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*nNeed19
writes:Hi I am a 19 year old male and I really like this lady. she also likes me but there is a problem. she is 39 with 3 children. she is afraid of what people might think of her and the complications the children bring. we both really want this but don't know what to do. so here is my question. should we give it a go or cut are losses now? Reply to this Question
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reader, armon  +, writes (11 May 2010):
That's your decision but she is twice your age though. Are you sure that you're ready to do it because if you do she might ask you to help her with her children or things like that. It all comes down on you if want to take that kind of committment.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): You said yourself .. there is a problem, she is 39.
Does a part of you think there is a problem here ?
Ive never been one to deny love no matter how it falls into my lap. If you like her, and she likes you, and your both consenting adults , I personaly see no problem here. Give it a shot, wouldnt you rather know what is, than what couldve been. Dont push someone away because of a fear, in a relationship you have to give it every chance possible.
I am 39, my fiance is 25, I have 2 children, we have been together over 2 years, and its the best and heathiest relationship Ive ever had.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): Do what you both want if it makes you happy your both consenting adults and deal with any problems as they arise
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