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*endy920
writes:I recently met a guy on an on-line dating site. We have been dating for a couple of months and sleeping together as well. Out of curiosity, I went on the site to see when he was last on-line, and it was TODAY. How do I approach him about this? I want to know if I am the only one he is dating. Is it too soon to ask that question?? Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Just one thing to consider. Did you login to see when he was last on the site? Then congrats, your were last online on this dating site when you have been dating for MONTHS, TODAY!
Maybe, just maybe he was doing exactly the same thing you were?
Why yes, I do believe in Santa Claus, why do you ask?
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reader, jabey  +, writes (20 May 2008):
after a couple of months and the fact you have slept together. you have every right to ask if you are the only one.
I went out with a guy from the internet, and actually after a month, I to saw he had still been on the site. I asked him a bout it and asked if we were a proper couple, and he insisted we were, so together we both deleted our profiles.
If he wishes to continue on the site or see other women, you have to decide if this is the kind of relationship you feel happy with. If it is not then you can only express that to him. Itis up to him what he wants, then you can make a decision, asto where you would like the relationship to go xxx
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reader, carlsgirl +, writes (20 May 2008):
have you checked to make sure that maybe he got online to delete his account on there or somethin. or if he couldn't to somehow let everyone kno he's seein someone. i'd go online and check. if he's still searchin, i would ask him about it and if he cant come up with a good enough answer, then i'd dump him. you want to be the only girl he's with. if he's looking for others to date and sleep with, then hes just a player.
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