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writes:Mod Note:, could not use your chosen title, so i've taken liberty to rename it...Hi i am 18 years of ageand my girlfriend is 20we were thinking about having sex for the past weekwhen the time cameI was hard but not hard to enter her so she have to sit on me to get it in but it just come back outthis happen on 4 times we wanted to have sexi have masturbated in my years before meeting heris that why? Reply to this Question
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reader, Seto +, writes (5 August 2010):
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I will slow down next time ^^
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (5 August 2010):
Hi there. I don't think you need to worry that masturbation would cause a lack of erection being sustained. Masturbation is a perfectly normal thing in finding what brings you physical pleasure.
In fact, it helps you to get to know your own body and your girlfriend to know hers.
What happened, was you were probably not quite ready for the actual intercourse part. You probably tried to rush things a bit. Anxiety will make you lose your erection, and also if you don't get enough stimulation prior to insertion.
There usually needs to be a certain amount of foreplay before you are both ready. You both need to be sufficiently stimulated, your minds as well as your bodies. Simply experiment with what feels good to you both and just go with the flow. You have to be in the mood. Sometimes people think they are in the mood, but not as much as they thought. Just don't rush things - take your time. There's no hurry.
And last of all, please do not get anxious about it and think it's going to happen again. If you both take your time, relax and enjoy the foreplay without thinking ahead to the sex act itself, it will be a much more fulfilling experience for you both. It really needs to be experienced in the present moment - don't worry whether you are doing it right, or think ahead to whether it will succeed to sex and orgasm. It's the journey that's more important, not the destination. Making love is a wonderful life adventure.
Hope this helps you both. Enjoy !! And take care. Best Wishes.
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