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Why do I keep thinking back about this incident from my past...?

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Question - (12 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *achel O writes:

hey, i dont really know how to put this, ill try to keep it short.

I was talking to my boyfriend the other day about embarressing things we did when we were younger and one thing popped up that i remembered when i was little, in year 3. I went to a new years eve party at my anties and i remember this lad was there and he was 18, i needed the toilet and mum was busy and this lad offered to take me. But he took me into a room and um did like sexual stuff with me, i remember i used to show off about it when i was little beacuse he was older but then i didnt really know that there was anything wrong with it then is there anything wrong with it or am i being silly?

ever since i remembered about it, ive been really depressed about it, and i really dont know what to do, am i just being silly about it? really dont know what to do.

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A male reader, SUICIDEVICTIM United States +, writes (13 July 2009):

SUICIDEVICTIM agony auntyou didnt say what exactly he did to you sexual stuff can mean alot did he just touch you in a sexual inappropriate way or areas did he have sexual intercourse or penetrate you at all with anything. at any rate you have remembered it all theese years so it must have bothered you, this guy is basically a pedophile hes probably done something to many more girls or boys by now AND YES IT IS WRONG. Its not your fault for not telling anyone your where just a kid you didnt kno any better and you didnt do anything bad. i would say just try to move on and forget about it theres not mutch you can do about it after all this time if you still no the guy you can confront him but it wont do you mutch good one day hes gonna mess with the wrong girl and get caught. if you ever have chilldren dont ever let hem go off with some strange guy you dont kno

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