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Dating: Help and advice

It starts out fantastic and then one of us dump the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - hiyyaa emm I've been out with tis guy like 3 times now and its always been fantstic at the start thn it always ends up one of us dumping the other for some reason or another. I really like him and I want him back but I'm scared 4 times wld be too ...

Because of my childhood & past I'm co-dependent but I want to get over this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - HI, I am not sure how to put all of this...anyways, I was very abandoned as a child (at 34 I can admit and see this now)...anyways, my mom used to leave me alone alot while she went out and it caused me alot of anxiety. She used to have to leave a ...

I really want to date him! How do I let him know I won't shoot him down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I've met up with a few times. They were never official dates, just coffee but i could kinda tell he wouldnt mind us being official. The problem is that he's so shy when it comes to dating! He's not shy talking about normal ...

My male friend and I are close but I feel he jerks me about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - i'm mad at my friend but can't seem to figure it out. he will reach out, make connection, we are close at times, then he will just ignore me. i'm feeling jerked around and sick of it. when we talk he seems genuine and we have great conversations, ...

She has a long distance boyfriend but she flirts with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - I like this girl a lot. We flirt each other, texting, hang out, talking on the phone. She told me that she is in a long distance relationship with a guy 2 yrs. She doesnt want to give up but it makes her tired now. She keeps sending me signals ...

Dare I ask her out? She's not keen about having a b/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - i have a crush ona girl the same age as me. i m not sure if she likes me but we are really good friends. and she is not very keen to have a boyfriend! i dont know how to propose to her! any solution?...

Is he blowing me off and am I misreading his friendliness with something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I have been working with a guy at an office for almost a year. He is 21 and I'm 19 and we get along really well. We're both extremely sarcastic and we pass the day just teasing and joking with one another. I have been crushing on him for a while ...

Why do girls always end up with someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - My love life sucks. Every time I start to like a girl she ends up going out with some one shortly after I begin talking to her. Or she end up no longer talking to me in general. Not to say I don't get a girl once in a while but their not the ki...

New guy I'm dating is backing off because of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I'm not even sure where to start... I met this guy about a month ago, we hit it off really well and had a kind of whirl wind for the past 4 weeks. Everything was going great, until 4 days ago. I have been sinlge for a year before I met this guy...

Him watching porn is a side to him I don't know and I don't like it!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Basically, I have the best boyfriend, soon to be fiancee but I hate him wanking to porn. I have never been bothered in past relationships but I think because we are so close I hate the fact he hides it from me. I feel it's a side to him I don't know ...

I give up my friends, job to be with him in another country and then he leaves me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I met this guy 2 years ago while traveling throughout the world. We dated for a few months and went our separate ways. We kept in contact and i ended up going to see him in his home town and staying for 4 months living with his family, it was ...

He always comes back to me when other women hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I met this guy over 5 years ago when he was one of my employees. We talked everyday but never anything that I thought might lead to a relationship then or later. He was married and I respected that. I never though of him as a partner at all. ...

Why did my shy crushes mom keep looking at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Just last night, my crushes mom was over to pick her son up. My parents were also there (for most of the time, just my mom) and they were chatting with her. For time to time, I noticed her mom looking over at me the same way her daughter does. For ...

Going on date with b/f--how to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I really want to go on a date with my boyfriend just me and him alone somewhere but I dont know what we could do or where we could go, also i dont know how Id ask him......

Will my boyfriend dump me if I get spots?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much and he has told me millions of times that he loves me and he calls me beautiful loads (which makes me feel good) but he keeps making fun of people with spots and unattractive people when he talks to me, and I am just ...

I don't know how to act atound my boyfriends mates

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8 May 2010 (F) - i love my boyfriend so much but I dont know how to act around his mates, its not that I'm affraid of them or anything its just that I dont want to let my boyfriend down by acting weird, also Im affraid they might make fun of me or something...what ...

I really wish I could talk to my mom about relationships

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8 May 2010 (F) - I like my mum but I feel like I dont want to tell her anything about my relationships because I find it hard to talk to her about stuff like that (and I think she'll probrably tell all her friends) and I really do want to tell my mum how much I love ...

I like her but am wondering about her relationship status. Should I ask her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - Should i ask her if she have boyfriend or not? I just broke up with my ex about 4 month ago. This new girl is a good friend of my ex. They share same classes. I have my own reason for my breakup. But in their mind my breakup was becaus...

