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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I escape this violent relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband is an alcoholic and is very abusive towards me both when he is drinking and when he is not. He is a control freak who will not let me do anything or go anywhere, and if i do there is always a hugh fight that lasts for days..he is always calling me a slut and says ... (165 words)

Drunken Texting has got me into trouble. How can I fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice. I found out this guy I thought liked me has been using me by talking to another girl at work and so at a party, she got really drunk and we took a friends phone and she texted him a message in which she called him a 'pig' after finding out he's sleeping around. ... (104 words)

Can Piles Affect Your Sex Life? What can be done about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My female partner does have piles for last whole year since she became pregnant. Since she had piles she is unable to have intercourse as she feels pain/uncomfortable when penetrating. Please advise if vaginal irritation has something to do with piles or it is/can be a separate ... (48 words)

Does she want to get back together or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, my ex and i broke up in may. since may up untill about start of july she had been saying she wants us, and she loves me. but not once has she said please could we try again at this marrage. Even if i have asked do you want us. When we had spoken together it had made me feel ... (256 words)

My mum says I can't stay at my boyfriend's house - but all I want to do is hold him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A posted another about my mum finding out about me losing my virgintiy well now she has left on holiday with my sister and she told me am not allowed him to stay over which i can understand but all a really want to do is just fall asleep beside him and wake up next to him but i ... (139 words)

Am I being totally ridiculous to think I even stand a chance of having a future with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was really great friends with this guy i work with and then his wife had a miscarriage. 2 months later he text me while we were out to tell me he had feelings for me, that he loved me. I told him I thought he was just having a bad time right now and that he wud work things ... (723 words)

I feel like he takes me for granted! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm extremely confused about my relationship. I have been with him for over 3 years now. I feel like he takes me for granted every six months or so. We have a row and then things better for a while but then the cycle continues. My boyfriend is a good guy, but I think he has ... (183 words)

Why he is not calling me back? What shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was working in the hospital in my workterm and a surgeon hit on me. He was really into me and even wrote me love letters, but I had a boyfriend at that time and I was not interested. However, after spending time with the surgeon, I developed feeling for him and broke up with ... (278 words)

I am having teenage disagreements with my BF, so I wonder if he loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have went out with this boy and we have broke up and now we are back together.He say he loves me and that he had never been with anyone that respects him like me,he had told me that he never wants to be away from me,so there is one thing i really wanted everyone to tell me ... (241 words)

He told me to "play with him" during cuddling, what did he mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - If your boyfriend says to you when your kissing and cuddling with him play with me what does it mean?... (20 words)

I've dumped him a few times because he's making me feel insecure but he keeps begging to come back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had an on and off again relationship with a co-worker for over a year now. Initially he was a bit over the top over how attractive I was, smart,etc. Then a few months later he was making comments, like 'if you were a ten you'd be used to people doing things for you' and ... (474 words)

I told him I want to have sex with him, so isn't the ball in his court now??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age - I told this guy at work 5 weeks ago that I want to have sex with him. He seemed very receptive at that time, but nothing's happened yet! I went away on vacation for 3 weeks and just returned to work last week. I've been ignoring and avoiding him, except we had one ... (93 words)

Is it possible for a man to ejaculate from anal stimulation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is it possible for a man to ejaculate from anal stimulation,if he is fingered anally?... (15 words)

Is it possible that I'm reading her wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 and i my problem is im not sure if this girl is just flirting with me or if shes sending me signals to ask her out. Heres abit of information on the story... ive known her for like 5 years, at first we were close and we went over to eachothers houses for about a year ... (217 words)

Sick of feeling belittled, any tips for gaining enough independence to at least put the family issues to rest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I've never had too much interest in friends at any point in my life, or guys, and have only had one person I'd term as a close friend and two boyfriends. Long story short, the friend is disappearing for long periods of time (think in terms of months or at the longest a year) ... (217 words)

How can I get my long distance boyfriend excited?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, i was jut wondering how i would give my long distance boyfriend a boner, ive done it once be for but im not sure how and would love to do it again. Anyway he was so cute about it and didnt know how to tell me, at first he was silent couldnt tell me over the phone so ... (70 words)

People were worried about me. Now I'm geting worried myself. Do I need a psychiatrist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is going to sound wierd, but people are concerned about my mental health and to be honest, so am I. I am VERY paranoid, if something happens I DO take it the wrong way every time, so that it ends up like things are against me.I panic easily, worry way too much and see ... (261 words)

