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anonymous
writes:dear cupid,I want to have sex with my soon to be husband but the problem is that I dont know if he wants to have sex with me. How can I tell if he wants to have sex with me before the weding? Reply to this Question
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reader, Share Bear  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 If you're not able to discuss this with you're fiancee, should you really be consenting to marry him? -at least before you even learn how to communicate with each other?
I'm not saying that you should call it off, but simply that you should give this anomaly some serious consideration. Why did you approach a help site before even attempting to discuss with your fiancee?
If you're consenting to spend the rest of your life with this man, surely you should be able to discuss anything and everything with him if it's going to be an honest and successful marriage?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 November 2009):
 Dear "Mrs.McMeow,"
Your opinion on men is possibly valid and insightful, but I think we are really quite simple and similar in needs to most any woman. All of us possess a drive to seek satisfaction, in whatever fashion it can be achieved. Within what might be considered "normality," satisfaction would include mutual love, caring, support, understanding, warmth, comfort, humor, stimulation, excitement and more. Fortunately, sexual relations between good mates can provide all of that, but indeed, it is always a challenge to understand exactly how to put the puzzle together.
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reader, Mrs.McMeow +, writes (8 November 2009):
 It will be special if you just wait... But then again I am a firm believer in try it before you buy it. Just because you have sex before the wedding doesnt mean that the night has to be any less special. I mean hello you just got married what isnt hot and steamy about that?Never try to read a guy. They are strange odd creatures lol. Talk to him. Ask him. Discuss concerns and wants and MAKE him give you input if you have to. Get him to talk to you. If you cant communicate you have a problem that should be resolved way before inserting peg B into slot A.Good luck and congrats on your engagement
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reader, justforfun +, writes (8 November 2009):
Sounds like he wants to wait for that special night, donot ruin it for him or urself
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reader, CrimzonRayne +, writes (8 November 2009):
Well, I'm not a sponsor for waiting till marriage, but if you're about to get married, then why not wait?
It'll be even more special. :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 November 2009):
 If he's the average guy, he must have wanted to have sex with you way before he proposed :-).
q1605, I consulted my ouija board and yes, the spirits agree with your grandma. The man wants sex with this woman. What they couldn't answer to me, and perhaps the poster can answer to herself, is whether the poster wants to have sex with him before the marriage. The angels got into a fight with the little demons, and my broadband connection to hell was down, so I can't tell you that part.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 November 2009):
To "q1605," it will not be all too long for me here, and I'll hope to meet your grandmother. She sounds like my kind of gal.
To the anonymous female poster, why don't you just ask him? Or jest wait til "soon" and let it be special for each of you.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Why don't you just ask him? if he is going to be your husband you should be honest and open with eachother.
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