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writes:Basically, I'm 15 I really really like this guy, he's 16, and I've told him. But before I told him I was asking him for help on 'How to tell the guy that I like him', he had no idea that it was him. When I did ask him for help he said 'If you're not comfortable in telling him, you should make the guy like you, and then tell him'.After I told him that it was him I liked. He was shocked, he didn't say 'I like you back' and he didn't say 'I dont like you back'. But I kinda got the idea that he doesn't. He said nothing will change between us and were still going to remain the same. But whats been bugging me is when he said 'Make the guy like you'.I want this guy to like me back, so how do i make him like me?Thanks.x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): i can understand your problem first you should know that the boy u fancy has a girl friend or not and wait till he turns 18 and just go for a few drinks (if possible)with him and hug him frequently and be sweet with him this might work..
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reader, jezman +, writes (21 May 2008):
 im happy to hear that :D
i really hope this relationship works out for you :):):)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all for your help.
Yesterday i asked him what he thought about me,
and he said he likes me back!
So, were taking things slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): No offence, but I doubt that he is an expert on telling guys that he likes them.
You have to be yourself or the relationship will not work, give it more time and maybe he will start to like you back, but it doesn't like he is interested at the moment. If he doesn't like you back then find someone else who does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): If i thought for a minute that a guy that i liked didnt like me then i wouldnt waste my time, end of.
take care
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reader, jezman +, writes (20 May 2008):
ok well obviously you cant just rush in and make him like you, it may take some time.why do you think he doesn't like you back?if he likes another girl then your chances are slim but if hes completely neutural then u may have a chance.you have to find things that you can do with him, similarities between you two. make a connection.dont forget that he now knows that you like him so act normal like you want to get over him. do this because i can almost guarantee that he will be more interested when he thinks that you're not interested in him anymore.its wierd i know but im a tennage guy and thats just how we work and i hate it lol.its only a suggestion, i hope it helps, keep posting to tell us how it goes and best of luck :)
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reader, rebbecarevenge +, writes (20 May 2008):
 hmmmm well if i was you id just joke about with him and to be honest just have a laugh the more you do that the closer you will get!
But dont make yourself seem fake, just be yourself!!
Best wishes!!
Becca
xoxoxo
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