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writes:My ex girlfriend and me are still very close, in fact, we are best friends and prob will be for life, but she has something happen to her thats a little weird. Every time i say something sweet to her now, like ill always be there for you or you looked so nice today, or even if we get close or cuddle, she starts to get this weird burning in her chest. Nothing crazy, but like a burning feeling. Like an example would be a couple of days ago, we hooked up again because i told her how much i miss her and she got the burning feeling too. She says she misses us being together, but i just wanna know what is causing this burning feeling because it doesnt hurt her, but it is there like i said if i say soemthing sweet to her or if she thinks about me. Thanks alot
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): SHE LOVES YOU AND ALL YOU WANNA DO IS BE FRIENDS, YOU ARE BREAKING HER HEART!!!!
sorry if this seems harsh but i know how she feels and it sucks.....alot!!! the burning feeling is a confused emotion where shes happy at the moment but knows its not forever!!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 You're friendship with her is hurting you both, and just so you know...at some point one of you is going to get serious with someone else, and that close friendship of yours will be a threat to any new relationship either one of you tries to build with another. Your friendship is time limited. Be friendly, but not best friends.
-Frank B Kermit
author of From Friends To Lovers
http://www.lulu.com/content/2440004
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): It's called A Broken Heart my friend, which is what you're doing to her.
Obviously, she is in love with you, you've ended it but you're prolonging the agony with this sort of talk. Move in a bigger circle of friends and aquaintances, broaden your horizon and stop keeping her dangling like you do.
Sorry if this sounds harsh mate, but that's certainly how it seems from my point of view.
Good luck.
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