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anonymous
writes:Ive been seeing this guy - called Harry - for the last week. Having been on a proper date yet due to work committments (we both work in the same field and we are super busy right now). Anyways, saw him at the weekend and we quite literally spent the whole weekend just cuddling on the sofa and laughing and joking. When it was time for me to head back home he offered to drive me all the way home in his car. It was 400 miles - and he then had to drive all the way back! On the way, we laughed and joked and had incredible conversation. He said he really wanted to take me out the next week when work had calmed down and told me that he really liked me. He has only sent me one txt message tho since then and hasn't replied to my other 2 msgs. I know he is busy at work, but does this all make sense to people? I guess i really like him and am just looking for reassurance.
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (20 May 2008):
 I think he's just busy. He already told you he would be, right? I don't need that much interraction, especially being on the phone and texting, I find it exhausting. I'm not sure why this doesn't make sense to you and I get kind of annoyed when I tell someone I'm going to be busy the next few days yet they are expecting something more from me, it tells me their needs are much more important than mine. Then you text him 2x. If him driving 400 miles and spending the weekend with you is not enough for you, he might be thinking what's the limit? I'm not trying to be mean but you have to look at this from his perspective. Now if he sets the wrong expectations like, "hey, I'm doing nothing in the next week so let's talk" and then disappears on you, that's something else all together. Chill out.
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reader, Confused4 +, writes (20 May 2008):
Dealing with the same situation. I am not sure if they are on a ego boost or what? What is the answer i don't know all you can do is not Text him anymore and if he is interested in you he will contact you. I really believe that most men like the hunt and when they get their prey they are not sure what to do with it. It is a game it sounds like.. move on or there will be more heartache. If he is too busy at work to take 3 minutes to contact you back,is a joke.. sometimes they are just players that like this game.
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