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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been interested in this guy for a while now, and whenever we have spoken, he seemed attracted to me, too. He got my phone number after a while and invited me to some things. The only problem is this: he is interested in becoming a preist! This summer, I started dating someone else. However, mid-summer, this guy contacts me through email, just to check up on me and see how i am doing, and we exchange a few emails. In his last emails, he has said that he is not looking forward to seminary and he is not sure how long he will last there. He also told me that he has never dated anyone! My other relationship has ended and I want to write to this guy in a way that will make him want to be with me instead of half-heartedly going to the seminary!how can I do this?? This guy is really shy but also really sensitive...and very simple, not in a bad way, though. I feel bad wanting him to drop the whole preist idea, but I can tell he cares about me and maybe he just needs a few hints that I care for him too? creative answers would be greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Sorry my reply is none to creative but be straight forward and tell him I have feelings for you, I dont want you to drop this preist thing although secretly you do, and you would like to see more of him and hint hin I could be your first real relationship. Meet up with him try actually being honest and blunt with your e-mail or swop #'s and then ask or tell him how you feel and how he feels about you.
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