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writes:Need some advice... Here it goes... I have known this girl for about 5 years now... She and I hav always been cool with each other... And about 5 months ago she and I finally hooked up... At first she and I agreed that it was just going to be casual sex... But both of us began to get feelings for eachother... Eventually she and I were dating with out the "boyfriend" "girlfriend" title... Here's the hard part about a month ago I moved away to persue what I want to do for the rest of my life... Being that it was only 3 hrs away I could visit when ever and she could visit me when ever... I went home to visit her after my first week of work and living in a new place and she decided to end things... So I was a little hurt and she and I hadn't talked for about a month... After almost a whole month of not talkin she text me about how much she missed me and whatnot... After an hour and a half phone call she wants me to come home for the weekend and hang out sleep over ect. Ect... Do you think it's wise to go home on a surprise visit or do you think now that I'm 3 hrs away in a new state I should just let it b what it was and forget about her and I being together? Pls help me I'm torn....
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (5 August 2010):
 3 hours isn't much. If there is even the remotest chance that she could be someone important to you, give it a shot.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
 This is a toughie...Now do u still have feelings with this girl or if u go home will it be one-nighter? Now if u still have feelings for her, I would show up unannounced with a perfect bouquet of flowers in ur hand..women love that we see it in movies all the time and wish someone would do that for us. After the hour and half phone call im convinced she doesnt want a one-nighter..bc if she just wanted a piece of rear then the convo wouldve been short and sweet or a text. U do live 3hrs away in another state and u do meet so many new ppl, and im a fan of keeping ur options open and always have a few on the back burner. But give her a lil nice surprise and ull probably get laid and then the ball is in ur court decide where u want it to go from there
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