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*ondrake
writes:I have a situation for you:I see this young woman, occasionally, when we have managed to catch the same Metrobus on our short ride to work. (Different jobs, same exit.)We've caught each other's eye. She's very attractive; has this mystique. I also see her get on the Metrobus every morning with a guy. I'm assuming they're involved. She now *stares/gazes* almost unabashedly. Prolonged sidelong glances at me, even when talking to directly to him. I'm a man, I can handle it. I meet her gaze and hold it until she looks away. These, I know, are very strong high interest signals. Were it not for him, I would have struck up a conversation Ions ago. A female friend, whom I respect dearly once said,"Never hit on a woman while she is with another guy." This eye dialogue we're having is very intriuging. Opinions and suggestions are welcomed. Reply to this Question
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reader, vondrake +, writes (12 May 2010):
vondrake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionApologies for the delay in responding to and acknowledging the comments, suggestions & opinions.
None-the-less, Thanks a million. I normally listen to the little guy in my head, but to quote an episode, "My little guy can sometimes be an idiot."
Yes..I've seen her/them again which made the counsel even more invaluable.
It was great having a game plan.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Yes, I agree.... NEVER hit on a woman while she is with another guy.
However, if there ever is a day that she is by herself by all means try talking to her. You never know, that could be her brother that she is seen with normally. ;-)
Otherwise, there is not much you can do... except strike up a conversation with BOTH of them, keeping it neutral and polite. Maybe they'll shed some insight by how they introduce each other like "Hi, this is my co-worker..." or "Hi, this is my girlfriend/boyfriend..."
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 May 2010):
Listen to that respected friend. Never hit on a woman while she is wither another guy. Listen to that.
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