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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do about a guy that likes me AND someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really close to this guy, I told him i like him and he said he likes me back! Brilliant i know.. but then he said he liked someone else too, but fancies me alot. I'm not sure what to do, I think about him all the time. Any advice on what to do, would be much appreciated. :)... (59 words)

I think my teacher can help me through my depression but how do I know for sure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

- From what I've read on the net I believe I have depression.. I know I need help but Im scared and my parents wont let me go or do anything without them and I dont want to tell them because I find it extremely hard to open up and we dont get on. I finished school about 3 weeks ... (214 words)

What can I do about the degrading comments I get about my boobs?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Im 15 and have 34D boobs. I do like them (i consider them my best physical feature) but my problem is that i feel sometimes really degraded by the comments i get from boys about them. i dont wear low-cut tops to attract attention to them or anything like that - i cover up as i ... (107 words)

I like this lad that says I'm not his type but is he giving me the look of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i like a lad but he said that im not his type everyone says he likes me. i know that he keeps looking at me but i dont know if its a friendly look or the lok of love... (43 words)

Is it wrong to tell a man I hardly know that I love him? Isn't life about taking the bull by the horns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age - Is it so wrong for me to tell a man that I hardly know very well that I love him yes I do love him and I cant help it. Life is too short and my friend says take the bull by the horns and let him know then its up to him if he acts on it or not or if he runs of scared in the ... (154 words)

Why didn't he have the decency to tell me he didn't want to keep in touch anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age - I have been e mailing a man friend who always said he would always reply to my e mails but uinfortunately he hasnt recently so I assume our friendship is over for good. Why is it he couldnt have the decency to say that he had decided he didnt want to keep in touch anymore or ... (202 words)

I'm not worried about this other girl, but does this plan sound good with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Just to start off I have a deep love for my ex and now we're planning to get back together but there's a catch. You see he doesn't have much trust towards women due to what many have done him wroung including myself. So he's been talkin to someone else and wants a 3way rel... (729 words)

He flirts with me when we're alone, but he was very quiet when his friends were near. Does he not like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i like this guy called Jamie. I've liked him for.. ages really. When i see him at work, he comes across strong and i can tell he likes me. Everyday, he flirts with me, jokes around a bit.. the things a guy would do if he liked you. He hasn't asked me out though. He d... (254 words)

Men, can you recount about your relationships with younger females?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Older men (i.e. 30 and up)...have you ever considered a relationship with a significantly younger female? (I am not asking for petafiles to respond.) Did you pursue the relationship? If so, what convinced you to? If not, what were the reasons and do you have any regr... (73 words)

I don't feel comfortable with my boyfriend's family. Should I go to the party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't get along with my boyfriends family or his ex wife. they are having a party for their son together, and i don't feel comfortable going. should i go?... (32 words)

Suddenly people are asking me if I have a boyfriend YET, I find that annoying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to say this...um well basically i think there is something oing on that i don' know about. Suddenly people are asking me if i have a boy friend YET and they always say YET, its really bugging me, like the other day i was talking to my cousin and she s... (94 words)

Unexpected pregnancy when I only know him for 6 weeks, he'd respect my decision but I can tell he would prefer abortion, help?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a really great guy for 6 weeks. We are both in our 30's and divorced and we are both making decent money. He has a child and I have children. We have had a wonderful time together and are very compatible so far. My youngest child is 10 and I just found ... (200 words)

I have a crush on my gym instructor, but does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I have a crush on my gym instructor. I think he likes me, as in his classes he has paid me alot of attention and I feel him staring at me when I walk into the gym. We have only spoken to each other a couple of times. He tends to joke around and tease me. I asked him ... (174 words)

How can anyone throw insults like that with no reason? What did I do to deserve it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have always been a very out going confident person. I was popular in my first high school and was in the popular group of girls and we had a really chilled out friendship group it was really nice. Then in my last year of high school my family moved us across the country ... (518 words)

I've been trying to get my girl back. Should I try to make her jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M) - So I've been a little too persistent and needy probably in trying to get this girl back (we only dated for a couple months afterall). There's this other girl that I used to be interested in and now we've kind of resumed talking a little bit. I know this is not the right thing ... (101 words)

My friend gets picked on by other kids but when I told the principal he got beaten up, he got mad at me. What would you have done?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

12 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My friend is being picked on all the time by the "popular" kids .He told me not to tell anyone. One day he got beaten up so badly that I couldn't take it anymore and I told the principal. The bullying has stop but you think my friend would be happy that I did the right thing, ... (106 words)