My ex is depressed and made threats! Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma and i am hoping someone will be able to help me. Me and my ex bf have been off and on for a while now. Recently we have had huge arguments that have lasted for days. We both have said things we didn't mean. However, he has told me to f off when he is drunk... (272 words)

What do I do about the left over food I keep throwing in my neighbor's yard?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with throwing things in my neighbors yard...not actual litter, but things like hamburger rolls, half eaten peaches etc...i got in the habit of doing this in the beginning of the summer and now I'm afraid my neighbors are gonna get mad because there's just so ... (67 words)

I'm leaving and I want to tell him I love him. What do I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Tuesday I'm leaving on vacation. I want to leave the guy I love ( not yet dating) a message that tells him how much I love him ( without sounding over dramatic) and say somthing that will make him think of me while I'm gone. any suggestions on what to say ???... (56 words)

Does this boy fancy me or is he just a really good mate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ello I’m 13, my question is straight forward. At school theirs this play that the teachers organised and my year have to perform it, in these six week holidays we have to practise, and then on the 31st August we perform it in school in front of people who attend this fun ... (471 words)

I'm dreading his last day but what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ive been mates with a lad now for just over two years and I really really really like him. Not just as a mate...I think Ive fallen for him too. Hes in my thoughts CONSTANTLY, I stay awake thinking of him at night, everything about him is perfect to me. He is three years older ... (266 words)

She sees me through the week, someone else on the weekend. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this woman off and on now for several weeks, things are great during the week, Now when the weekend comes she sees the guy that she use to like and doesnt know what to do, But yet she keeps telling me throughout the week she wants me. Then last night he shows ... (104 words)

What can I do to see if this boy likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked a boy for quite a while and we've become quite good friends now. At first we didn't get on that well but now all of a sudden he's been really nice to me and asked me for hugs and stuff like that. I don't know if he likes me or not and it's really confusing me. I want ... (77 words)

My boyfriend fellated a guy! How do we have a healthy relationship again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I went on a weekend away with another couple that have been friends with us for years. In a drunken spell, my boyfriend and the other guy decided to experiment and gave each other blow jobs (without us girls knowing this). Later the other girl found pictures of ... (212 words)

What's a list of things a guy would do if he fancied a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Anybody can answer this question but would the boys out there please give me a short list of things that a guy would do if they were interested in or 'fancied' a girl? I'm 17 I work with a guy every saturday, [we are both at college and this is a temporary job fo... (205 words)

If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I was thinking about proposing ... (92 words)

What should I do about this annoying, cheap, and obsessive kid?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - This kid in my class is a total bitch lets call him "joe". He thinks this girl who dosen't like him belongs to him and he won't let anyone talk to her, lets call her "jane". So jane and one of her friends were walking around town and decided to come to my house( I don't kn... (211 words)

I would never encourage a break up...but...does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little confused as to whether this guy likes me as a friend or more than a friend! I've known him for quite some time, he was my first boyfriend's best friend (when I was 14). We haven't seen each other for a very long time, we didn't stay in touch, although over th... (502 words)

I feel like I'm overdosing on sex with my boyfriend! Is this just a guy thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and my BF is about 2 be 19 in 3 weeks we got together on september 19,2007... since than all he wants 2 do is have sex all the time and I dont know if its like a guy thing or what but I dont know what 2 do about him I love him 2 death but I think it might be over if he ... (79 words)

How do I get my friends to hook me up with people they know?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wondering what's a good way to ask friends and acquaintances to hook me up with their friends? Basically I just want to go on blind dates, meet new people, and have fun. I don't have a lot of friends-- most of the people I would be asking are just "good acquaintances" who ... (236 words)

I feel like my wife's insecurities are preventing me from having friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a question about making friends wrapped up with a relationship question. My wife and I have been together about ten years, though we were only married recently. We are about to move to a new city where we will both start grad school. Neither of us knows anyone ... (689 words)

He ignored me while we were with his friends! Should I have been more assertive and talked to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I went out with this guy for 5 dates. He's in a meetup.com group and he took me on 3 of the dates to go to the events with this group. On the 5th date he talked to his friends and had his back to me. Then he put his arm around his best friend who is a girl. I asked him to ... (116 words)

