ago and my best friend who I thought liked me is playing me. He plays me by acting all nice and then he says that he doesn’t care about my texts or what I have to say. Then the next day he smiles and he does look at ...

He dumped me because of his friend!

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4 May 2010 (F) - There was this guy back in highschool, who I really liked. But I knew that we'd never be together because he didn't see me that way, if you know what I mean. He was really interested in a friend of mine, and even when she told him she wasn't ...

Didn't want to fall for him, but I have!

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4 May 2010 (F) - Ok so I've been with my husband for 8 years but these past 4 months I have been having an affair. He has a girlfriend, but is nit happy. We agreed at the start that it was just gonna b a bit of fun. When we meet it is generly just a physical thing, ...

Do I make him feel guilty or pretend I'm fine?

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4 May 2010 (F) - Ignore the age, I'm actually 17. I need some advice, I have this friend and I love him but somehow he really doesn't seem to know. About a week ago I slept with him and then he said not to say to anyone what happened to avoid scandal. He is qui...

Farting, Burping, and Swearing in Relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Pinkee here~ Yes, I thought I’d bring up this politically incorrect topic. I mean, the way a lot of people are about this stuff, I’m almost wondering if it’s okay to talk about it, never mind do it. But in the Booty Doctors tradition, I am taking ...

Having a hard time forgiving myself

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4 May 2010 (F) - I recently had a foursome with a woman and two men that I am not in a relationship with. However, I am in a relationship with another man whom I love very dearly. I am 20, and have always been happiest in relationships, as I've only been single ...

Dating an ex of a friend..is it too weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Ok so basically i have this friend who used to go out with my high school best friend around fours years ago. He has basically kiss the group of female friends and slept with one and for the past year he has been coming over (as friends in the ...

I'm scared of throwing away someting really good, but why can't I commit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I'm scared of throwing away the best thing that has happened to me but on the other hand I'm not sure if I'm 100 percent committed to this guy. We been together a few years now (not living together), we live a couple hours away from each other. The ...

Can't enjoy sex until she's tested and I wear a condom.

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4 May 2010 (M) - I love sex but nothing spoils the mood more for me than when she suggests we do it without a condom. I instantly lose my hard-on and it's not getting back up after a comment like that. I don't want to get an STI. I trust her but how can I trust ...

Now he wants to leave a change of clothes at my house! What does this mean?

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4 May 2010 (F) - Been involved with a man now for more than 3 yrs and just recently when he came over to see me asked if he could leave a change of clothes at my house and even asked me if would wash them for him. This something totally out of the blue because the...

He wants to go to Amsterdam with his mates yet we've never been on holiday!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of three years blurted out after being asked a week ago "I've been asked to go to Amsterdam for three days" i asked why he has only just told me this and he replied he didnt know how i would act. He has not had a job for ages and can ...

Girlfriend doesn't want to meet my ex wife.

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4 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 10 months is the love of my life. Both of us are divorced with children, all of whom are the same age. I recently moved in with her and things are great: kids are happy, we're happy. The one thing that is eating me up is that she ...

What did he mean when he said I should 'depend on him more'?

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4 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend asked me the other day whether i depend on him or not, i said not really, i mean my definition of depending on him would be sticking to him, and being needy about everything. Then he said that he should depend on me more? I dont really ...

Me and my ex still love each other but we cant be together! help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have broken up. We were together for 7-8 months. The reason we broke up is because he got a job in the mines and it wasn't a sudden decision to break up we did a lot of thinking and weighed out the pros and cons for each outcome. ...

I'm worried if I leave my boyfriend for his best friend I will ruin their friendship

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4 May 2010 (F) - I have a friend, a guy, and we kinda liked each other since 2 years ago but he didn't make any kind of improvement and signs to make this more serious and so I kinda flirt with his best friend too, at the time. And so, I'm now in a relationship with ...

How can you make the jump from being friends, to more than friends?

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4 May 2010 (M) - I have got a friend that I like a lot, and I know she hasn't got a boyfriend! Can I have some ideas please on how to make the jump from being a friend to being more than friends?...