Should we go to separate psychiatrists and then go to a marriage counsellor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for 24 1/2 years. It has been getting rough recently. It has been building for quite a while though. I was almost killed in an automobile accident 7 1/2 years ago. I have recovered but still have quite a few issues(in my head I believe). She ... (160 words)

I'm suddenly not attracted to my boyfriend any more. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hey i'm suddenly not attracted to my b/f anymore. he is skinnier and doesn't work out-and i do and i have muscles and i feel like i could break him. last night i was repulsed by kissing him. what do i do?... (42 words)

Boy trouble! What am I to believe, does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm only 12, but all my friends have boyfriends, which is weird for me because they talk about them all the time. I have crushed on this guy for like a year or two now and all my friends say he likes me too by the way he stares at me and smiles and blushes. I can't completely ... (93 words)

I've got an amazing guy after me but I want to be free and single at my age! What to do?...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive Got an amazing lad after me .!! At one point i thought i loved him back but now im not sure i said when i finish school im going to move away and he said hes going to come with me! Hes amazing hes absolutly adalises me! Theres nothing wrong with him. hes not like the... (259 words)

I've lost weight and dress sexier for him, yet he keeps watching porn. Was I right in scratching his collection so he can't see it??

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had a disagreement a few months ago. It was about porn. I've tried to keep an open mind about it, but it torments the life out of me. I've tried to say "that's how men are, i shouldnt be so selfish" but it doesn't help. He promised he would get rid of his ... (182 words)

I failed second year at uni - so now I have to repeat it and all my friends will be gone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So yeah I am aware this has nothing to do with relationships but need some help. Well just found failed second year at uni, now i dont know what to do, all I have been doing is crying which I am aware is silly as cant change it. But am scared that when i repat in sept... (131 words)

I am completely lost on how to get a boyfriend! What does a girl have to do to get one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and totally lost on how to aquire a boyfriend. I am the only one of all of my friends who has never had and does not have a boyfriend. It wouldnt be so bad if they didnt all talk about them all the time. I just want someone to hold hands with and hug. I have onl... (147 words)

When I call long distance she prefers to finishing watching TV. Disrespectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

- Hello I am in the UK and my G\F is in NZ and I'm applying to move there. When I call long distance, sometimes she says she is watching one of her favourite shows and can I call back. I am pretty chilled so do not mind, but is this bordering on disrespect? My family think it ... (98 words)

When will I get my boobs?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 12, nearly 13, im a girl and i have pubes and armpit hair and all of that, but what i wanted to know is when will i start getting boobs? and how will i know im developing? and what age did you have them at? thanks :)... (52 words)

Where do you get the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I wanted to ask you about the pill. I'm 15 years old and started my periods when I was 12. They're very irregular, I can go for months without getting one and then I get a really heavy one unexpectantly. I've heard that the pill can regulate your period from some fri... (120 words)

12 years old and I'm scared to even hold my boyfriends hand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) age 26-29 - im only 12 but eveyone at school seems to be getting boyfriends. i have one but i dont know how to snog and im scared to hold his hand any everything. what should i do?... (35 words)

Kissing problems! He's more experienced than I am. I need to know how to kiss.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been friends with this boy for a while, and yesterday we both went to a theme park with some other friends and we became really close and realised that we both really like each other and fancied each other. hes the same age as me and were still at school. and he asked ... (102 words)

It looks like my parents are heading for separation, is there anything I can do to help them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - lHello. This is my last resort, I feel so low at the moment. I'm a single child and my mum and dad are currently in the midst of a huge row which seems certain to end in seperation. I'm 17 years old and will be 18 in a few months, that doesn't make things any easier. ... (519 words)

Views on condoms - sex more pleasurable without?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I now feel ready for full sex-my boyfriend is too. We've talked about contraception and condoms.Some of my friends saythere's no difference in the pleasurable sensations for a woman whether a man wears one or not.Others say the feeling is much better without and the feel of ... (59 words)

Are these signs that he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok right i really liked this lad and i thought he liked me back but although he did show it when he was asked he said he didn't like me in that way, well he wasn't necessarily asked outright just afew of our friends(on seperate occasions) were talking to him, yeah aiming to ... (500 words)

My gf found porn on my computer. Is she over reacting?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

- Hi there, I could do with some advice on my girlfriend’s reaction to finding porn on my computer! I know it's understandable my girlfriend of 4 mths should not be happy with this, but she was completely devastated when she found out as if I had just cheated on her. Since th... (245 words)