We were supposed to move in together but he purchased his son's house instead! Was I right to walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age - I was with my ex partner for two and a half years and we recelty broke up about a month ago. The reason is that we both agreed that he give up his flat and come to live with me which is what he really wanted. He then decided to purchase his son's house instead - it was never ... (111 words)

How do I build confidence in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just wanted to know do the majority of guys like gettin blowjobs?? Ive been with my boyfriend 10months and we have sex and everthing else but i have never given him a blowjob although he has given me oral, hes never said anythin about it or even asked why i havnt ... (168 words)

Is love enough to conquer all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Does Love conquer?? I thought I would ask for opinions on this. How long does anger, resentment and bitterness stay? Does it affect your relationship in the long-term? I am single/40 (never married), but was in a long term relationship (12+ years/home, then last 5 yrs it went ... (695 words)

I'm worried that having a sexy voice makes him want to masturbate and this may just be a sexual relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Sometimes when i talk to my BF he says i have a sexy voice or something like that, and i have been told by a lot of other too. I worry too, last time i talked to him he told me he wanted to maturbate.im just worried could this affect anything i love him and everything, but i ... (74 words)

Should I go out with him alone or with a group of friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Theres this guy who i really like and he likes me... We talk for 3 hours every night on the phone and we work at the same place so i see him there a lot... He wants us to get together and i really want to but do you think we should meet up more just the two of us first... (95 words)

I'm alone and hurting badly...how do I keep myself from falling so fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 34 years old, single and gay. I have been reading these letters and responses regarding falling in love so easily and getting hurt. I have always had this problem, when I meet a guy, and he would show some interest, I immediately fall oh so easily that it has resulted in a ... (237 words)

It started off stong and now it's fading!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've been with this guy for nearly 4 months now, and I am head-over heels for him. We used to spend so much time together, but then I went away for a couple of weeks. When I came back, he seemed distanced from me, we used to see each other every day, now I'm lucky if ... (99 words)

What are his intentions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone! i am in a fix. i love this guy but he is in a relationship with someone else.not a very happpy one,i am afraid.but regardless we are really very close emotionally,and no we haven't had sex by chance I overheard him telling a friend of mine that he really th... (160 words)

Should I be worried about his internet activity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never been bothered by my boyfriend reading "lads mags", in fact I got him a subscription as a gift. These magazines are tame though, some topless pics but mostly about sport and cars. However, I have noticed a number of pics and videos on his phone of half naked girls... (142 words)

Did I do something wrong to make him only view me as a sexual partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently ended a long-term on again/off again relationship with a married man. It went on for 14 years. I finally broke it off with him -- for good. This all happened in the last month and I am still sad about the whole thing, though I know what I did was right. ... (603 words)

Do you think it's worth getting back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up of year 3s. we were always so in love we had passionate love/hate.. he ended up being with someone else for a few days and she turned out to be a nightmare we didnt talk for the time we've been apart which is only a week soon enough and he ra... (159 words)

Was she seeing this guy before she broke up with me? How else did she move on so fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years split up with me then then just 6 weeks later she tells me she is dating someone new. Already! I can't help but think she was seeing this guy before she split up with me, or that she left me for him although she says she just met him... Is it pos... (245 words)

Is not bleeding after your first time normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am worried, if you do not bleed after having sex for the first time normal? so many of my friends said that after their first time they bled.. but i didnt and i havent used tampons either.. is this normal? ... (51 words)

He sleeps separately from his wife and I've waited 2 years! Why won't he give me a time frame?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age - I've been in love with a man for 2 years who is married. He loves me very much, wants to marry me, and plans to move out of home. I believe him - don't think it's just another married man has an affair episode. He sleeps separately from his wife and they discuss their ... (182 words)

I have strong urges to hurt him mentally, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a wondeful boyfiend and he loves me so much.I do love him and i know im extremly lucky to have him.I dont know why but for some reason i get irritated with him.Even when he hasnt said or done anything i just get this rage in me and i get shitty with him for no ... (100 words)

What do you think of friendships with the opposite sex when you're in a relationship? What are the boundaries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you think of opposite sex friendships? What are the boundaries when both of you are in relationships but not exactly friends with thier signigicant others? Is it ok to have one on one intimate opposite sex friendships? ... (39 words)

