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writes:So I'm separated from my husband. We still get along, we just realize it isn't going to work. I have this male friend who I've gotten close to since. We live in separate states, I've visited him and he's visited me. We talk all the time, he calls me sweetie. I really think that I could fall for this guy. Problem is that he's not sure what he wants. One minute he's very affectionate towards me and says that he cares about me and then he'll say that he's messed up and can't have a relationship with anyone. Do I wait and see if this guy will come around? Reply to this Question
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reader, kelsey18  +, writes (16 February 2010):
 Try not to think about if your going to fall for him or not and just go with the flow. its early days he doesnt want to rush into anything. Don't get him worried and scare him away by asking any big questions about relationships and stuff. Just get to know him a bit better and don't give him the wrong impression about you-if you know what i mean (just because your only 'seeing' eachother for now doesnt mean its going to become a friends with benefits type thing does it?) so yeah spend some more time with him b4 you rush into anything too soon. x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 February 2010):
Slow right down with him and spend more time getting to know him. He seems like he's not ready for a relationship yet. Give him time, have some fun for yourself since you've just separated from your husband. Don't jump into anything with this other guy yet.
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