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I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend and I want to know where this relationship is going

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Question - (23 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I need some advice please. I have been seeing this man for about 2 mths. He just took me on a vacation over valentines holiday and paid for everything. He says we are friends getting to know each other. He also has had a talk with me 2 times about us dating, meeting his family etc. He lives about an hour away from me so I don't see him a whole lot. When I am with him everything seems great but when I'm away from him my head starts thinking. He doesn't call that much. Sometimes I can go 3 to 4 days without hearing anything from him. Is this normal or am I overreacting? Do you think everything is going well or is he being hesitant still thinking if he wants to get serious with me? Could he be dating others? Should I just be dating him to see where this is going or date others? I really like him alot. Thank you for the advice!

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A female reader, pastfirst United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

pastfirst agony auntWhy don't you just ask him! He may be just as unsure about you as you are about him!

Do you call him at all? Give it a try. Call him from time to time.

You seem to expect him to do all the running.

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