How do know if he's happy? If I'm doing it right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! i got something bothering me. I've just started having sex and i don't know if i'm doing it right! How do i know if I satisfy him or not and i'm still terribly shy that i can't even walk naked in the room in front of him! Is there any tips or signs that i should l... (72 words)

These girls say no to EVERYONE. How can I be the one to get one of them to go on at least one date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I want to know what I have to do to turn a bunch of Catholic School 7th grade Girls that refuse to have boyfriends into girls that will even go on at least one date, I mean all the grades ahead of us had girlfriends in 5th grade and alll the boys in are class won't ask girls ... (91 words)

I deleted the message from the "other woman" in which she gives news about her child and my husband's. How can I stop her from intruding into our lives again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A while ago I posted about my husband's year long affair - which resulted in a pregancy. My husband and I stayed together and both commited to working on our marriage - and things have been going very well(although still ups and downs). It is about 9 months since I discovered ... (521 words)

I think I want to move on, but he keeps kissing me! Should I just carry on with this weird relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Well I have a pretty straight forward question so I hope you can all help me. Basically I went out with the most amazing boy for a whole year and for someone my age that is practically forever!!!! Any ways and since we have been broken up we have stayed really gr... (191 words)

How can I tell if a guy likes me for more than just my looks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

- How do you tell if a guy likes you for you and not for your looks? Out of all the guys ive been out with, it always turns out they only really liked me for my looks and not for who I am. At the beguining of the relationship they pretend to be just like me and I always bel... (164 words)

Is it me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - help! i keep all my feelings inside like this week my brother lets call him 'a' had an asthma attack..so my parents attention is put on him. then people who are supposed to be my best friends let call them b and c put stuff in my drink which makes me sick and i end up going to ... (125 words)

I'm trying to conceive. Could I be pregnant now?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past two months, as i hardly see him, its hard to concieve on that exact day. Last month, we were unlucky as i had my period 3-6th July. Ihave 27 day cycles. i used this website to determine when i am most fertile, and this... (165 words)

I really miss seeing my brother. Is it normal to want to see him more than once a month?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all and thank for reading this. I'm 31 and I've always lived with my twin brother, first to save money, then just because we were both single and we've always been best friends. Then 6 months ago he moved in with his fiancee and her kids. I miss him a lot but he's ... (169 words)

I miss him and I'm lonely without him, but he has other women. Should I forget him or try to work it out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - When I was 20 I moved away from my home town in Florida, started a professional career in Texas. About 6 years ago, when I was home visiting my father in Florida, a guy I grew up with told me he's always had a crush on me and wished I would move back to Florida so we could be ... (302 words)

Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies... (45 words)

Lately it's taking me an hour and a half to orgasm. How can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel sexually trapped.... masterbation doesnt work anymore... lately its taken me about an hour and a half to orgasm which is extremely long for me. i dont have a gf and im left feeling in the dark alone. my world just isnt bright without meeting my sexual needs. i lost my ... (84 words)

He told me to leave him alone and stay away. I haven't heard a word for a week. Should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age - don't know what to do here. the man i've been sleeping with for four years jusy recently cursed me out like a dog for coming down to his told me to leave him alone and to stay away from him. i in turn sent him a letter saying i was sorry for making the foolish mistake of doing ... (132 words)

I don't seem to be quite a normal shape "down there". Will guys have a problem with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My vagina, a lot like a handful of other girls has large lips. I have been reading all of the answers saying 'oh! its no problem!' and i soon became fine with them. But i also have another problem. The hood on my clitorous seems a lot larger them all of my friends and every ... (95 words)

Is my best friend just assuming I'll go with her to an event? Or should I let a guy take me even though I don't really like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

- My best friend is going to this major event in our city in a weeks time. We always do things together, especially events like this. But the thing is she never invited me. I was out with her the other day at shopping and she ran into lots of her other friends and she asked them ... (171 words)

What's the best way to leave my rageful husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 24 and have been married for almost 5 years. things were wonderful for the 5 months before the wedding, but afterward, everything went to chaos. he goes through these frequent periods of what i can only assume to be depression (since he refuses to see a therapist). i h... (372 words)

Is it normal in most relationships for my boyfriend to not get along with my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im new to dating and i was wondering, in most relatinships is it normal for your boyfriend to not get along with your best friend?... (25 words)

