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What is his deal? I don't understand, does he like me or not?

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Question - (30 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have this guy friend who I like, who may like me I'm not sure. There are two things he did that really bug me because i don't know why.

One was he and his best friend randomly stopped by my work (I work in a bridal store) to just say hi and talk to me. I didn't know they were coming. And I was supposed to see them later that day anyway. Why would a guy visit a girl in a non-guy-friendly enviroment for no reason? (i work in a bridal salon) He also invited me to another event while he was there.

That day we went to a drive-in movie together and on the way there he sat next to me (i was in the mddle) and he had his arm around me, well on the seat behind me, for most of the ride (it was about an hour). His best friend, his bf's gf, and another friend were in the third seat behind us, and another girl friend was sitting next to me. Do guys just do that to be comfortable or is it a "i like u" subtle sign?

The one thing that is confusing is that i know he has other female friends and he'll call them up sometimes just to tell them about his bad day or something and he doesn't call me even though he hs my number. He had known them longer, we've only known each other about half a year but we've only started to be good friends and hang out about 3 months ago. Do you think thats why he doesn't call me, or is he just being friendly with me?

Thanks :)

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A female reader, Holdonthere United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

Hey.

Well guys are weird haha:)

But I think he probably likes you and his reson or not calling you is probably because he actually likes you and doesnt want to say something to mess it up or embaress himself.

But you two seem to be pretty close so give it a little time, and see what happens from there:)

Liv.

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