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writes:Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i dont have a tummy but.. i just hate it and want to know what guys think is a good weight. Reply to this Question
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 You're FAR from overweight. My last girlfriend was 5'1" and ranged from 115 to 130 during out time together, and she was beautiful. You're taller and thinner. You're FINE.
That said, weight is by no means the measure of a person. If you love yourself, others are going to love you too. If you think you're unattractive and act like you're unattractive, people will shy away from you. Just be confident in yourself and it's will be fine.
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reader, Caring Stranger +, writes (16 February 2010):
 honey, every guy likes different things. Some guys like skinny girls, some like really big girls. In my experience guys like a girl with curves!
but you really need to stop worrying....any guy that is worth being in a relationship with will like you for your personality first and foremost. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say.
you are not fat so please stop worrying. your body has not finished growing...your body will continue to change shape and you will get taller. love yourself for the person you are. there is nothing wrong with you at all!
xxx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
Your body has a long way to go before it is finished growing. And a guy will like you for who you are. Stop worrying so much and enjoy being a teenager instead. There is nothing wrong with you. Your body is going through a lot of changes and won't be done for a few more years. You're not fat at all.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 Don't worry about you weight. It has taken me years to have this epiphany but I was looking around at all my friends and who they liked and who they were with and I realized, weight and looks really don't matter all that much. Inner beauty really does shine through.
You can wear make-up and try to look nice (it's always nice to do that for your own self esteem and for whoever you like :-) ) but once you get to know someone and see who they are and make a connection and there's chemistry, nothing else matters all that much.
good luck
xx
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 No, you are not fat.
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