How do I get over my fear of kissing and touching? It is holding me back from getting into a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Hey, heres the thing. I like this dude(I'll call him Fred). Well I think I do. I cant stop thinking about him. I dont really want to get into a relationship because I freak out about the whole kissing thing and the touching. I really dont know how ...

Should I keep dating him?

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4 May 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 1.5 years. We usually get along really well and spend a lot of time together. However, we fight quite often, and especially lately. Our last fight wasn't too long ago and we were almost going to break up. Howeve...

I want to have sex more often with this girl and I'm confused about what she really wants from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - a friend of mine (whom i dated in high school for a whole month) and i have been seeing each other off and on for a couple months now. we've had sex twice. once when we were drunk, and once after a nice sober night at my house. lately though she's ...

How do I make him mine ?

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4 May 2010 (F) - It all started in high school, everyone has said he is a player but for some reason I couldn't help but like him. We like a lot of the same stuff n can sit n talk for hours. He makes me smile just to get a text or be by him. We finally ended up ...

I really liked this girl, and I'm tired of seeing girls leave

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I recently got out of a relationship and met up with a girl I had a huge thing for in high school. We hadn't talked for six months, but I learned that we both had just gotten out of relationships, and that we still had pretty much everything in ...

I don't feel like I'm good enough for guys I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - SO I wanted to do something different... well let me first start off by saying the story: Guy in my class, we are friends, he's a bit shy in that he doesn't initiate things, but i always catch him constantly looking over at me (my friends notice it ...

Her mother is going to decide our fate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5114 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I'm a junior in high school. I am 17 and I really like a 14 year old. She says she really likes me back, and we've known each other for over 6 months. However, her mother is the obstacle standing in the way. I met her mother by coincidence and she ...

1st date nerves!

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4 May 2010 (M) - Hi i understand most of the important things to a first date, and often get the kiss at the end of the night. My problem is during the date i never know whether to hold hands, put my arm around my date whilst we are at the cinemas... etc So i was ju...

Is it too soon to move in together? My parents disapprove of her

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4 May 2010 (?) - OK so I'm in a relationship with this girl. She's beautiful, funny and in my eyes amazing. Recently I introduced her to my parents, and it didn't go well to say the least. They completely dissaprove of her. Why? Because of the age gap. I'm 19 and ...

He's controlling and the sex isn't too great, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I have this boyfriend, and he's the sweetest boy ever. We've been together for 2 years and, hes yet to cheat on me, and is the "ideal boyfriend" However, hes very controling that it makes me not want anything to do with him. Also? The sex isnt that ...

What should I do? Never have anything to do with Italy again!?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - i and my husband lived together 5 years, before we married, i met a guy in Italy and had 2 ONS together. i told my husband this before we married, for him it's something definitely immoral and he disgusts about, but he still love me and be with me ...

Should I ask her to the concert? My ex is her good/best friend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - I'm really into this girl. Theres a concert coming up. I'm planning to buy the ticket then invite her to go. But i'm not sure if i should do it or will she go with me. The reason... I just broke up with my ex about 4 months ago. My ex is on...

He hasn't finished his education, and this is driving a wedge between us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for five months. We are inseperable, we are best friends and very much in love. But in the past, all I've dated is low-lifes, guys that deal drugs, guys that don't go to school. My boyfriend has ma...

Tony wants me to talk more, and Mike likes me! Help!

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4 May 2010 (F) - I hang out with a small group of friends(names changed of course.) Mike, Tony, Chris, and my cousin Sara. Well, Tony and I have been talking about going out and he's considering it, but the other day Mike, who is a year and a half younger than me ...

Concerned because the "butterflies" are gone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for three years. We have lived together for the last two years. He is a very sweet person and an excellent boyfriend. We get along great and hardly fight. My concern is that the "butterflies" are gone.Also, I go ...

How do I stop doing this, and if I'm going the right way to handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - ok so, heres the deal, I have an amazing boyfriend, hes not perfect, but he perfect for me. I have really bad self eestem issues, and i feel likei have to bring up every thing me and other boy talks about to him, to make him jealous so you know, he ...

How can I build confidence to ask a guy out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - I have never had a boy friend and i really like this guy. we were really good friends, then his ex came back to him but they are now split up. i don't have the confidence to ask him out. what can i do to build my confidence??? Help ! ...