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He comes on strong and then pulls away!

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Question - (31 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been dating this guy for a year and a half. I have fallen in love with him and I dont know if I should tell him because he has me confused. One min he acts like he really likes me and another min. he's pulling away. What should I do.

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A female reader, PsILoveYou United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2010):

PsILoveYou agony auntMy boyfriend was also like that. That's what I call 'part of flirting'. Maybe he is afraid that other people to know that he is on a relationship with you(that is what mine thought) He acts like he doesn't care but deep in a boy's heart, you are their world. Let him be, all boys are like that (ok, not all) But if this goes too far, do something, like, keep trying to talk to him and when he is annoyed, let him chill till he is ready. Best of luck! :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

Sounds like he is playing hard to get!! Make a move..

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

Definitely don't tell him you are in love with him. When he pulls away just call him out on it. Most people want to play stupid little games of cat and mouse, but sometimes enough is enough and you have to call them out on their crap. I did, and he doesn't do it anymore.

But if you've beeing "dating" a year and half and it still hasn't gone anywhere...it doesn't sound like he's fallen in love with you.

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A male reader, havingsex United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2010):

your guy is just upset,you havent had sex and you havent asked him to marry you!! DO SOMETHING!

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