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writes:Ok, I really like this guy at my school. I ended up telling him (even though it was through a game of truth or dare). His Gf just broke up with him a week ago and I dont know if he likes me back. Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? What do I do?Help! xox
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reader, jezman  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 it all depends on how he reacted the first time he knew, if he seemed afeected by it then i would recommend just hanging around with him more.
do you share an interest? talk about it, be open and friendly and im sure he will get to like you.
also you say he recently broke up with his girlfriend? if he still has feelings for her then it isn't a good idea to jump straight into the situation at hand whilst he may be confused about his feelings at the moment.
the main goal doesn't have to be going out with him at this stage. just get to know him more and when u start seeing signs to tell that he's interested in you then wait a little for him to ask you out.
if hes a shy guy and he doesn't ask you out just go for it nd if your both comfortable being around each other then theres a damn good chance that he's gonna go out with you :)
tell us how its going :D
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 I'd play it like this: give him the opportunity ask you out. That means being in his group of friends, out at restaurants with the gang, sharing homework... something... and flirt with him...
If all that doesn't work, then I think it would be fine to take the more direct approach and ask him instead.
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