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writes:i'm with my boyfriend 8 months now and were very happy together, we've never had a fight yet do you's think my relationship is healthy? my friend keeps saying to me its weird we haven't had a fight she fights with her boyfriend all the time, me and my boyfriend have nothing to fight about or sex life is healthy he's not rude to me or arrogant he's the perfect gentleman i think, i'm just wondering what everyone else thinks.
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reader, Hippieman182  +, writes (8 June 2010):
 My sister has been with her husband for 10 years now and they haven't really argued at all. they have their disagreements but they always accept the other persons views etc. 10 years! so with you two i'd say theres nothing wrong..i'd sooner be in a relationship without all the stress and arguments. You've got something great there. Be happy! :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 At one point or there other there is bound to be a fight unless you are both extremely good at keeping up a mask and accepting everything there is without getting the slightest affected. Do you live together? Anyway, your relationship is fine, and don't worry, there is bound to be a time when you two will disagree on something, and that is fine too! It is also great to have found someone to share a peaceful relationship with. It is probably just in the nature of the two of you, you are calm people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): every relationship is different from the next. you can't compare yours and your friend's.
what she (your friend) can be worried about is if you don't really discuss things that maybe you should discuss. if that isn't the case, then just enjoy the good relationship!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): I think your relationship is healthy, yes. Your friend is just comparing your relationship to hers. Because she fights with her boyfriend a lot, it will probably seem strange to her how some people do not fight in a relationship. Likewise, if a couple never fight, it will seem strange to them how some couples are always fighting. I think it is just about how different people relate to each other. Some fight, others don't. As long as you are happy, I don't think you have anything to worry about. x
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (31 May 2010):
 I don't think that constant fighting is a sign of a good relationship. If your relationship is working, don't worry what your friend is telling you. Perhaps she wishes that she had it as good as you :)
I've been with my BF for close to a year and we haven't had a fight. We don't always agree on things but we never let that escalate into a fight. We know when to compromise and talk things through.
I think if you're expressing your feelings and he is as well and you just get along and never fight, it's a good thing. If however one of you is keeping their mouth shut and not saying what they think in fear they will cause a fight, then that's a problem.
But really, if you're happy and he's happy...enjoy it :))
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