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30-35,
*ovly39
writes:i fell in love with my friends boyfriend. and well at first i didnt even know i liked him like that but something made me realise i like him as more then a friend. (btw all my freinds and family and even HIM knew i liked him before I EVEN knew) and i think i REALLY screwed up 'cause i was texting him late and well shit i told him i LIKED him and he said he LIKED me back and well i was all like dancing about and really happy then i went "crap" and i asked him what about his girlfriend, my friend, and he said he 'loves' her. but all i hear him say about her is a complaint, and it really seems like shes trying to push him away. she over contolling, REALLY JEALOUS(like for no reason jealous she gets angry if he hangs out with ANY girl), and she constantly gets angry at him for no reason, keeps saying stuff to him like "i dont think you love me anymore", and before her he was dating a girl and she cheated on him for a MONTH before he knew and she knows that but still makes jokes about how she might be cheating on him. and now i think she hates me and is trying to get him to stop hanging out with me. both me and him hate cheaters so we would never do anything. but im also not gonna just stand by while she makes it so i cant even see him. what the freak am i supposed to do????
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 August 2010):
 What the "freak" (geez, lady) are you supposed to do?
This girl is supposed to be your friend. No wonder she is jealous and may well hate you. Whatever the problems with her boyfriend, I can't say I blame her. She has plenty of reason to be angry with him and with you.
You ask what do you do: You recognize the fact that this boy still has a girlfriend - YOUR FRIEND moreover - whether he likes her or not, which means YOU back off! Stop texting him and making plans to see him UNTIL SUCH TIME AS HE ENDS it with her. And even then, you don't rush to start seeing him five minutes after they break up ........No, you wait a decent interval - say a month, it won't kill you - until they have an opportunity to achieve closure and begin to go their separate ways.
THAT'S what you do.
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