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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been fighting alot and we love eachother. we're 15 and have been together for just about a year. a couple weekends ago we had sex for the first time and it wasnt his first time but it was mine, and now if we dont do things or have sex he gets mad at me. and recently ive been depressed with things that are going on, and i will sometimes feel like i dont really wanna be in a relationship or that it can be to much. am i feeling this way because im depressed or because of the fighting and everything? and what can i do to not feel like that or to try to bring my feelings back up for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): Hello dump him dear. Take some time off from relationships. You have plenty of time to find someone who will treat you well.
Good luck
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Take control of your own life. Do not let him control you and do things against your wishes.
Either he submits to your terms or you will leave him. You will remove the source of your depressions and unhappiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): He sounds very imature to me. You should dump him asap he is using you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 May 2010):
Dump him immediately. He's using you for sex and nothing else.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (10 May 2010):
 You are feeling depressed because you are in an abusive controlling relationship. Sadly many teenage relationships are this way because one person or the other lacks the emotional maturity to date respectfully. I think you should see his behaviour as a big red flag to warn you about the future. There is no doubt this relationship is heading for disaster as he does not make you happy, forces sexual advances on you and is emotionally controlling. You should leave him and your mood will improve as a result. It takes courage to leave a relationship that is not right for you but that is better than dragging things on.
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