A holiday fling would have been good, but was I so wrong to want a build up to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age - I recently met a man who wanted sex with me but I held back (I did want to though) although the meals were included on holiday he never once asked me to go for a meal with him on our own (It wouldnt have cost him) but one day we were walking back to our hotel corridor and he ... (168 words)

He looks at incest porn! What does it mean?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of three years has been looking up incest porn, specifically the mother/son type. Needless to say I was quite freaked out by this and have confronted him about it. He said that it isn't what turns him on and that I have nothing ... (145 words)

Engaged three months in to a relationship that has now lasted 3 years, and I don't feel happy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for almost 3 years. We got engaged 3 months after we started dating, but I have never been excited or happy about it. We have planned many wedding dates but I keep pushing it back further and further because I panic whenever I think about ... (202 words)

How can I make myself become more independent and dismiss these fears?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I make myself become more independent? I am a female. And I realise that I have less passion for the learning and work than the men . I think about a boyfriend ,and a family ,even a baby even that I want to be a housewife. However ,I am a senior in the college . I ... (123 words)

I've always been close to my cousin, but now he seems to be jealous of my boyfriend. What's with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have always been close with my cousin, even since we were babies we were born 3 days apart. We hang out all the time, staying at eachothers houses stuff like that. He is my best friend i can always rely on him and vice versa. But recently he's went abit strange, like he... (227 words)

He always compliments me and he's all touchy-feely. How do I know if he is genuine and how can I reciprocate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy tells me all the time how gorgeous he thinks i am and how he loves me. when we're together he holds me in an embrace as if he doesnt want to let go. he always ask me to go out and i really like him but wanty no if hes just a player or actually likes me. advice pl... (110 words)

He asked me if I'd have sex without a condom and I would, but what are the risks of pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am ready to have sex with this boy but he has asked if a would do it without a condom, i don't think i would but whats the chances of getting pregnant first time without a condom? and am a virgin just now btw... (45 words)

Have just broken up with my married boyfriend... How do I move on? I am thinking of telling his wife about us.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a married guy. He has 3 kids and he and his wife have been together for 9 years, married for 3. i asked him when i met him if he was married, as i had a feeling he wasn't telling me something. to this he answered no, this was a week after meeting him, but ... (333 words)

I think I am very stupid and have low confidence for sticking around him, as he is very nasty, drinks, blames me for everything... but I can't leave him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure where to start. I was friends with my boyfriend for years and this year we started going out. He was always so nice to me but recently his alcoholism has come back and he has started being very nasty and got us both arrested because he head butted me and I punched ... (449 words)

My BF is letting the decision in my hands, of whether I should carry on with the pregnancy or not; I don't feel ready so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've gotten myself into a huge perdicament. The same problem that thousands of young girls get into every day.....i'm so annoyed i fell into the trap. So i'm pregnant, to a guy i've know scarcely 2 months. He's 23 and i'm 20. As soon as we found out, i was adament i would ... (406 words)

My ex acts as if I have upset him, but won't talk to me to fix things. Do I continue to message him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i feel as if i'm at my wits end with this situation-- and now i don't know what to think please help and answer my question. A couple of weeks back i posted a question on here about a situation with me and my ex. A quick recap for you all, we all went out in ... (709 words)

About vaginal discharge before starting the periods...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am just wondering ppl say that u have vaginal discharge about 1 yr before ur peridos start is that correct? well i have been getting discharge for more than a year and my periods have not started yet i am 13 and need help thankz... (62 words)

She hints she likes me but doesn't admit it. How can I hint that I want to kiss her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm goin cinema soon with a close friend who hints she likes me but does't admit it. I want to hint her that i want to kiss, any ideas because if she rejects my kiss i won't be able to show her my face in embarrassment. What steps do i take?... (51 words)

I'm willing to do anything for my ex but she is only interested in my friendship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - me n my girlfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. we were both very committed to each other n this was our first relationship. we planned to spend the rest of our lives togehter. but like every other couple, we had fights. i guess in my own fault, there were times i did... (336 words)

My friend is short so he is ridiculed many times, how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend is very small and so gets hormones injected into his bottom. people at my school make fun of him and he is really uset about it. what can i do to help?... (34 words)

If I tell my mother I'm pregnant I think she'll kick me out of the house!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 11 years old and i think im pregnant ifi tell my mum i know she will kick me out of the house. what should i do??... (27 words)

Help! I'm in love with my stepbrother!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, heres the problem: My Mom will be getting married to this guy in march of 09. This guy has a son that I REALLY REALLY like, maybe evan LOVE! I'm 13 and he is 14, I never stop thinking about him, and I just feel so right when I'm around him. I have never felt this way abou... (308 words)

