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female
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36-40,
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writes:I finally got round to texting the guy I like, at the weekend. He expressed an interest in me in the past and told his friends that he fancied me, but that was a few months ago now. Things have been kinda weird between us since then and we never actually got round to hooking up. Anyway, I decided to take the plunge and told him that I was aware that things between us had gotten a bit strange and that I would like for us to try to become friends again; I also said that I had been up for going out together that time, and that if his "interest" was still there, that I would like to for us to get together sometime; either way, I would be content if he just preferred to remain friends. To my surprise, he responded almost straight away and said that he hadnt found things awkward and that he thought that I was just quiet and he 'shy' LOL. He then sent another jokey message a few seconds after. We texted pretty much all that evening, and he asked me if I was doing anything over the weekend (I got the message that if I was in the city over the weekend, he may have asked me out). The conversation was quite jokey and random, but now I'm even more confused than ever!! Is he just being friendly, or does he actually still fancy me? I'm thinking that because he split up with a girl (after 2 months) a fortnight ago, that he may be waiting before starting anything new with someone else.
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