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I'm ready for our first kiss, but how do I get him to initiate it?

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Question - (30 May 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *hawtielove13 writes:

i want to kiss my bf but im to scared i dont want to make the first move so how can i get my bf to kiss me?

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (4 June 2010):

Are his friends around when all this is going on? because you are always bringing up his friends! what do they have to do w/ you kissing him or him kissing you tell them to shut up and go find them a girl to kiss and leave you 2 alone and maybe then you can plant one on him i have never heard of it being planned out to kiss someone it should all be natural you know what i would do when he is looking at you in the eyes and you him just lean over slowly keep looking at him and just kiss him softly and then part and stay looking at him and hold yourself and smile. done and believe me he will love that one!!!!

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A female reader, shawtielove13 United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

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shawtielove13 agony auntok, my friends have told him to kiss me but he tells them he want to french kiss but he dont know if it is ok with me

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (31 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntHe won't leave but will sit quietly until he receives his presents...LOL! Don't worry ,just muster up enough courage to tell him to close his eyes

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A female reader, shawtielove13 United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

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shawtielove13 agony auntbut that will make me more nrevous and he wont know what to expect he might think ill leave.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (31 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntI think when you are alone together, ask him to close his eyes because you want to give him a surprise. Or better still blindfold his eyes.Then plant a sweet lingering kiss on his lips.

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A female reader, shawtielove13 United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

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shawtielove13 agony auntbut every time we r alone he cant look at me and my friends have been telling him to kiss me and he tells my friends that he wants to kiss me but he dont want to kiss me and me not want to be kissed because he cant trust my friends!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (31 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntIt is easier to kiss him than to try to make him initiate the kiss. Don't be shy.Your kiss will always be welcome by him.

In this area, it is easier for the girl to lead. He is even more scared than you . In his mind, he may be scared of kissing you and may fear getting a tight slap for any impropriety.

Just pucker your lips and plant a light kiss on his lips and the rest will follow.

Stolen kisses are always sweeter.

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A female reader, shawtielove13 United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

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shawtielove13 agony auntwhen i try to get by him he gets real scared and doesnt say a word i know he wants to kiss me to because i talk to his friends, and the only time i can get by him and him be ok is when his friends are by us but i dont want to kiss is his friends are right there and i know his friends and they will go tell everyone how i kissed him

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A female reader, shawtielove13 United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

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shawtielove13 agony auntbut every time i try to get near him he makes up a exues to leave i know he want to kiss me to because i talk to his friends.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (30 May 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntStroke his face with your face quite close to his. It will all follow fairly naturally after that

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