How do I get her to stop worrying about my adolescent sexual experiences??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my gf for 2 years now, I love her to death. She is the second woman I have ever slept with, the first was my girlfriend that I had between the ages of 13 and 16 (on and off, mostly off- I dumped her for good a few weeks after I turned 16). I'm 22 now. My pro... (381 words)

My wife wants me to send her the money to file for a divorce. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, two weeks ago I posted my concern at "dearcupid". It was about my thai wife who got pregnant from a Thai man. Yesterday she sent me an email to let me know that she is going to divorce me. Thus I got to call her up. She claimed that she had an appointment with... (157 words)

I'm auditioning for a play, any advice to calm down nerves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, It's not a relationship problem but I was wondering whether anyone had any advice for calming nerves and to feel confident as I'm auditioning for Les Miserables this evening!! Any advice would be great! ... (40 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend and he is heartbroken. I don't know if I've done the right thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. so I broke up with my boyfriend of two years a little less than a month ago. when we were dating he was at college so we only saw eachother on the weekends. But as time went on I started to feel less motivated to see him. I would look for excuses for him not to see me for ... (432 words)

This guy wants me to send him naked pictures of me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy wants me to send him pictures either nude or somewhat nude i dont want to be nude at all not even in bra and underwear i really like himm but i dont want to do it. what do i do?... (42 words)

I trust my girlfriend. I just don't trust her male friend. Am I thinking too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We have been together for just over a year now, and it has been long distance. (Meaning. I don't get to see her that often, but at least once every month) We are currently enrolling in two different University, and she is 'trying' to transfer to my University. Nonetheless, that ... (467 words)

He wants a non-relationship, relationship, sex without commitment, I care for him, but don't want to be used, should I play hard to get, or what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey.i met this guy in college a year back.Initially it was chattin on the phone and all..then one day we decided to meet at his place and go for a movie or somehin.I don't know who started it but we made out.I know that he is physically attracted to me and me too but when i ... (236 words)

We were together for three intense years, I left for two months, when I got back, he had changed, he no longer wanted a relationship, I am dismayed, what the heck happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know everyone at one point in their lives goes through the anguish of a breakup, but please could someone help me understand. I was in an intense 3 year relationship. It had it's ups and downs, but our love got us through anything. He told me everyday how much he loves me... (332 words)

There was instant attraction when we met, never told each other how we felt, e-mails now and then since,was this love at first sight, should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I met a man over two years ago. I was still a student at university and he was a visiting filmmaker showing her film. I was a film student and was told a lot about him by a friend/professor of mine before meeting him. My professor thought we should meet because we had a lot ... (234 words)

Is there a particular age that a woman, is assumed to be sexually active or not a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - At what age is it assumed a woman is sexually active? For men, is it a turn off to find out a woman is a virgin? Especially, of those men that are of mature age? For women, how old were some of you when you lost your virginity? What sort of pressures did you feel if any?... (68 words)

We are close, he still talks to and sleeps over at his ex's, am I wrong to want him to stop, I am totally confused, should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - so i meet Mr x about 8 months ago in a website we have chilled and have good times we have got to know each other intimate too. but recently i have discover things about his past. he has had 3 exes which he still talks too and the last one he hasent gone over him. he recently ... (450 words)

He wants a brother, sister relationship, I want to date him, I think I'm in love, what can I do to change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, here's my story...perhaps you can help. I have fallen in love with this one guy (we'll call him John). John is a great friend of mine and we hang out often. He is really popular, a great guy, but a huge flirt. However, he seems to flirt with every other girl, except me. ... (98 words)

My boyfriend has left me twice for other women, should I trust him this time, or move on, I do love him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 5 years has left me twice for another women. The last one was a 17 year old girl, and now he came back and says he loves me and wants to work on thins. But i took him back once and he promised all the same things, so should i fall for it again or move on, which ... (72 words)

I really love this girl, she has become distant, she says we will get back together, I am troubled about this, what do I do?