We're not on the same wavelength as far as sex goes. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All, i have been with my girlfriend for many years now and i have a problem which is givin me headhaches. We are just not on the same wavelenght as far as sex. She just seems not to like sex so much, at least as much as i do, and i realy feel frustated by this. She see... (162 words)

I love my boyfriend but he's a workaholic. Should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a workaholic. He always works till 4:30am and he is not enough to spend time with me. I live with him and I always wait for him till 4:30am everyday including weekends. I cannot stand it but I still love him. Should I break up with him?... (50 words)

How do I stop people saying I'm gay? And how do I cope with a long-dtsiance relationship? And tell me about shaving for the first time please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i have 3 questions ite first one is im 13 and im strait but everybody thinks im gay. all my friends ,exept one, r girls any advise on how to get people to stop saying this? the second one is im 13 and i met a girl that i only get 2 c in the summer and we live in different ... (136 words)

Reducing excess tum skin, excercise or tummy tuck op?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok im 15 years of age i used to be quite large as a child but now i have lost the weight with growing up ect i am an average sie 12 and i must admit i dont appear to be Fat or overweight when you look at me however from where i have lost the wieght my stomach has just got s... (144 words)

My ex is always around but my fiancee wont let me even say hi!

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel in love for the first time at a young age. I was probably around 13. Everyone said it was puppy love and it'd go away. We dated for 4 years and he turned out to be everything I didn't want in life. So I left him in 2003. And I started dating my current fiacee not long ... (378 words)

He doesn't seem to want to be intimate at all now-why?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been toogether for the better part of two years. We have somewhat of a long distance relationship, but we see eachother most weekends. My question is in reguards to this: Up until a few weeks ago, he couldn't keep his hands off of me. We had a very ti... (154 words)

She is only 15, too young to date with me?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend have had feelings for each other for a long time. Now me, im very respectful when it comes to the ladies. I understand that if someone is too young for sex, then thats the way it is and im fine with that. There is a 4 year age gap between me and my best ... (126 words)

How can I get an orgasm?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 years old and have never had an orgasm. I've been close but never made it there. What are somethings I can try to get one. Toys don't work... (30 words)

Would you tell your ex you still love them before they depart for boot camp?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the deal. Almost four years ago, I fell head over heels for my guy-friend. We didn't become romantically involved until about a year and half ago. We were admittedly madly in love with each other but the relationship lasted a mere five months. We broke up amicably on the ... (311 words)

What is this feeling my ex is talking about?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend and me are still very close, in fact, we are best friends and prob will be for life, but she has something happen to her thats a little weird. Every time i say something sweet to her now, like ill always be there for you or you looked so nice today, or even... (156 words)

Will having a birthmark on my penis shift the mood?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - hey i no im not ready for sex but i just have a question i have a birthmark on my penis will that possibly make any problems for me by like shifting the mood or something like that?... (41 words)

My boyfriend just confessed he's bisexual! Could there be something going on behind my back?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just today my boyfriend of three years [on and off] has told me that he's bi. i figured, because it was VERY obvious but now its akward. we can hardly kiss anymore. and i've always wanted to have a three-some and he's THINKING ABOUT IT. is this just too good to be true... or is ... (146 words)

How do I know if he loves me for me and not because I talk dirty to him?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i know if my boyfriend loves me for me and not because i talk dirty to him? i dont all the time though, i mean we also talk about other stuff too but it still makes me wonder.... (40 words)

I suspect my friend likes me so how do I tell her I don't like her? I don't want to hurt her feelings...

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20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have suspions that my friend ( a girl ) likes me . I'm straight and I think she may be bi . how do I tell her I'm not like that without hurting her feelings???... (36 words)

Relationship fights while drinking: What is normal?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ;ust wondering when you are in a relationship and fighting, what is normal and what is not? Especially if drinking? ... (21 words)

Is my friend still a virgin if she masturbated with her boyfriend?

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20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok I have a question. My friend said her and her boyfriend masturbated in front of each other at the same time. I say she's not a virgin anymore but she says she still is ... whats your take on this ???... (42 words)

Should I keep on answering his naughty questions?

