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Why did he hug me so long?

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Question - (21 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend went on our first date yesterday. at the end, he hugged me for ages, i mean like really ages. afterwards, i suddenly became shy, he was going to kiss me, but i turned my head away. i havent heard from him since. what i really want to know is why did he hold me for so long and why did i feel so shy?

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (21 August 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntWhy would anyone hold anyone for that long? Obviously he feels something for you. You're dating aren't you, I mean, are you really that surprised that he hugged you for so long?

I hope that helps.

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A male reader, RIKI93dw United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2010):

I believe he hugged you for so long is because he really likes and wanted to show you that. I think you became shy is because you didn't really expect a hug which lasted for as long as you described. I think you should probably talk to him about it.

I hope I answered you're question in a way that helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2010):

he most probably held you for a long time because he had, had a good time and wanted to just have a little kiss, but you were shy probably becuase you didn't really know what he wanted, just call or text him and say that you really enjoyed the other night but you were just a little bit shy because you didn't know what he wanted! Hope this helped.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (21 August 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony aunthes your BF but youve only been on one date... so how is he your bf exactly? Well any way its funny you ask this question.. he might have hugged you because it was his first hug maybe it was because he really likes you.. but i hug girls for a long time when i say good buy just so they will remember me better..

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2010):

Miamine agony auntHe likes you.. hugging and kissing the girl you like feels good. You turned away and did not kiss him, now he thinks you don't like him and he thinks he did something wrong. If you like him, you need to phone him up and tell him that you thought that your date was fun.

Tell him your shy and your not used to dating, but tell him you like him and think that he is cute. Boys are just like us, they can get shy and confused too. Now he probably thinks that you don't like him very much and he's probably very sad and worried.

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