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writes:What do if my mom finds out im bisexual, she absolutely hates people who arent straight and we already have a rocky relationship? shes been suspicious of late, so should i just tell her and hope for the best? She had a hard time accepting that i'm dating a black girl, so im afraid of how she will react. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI geuss ill tell her when i move out, but i dont think she will take it well. Thanks for the help!
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reader, Lonannuniel +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Whether or not you tell her is 100% your decision to make. Sometimes it's best to hold off on these things, and sometimes not. You know your mom better than any of us, so I think you'll make the right choice. From my experience, the people I know would rather I tell them the truth than keep it from them, even if it's something they don't approve of or don't like. That way they can take the steps they themselves need to take in order to both support me, and be okay with it for them.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Why tell her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Being a parent myself, I can't seem my children telling me ANYTHING that would make me not love them anymore. I don't approve of homosexuality, but I would get used to the idea real quick in my child told me they were or Bisexual. Your mom may not like it, but I truly think she will love you none the less. And if she dosen't, in years to come, she will regret it. Just keep loveing your mom, no matter what, but that dosen't mean expossing yourself to her criticizim if she fills compelled to give it. Best of Luck Sugar!
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reader, hewokitty101 +, writes (11 August 2008):
just its you. your mom will love you no matter what i promise all moms are like that. they will come to
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reader, Princess-babe-o8  +, writes (11 August 2008):
Don't tell your mum untill your about 20, you'r hormons are playing, you don't know if your bisexual or straight.
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