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writes:Well I'm 14 and my bestfriends brother was flirting with me and we went to the beach together with my bestfriend we was sitting down and he kissed me and said he wants to be with me,But I don't think my bestfriend wants us to be together,I love him and he always tells me he loves me. What should I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Love is a big word for someone to say to you and I don't get how yous can be in love if he only just kissed you. Don't fall too easily because there's always a chance you could get hurt. To be honest if I was in your situation I'd talk to my best friend, find out what the craic is and see if she really doesn't want you going out with her brother. If she has good reasons for it, listen to her, as your best friend she should have your best interests at heart. But if she's just jealous or something stupid like that, I'd go out with him anyway if you really think he's a decent guy. But you really have to think hard about it, don't rush into anything because if you mess up, there's a chance you could lose your best friend forever. Always remember that friends were there long before boyfriends and often they're there long after too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnx
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reader, dcpompey +, writes (21 August 2010):
Hi well I think your friend probably doesn't want her brother going out with her best friend because she perhaps doesn't like him and doesn't think you should or maybe she is jealous if she doesn't have a boyfriend herself and she sees people who she knows very well going out with each other that might make her jealous! Don't worry about because if you and her brother really love each other then stay with him and talk to your friend about it hope this helps!
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