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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 Virtual or not, he's still cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): I'm the OP.
e's admitted there's been a virtual thing, he has to I've seen all the messages in his facebook. But despite this wording he claims they never met. He's had nights away with work around that time too. Surely if it was virtual you'd say "last time we were on chat or something".
But we have 3 children and I have no way of leaving him and he certainly won't leave.
I've got this woman's number but she won't tell me what happened. She hangs up.
He has ago at me telling me I'm wrong to dare accuse him of sleeping with her, I just wanted to check I wasn't the only person who would read those words to mean that.
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reader, Spiffeh..  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 I would think that he was having rumpy pumpy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): The text said she had sex with him,so he was obviously cheating.Leave him!
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female
reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (11 August 2008):
 from any womans perspective it wouldnt look good. and i bet trust is falshing in your head going omg has he cheated on me and you dont want to believe it but you dont want to ignore it either.. i see you have two choices. believe what he says that its not real, or kick his as to heaven and hell and back and get him out of your life.. when ever something horrible happens we all want to turn to someone and ask for their opinion and advice but at the end of the day its your discion what you choose to do you can believe or walk..you have to way the pros and the cons and go with your heart and mind.. i wish you the best of luck keep us posted lots of hugs aphex xx
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 I would think that he was having/has had sex with someone else.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Virtual? whatever. He's a cheater.
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (11 August 2008):
 yikes. that would look real to me, too.
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