My boyfriend told me not to talk to other guys. I'm scared he'll leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been fighting lately and we love eachother very much i feel like everythings my fault of all the fights im scared that hes gonna lt me go again im happy with him but the other day my guy friend gave me a hug like a friendly ...

I spend more time playing up to friends than being with my boyf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4926 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Well I have a boyfriend and we've been together for about a month now. He is really sweet and he trys to spend lunch-breaks with me at school but I never know what to say to him or what to do...and I feel really bad cus i spend most of my time ...

He asked me out but I'm in love with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - ok, so there's this guy that really likes me. He's 18, did i mention im only 13 almost 14? Well anyways he wanted to go out but i sort of said no. he said he wasn't mad or anything, so that's good. But here's the catch, his younger brother's is 16 ...

I'm scared about meeting his family and having all the attention on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of eight months has asked me to come to his little brother's birthday meal at a restraunt and I'm in two minds.. I've met his older sister and Dad before who were both nice (although his Dad was a little.. unwelcoming but my bf had wa...

I hate my boyfriends best friend! He wanted to have sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid I HATE my boyfriends bestfriend..ever since i refused to give him sex he has been trying to break up me and my boyfriend !!No matter what i do my boyfriend does not belive me when i tell him what he's bestfriend is doing.I dont wan...

I told him I had a problem with porn, now I watch it myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'll get to the point. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. I love him very much. Each passing day I want and need and taste for him. I have had many abusive relationships. I told him that I ...

How do I cope with conflicting emotions while continuing to support him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I am dating a great guy I met at work. We have known each other for almost two years and been dating for six months. Over these months I've gotten to know him much better and we have gotten quite close. However, we've had to go through some dif...

Why isn't he giving me attention now we are going out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5112 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Since the begining of December this guy has been staring at me in class talking about me nonstop even when I'm not there ( say my friends who are there) and he has been holding my bags holding my hand always offering to let me cheat of him ect. Well ...

I wish I could remember. why am I stuck in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I have a huge problem i really need help with. Over 4 months ago i got back with my ex i had been with since i'v been a teenager. We have both gone throug rough times together and i have suffered badly from depression in the past. We were both hard ...

IM troubles

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I'm in my late twenties. I run my IM while at work, it's OK with my work provided I get my work done. I usually keep my window minimized to my system tray. Occasionally I notice I have a message, pop open the window, respond, and go back to work. ...

How do I deal with the reality of this change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - What do you do when you realize that your ex doesn't like you as a person? In most of my relationships, the guys said they liked me, and even wanted to spend a lot of time around me. But, when it came to romance, after the first few months, they...

I'm 15 and a father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

8 May 2010 (M) - I'm 15, and going to job corp with my gf. I got her pregnant and job corp allows pregnant woman to live there with benefits and I know i'm going for sure because well I love her, and she has my kid. I refuse whoever suggests to terminate the ...

Looks at other women while talking to me. Haven't confronted him yet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Hi I have been dating this guy for 18 months and I really thought it was my imagination, but whenever we go out to a pub for a drink, I see that when he is talking to me, he isnt actually looking at me, he is eyeing up the barmaid or passing femal...

Nervous. First time haging out alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I'm hanging out with this guy I really like next weekend...and I'm wondering what I should do. Hes my friend...and we've hung out before...but this is our first time hanging out alone... I'm not sure what I should wear... or any flirting techni...

Would hanging out with him but without her be okay?

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8 May 2010 (F) - Well, I'll get straight to the point. I want to hangout with one of my best friends boyfriend. Just as "friends" though. Nothing more. I do like him and have before they even started going out, but now that they are, im limited. Maybe just go to the ...

We are in love but afraid to be with each other

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...

Three year dating and he will not get an STI check

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - My partner will not get an STI check up even though he has had numerous sexual partners and even a son! We have been together for three years but I have wanted to wait until we had sex. What should I do?...

He is Mr Right but I can't commit

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

8 May 2010 (?) - when i'm with my boyfriend i love him and feel like i could be with him always. he's affectionate and sweet. i feel very lucky. but when we're apart - we live in different cites and sometimes don't see each other for a couple weeks - i feel lik...