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20 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps asking me naughty questions i keep saying yes, since it turns him on should i keep answering?... (20 words)

Is it really possible to have an anal orgasm?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - recently I have been exploring my butt and and had been liking it. I was wondering of anyone had any good ways to get max pleasure, and is it really possibleto have an anal orgasim.... (35 words)

How do I know if a guy just wants me for my body?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do I know when my guy just wants me because of my body. He always stares at me with his eyes below the neckline.I have always caught him doing it too.how do I know?... (35 words)

How do I make my best friend's brother kiss me again?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - my best friend has a really hott brother. and he flirts with me alot. exept he is in high school. and im in middle school. we have made out. and he just stopped this past week. he just doesn't look at me or anything. my best friend knows that we make out...and she laughed it ... (78 words)

Do your legs space out when you have sex for the first time?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i am 13 years old and i am a virgin but there's this one question that i am dying to know when you have sex for the first time do your legs start to space out?... (37 words)

Who wants to marry someone when you can't trust what they say?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted several times before about my relationship but just when I thought the mass confusion was over..... Basically we have been together for 7 years and have a 4 1/2 month old son together. He can't hold a job so we all live with my parents and I work full time. ... (536 words)

Is there such a condition as "Love Addiction"?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am curious about a condition that is described in psychology as "love addiction". It is an actual condition in which people with the condition form very strong feelings on the people they are attracted to, and generally have an impossible time getting over such attractions. ... (73 words)

I get criticism for dating a white guy! Will marriage be an issue?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an african american female. i am currently dating a white guy who i really seem to like but i get a lot of criticism from friends and family, not really bad things just teasing. His family all love me and they are the coolest people. He makes me feel like i'm on top of ... (126 words)

I need help....I can't stop cheating on my boyfriend and he thinks he's the only one I've had sex with!

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - OMG!... I need help ASAP!... I can't believe im such a "b" !!! =(... I have a bf... im 23 he is 28... we have almost 4 years dating... I met him here in this country where I live now 5 years ago. Last year I got a phone call from a good friend from my country telling ... (826 words)

How come this guy I met at a bar never got an erection?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age - met a guy in a bar, went home with him, skinny-dipped made out for a couple of hours, he never got an erection, we were drinking heavily, tried to go all the way but he never could get it up, any answers?... (42 words)

Should I still love my best friend even though I'm in a relationship? it makes me sick thinking about it.

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known my best friend for 2yrs, Sept.14 last year he askd me out nd i had to say no, my dad wont let me date, i feel so bad i loved him very much stlll do too. Now i have my boyfriend of 3 months(plan on telling dad soon) nd just realized i still love my bff. My bf cant ... (98 words)

Does still being friends with your Ex really help?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I am still struggling with losing the girl I love, I have more info in my other posts but we broke up a few weeks ago, and I really miss her and would hate to lose her forever and would also hate just being a friend…. It would feel like a consolation prize compared to what ... (417 words)

World's best boyfriend...

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to figure this out... my girlfriend keeps telling me that I am the most amazing boyfriend out there, and I say the same about her. We both love each other to death and seriously speak about marriage. However, and maybe this has to deal with our current ... (298 words)

Isn't even a friendship based on trust or am I assuming too much here?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a woman on a dating site and she informed me she was just looking for friends as she had recently ended a long marriage and wasn't looking for another relationship. After one date and a lot of texting and phone calls for a week she revealed there had been a guy after her ... (125 words)

Should I just see what happens or step it up before the moment is gone?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi from the first couple of weeks i started to have feeling for my friend, he said he would think about it......a year on i have had a two month relationship, and he has just told me he regrets not taking the chance, AHHHHH, i am soo confused now all these feeling that i have ... (155 words)

My online boyfriend said he wanted to get married and then deleted me! What did I do wrong?

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really liked this guy and i knew him only online.I stopped going online and he started calling me 3 months after i stopped going online.He called me with 5 weeks difference, because i had feelings for him i tolerated that.He told me he wanted to visit me in canada and he ... (167 words)

We both agreed we could see other people but now I feel guilty!

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20 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So I am seeing this guy I'll call him C, I really like him a lot, and its mutual. We don't want a relationship, for me its because I am scared of commitment and I'm just not ready. For him I think he is just trying to sort out what he wants to do with his life before h... (281 words)

Is there someone out there for everyone? What if they live in another country?

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20 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm 25, English and never had a proper girlfriend. I'm also a virgin. The truth is nobody wants me. People say you'll meet someone but I know I won't. I know this question gets asked more times but I would like some help. The problem is I live in a little working class ... (265 words)