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12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - okay here is the situation, were both 17, we have had a relationship for 4 months but we got really serious really quick, we had sex in 8 days, but only once though, everything was going great till about a month ago i had to go to a boot camp type thing for a week( i chose to ... (214 words)

We are penpals, he is married, my friends think it's wrong, how much do I tell them about our communications?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - have a penpal who happens to be married. I place american flag here but I am from Peru and met him in a mission while he was here (he's military) He's married to another military that I haven't met b/c they don't live here, they're in the US. To me this is my penpal, he talks ... (268 words)

I love him, I hate him, very mixed emotions, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - sometimes I feel like I love my boyfriend of 2 years but there are some other times when I cant stand him and I just want to slap him sometimes. What does this mean??????... (34 words)

We did everything except have intercourse, she is married, but in a troubled relationship, if and when she is free, I want to marry her, don't know if I screwed up with her, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

12 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am divorced. recently had a woman visiting me who is married to someone i know. they are going thru some tough times in their marriage, she also told me that they had not slept in like 7 months. It got hot and heavy and she literally threw herself on me. But i felt very ... (134 words)

How do I ask the girl in the ice cream shop out for a date?

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12 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, there is this attractive girl who works at a local ice cream shop. Ive never had a big conversation with her, and i was wondering how i would go about asking her to go on a date? I was thinking about asking her out for dinner, how should i put it? or should i keep go... (76 words)

Arranged a seat next to her on plane, got her facebook ID, e-mailed her, no reply yet, think I'm in love, what do I do now?

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12 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i think i am fall in love. I met with a girl when i was coming from US to my country. She is basically from hungry country and going to some other country for a holiday from US. She is born and bought up in US. I saw her in airport and told to the airway counter person t... (356 words)

We broke up, is he still interested in me though?

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a guy translation. This may seem long, but please help me out. (I'm 18 if that matter) Me and my ex broke up last sunday(7/6). it was a mutual thing, so we decided to just be friends. We've talked twice since the break up. As a precaution I've been avoiding an... (416 words)

We are best friends, don't want to ruin that, but I've started to like her as more than a friend, how do I tell her without messing up the friendship?

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12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I kind of like this girl, we've known each other for 2 or so years and we're just starting to be best friends now, but like I don't want to ruin anything between us but at the same time I want to tell her that I like her and I have done for a few weeks now. But here's the ... (80 words)

My boyfriend tells me how beautiful I am to him, I think otherwise, please help me, how do I see myself in a positive way?

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi evryone ok i need guys opinions and possibly girls my bf tells me i have a amazing body but i dont see it i have no hips no curves no waist no boobs its very boyish and athletic more athletic i just dont understand y he loves my body so much dont guys love the hourglass ... (153 words)

My girlfriend is very experienced, I am a virgin, I don't want to let this get in the way but I can't stop thinking about the number of times she's done it! help!

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12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well unfortuantly I don't exactly have the most self-confidence and well i'm often subject to be jealous of one of my gf's ex's they did it about 35 times while they were together over about 8 months or something like that (I know unfortunately because I asked, i'm wierd ... (160 words)

We're ready to have sex, I'm not sure what to do, and I'm worried about my penis? help me!

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12 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok then this is really wierd for me to be putting this here but it feels like I need answers for my question than other peoples. Ok so I am quite literary really scared of sex i've never done it before, I have a gf and i'm 18 and she's 17 and she's willing to do it since w... (147 words)

He's moving far away, and I can't stop crying, what do I do now?

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12 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - well basicly, the guy i adore is moving away tomorrow :( we have told each other how we feel about each other and we do love each other but we have only tonight expressed our feelings and now i feel really bad because im never going to see him again and cant even sleep knowing ... (133 words)

What is he trying to accomplish by doing all this?

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. Im so lost right now. i have nowhere else to turn to! Here is the story; recently I broke up with my ex because he got distant and I juss didnt trust him anymore. I found comments from other girls calling him babe n stuff on his myspace and a girl who he was ... (339 words)

How can you tell a man is no longer attracted to you?

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How can you tell if your man has become unattracted to you... (12 words)

Am I unable to have intimacy?

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have been doing some serious thinking about relationships and my habits towards them in general and also the opposite sex. I suppose I have to give those of you reading this a little background on myself: Well, I am an only child to start and much of my young... (604 words)

I want answers from real women about parenthood!

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey girls( andblokes without sonding too sexixt)! I'm in a dilemma at this point in my life. You see, I really think that I might want a baby. Im 26, have a great career(well okay career- I'm a family planning nurse-the irony!), loving partner, mortgage. However, I'm wor... (172 words)

What do I do when the love of my life won't give me the time of day?

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for 5 months. during that time she ignored me the second week we were going out she cheated on me she has lied to me about many thing and last of all she is very aloof and rarely thinks bout peoples feelings when she says stuff. i love ... (212 words)

Quiz on guys!

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12 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!! 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more like "Lets just get this over wi... (178 words)