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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex is ignoring me and I had a weird dream about him. Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Argh - I dreamt about my ex last night (I seriously did not think of him yesterday) although a week before - I had sent him an email sayin i missed his company and was hopin we could talk soon - he read my E-card but didnt respond.I find it funny that he responded only to ... (393 words)

What do you say to a girl who thinks you only like her for her breasts? And how to ask her out if you can't breathe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - If a girl thinks you only like them for their breasts what would you say to them? How do you ask out a girl when you can't breath around them? ... (30 words)

I can't lead this double life and need to chose between separated husband and man I am seeing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is very hard for me , but i need someone else opinion. I have been separated for about fourteen months. During this time, I met a guy who seem to be real nice and treats me real well ( may i add we work together. Anyway, My husband swear he has changed and never wanted to ... (159 words)

I don't think I want to be cooped up with my parents on vacation for a week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i am 26 years old and decided to take my parents somewhere..a nice city..somewhere not too far but we still have to take a plane. I think my problem is the fact i feel more angry being with them knowing i don't have a b/f or even dating anyone and i miss my ex dearly...for ... (294 words)

I still love my husband but he went back to his ex. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I separated with my husband of 3 years while I was 5 mnths pregnant. We had problems before but it was just minor problems tht we managed to sort out. The reason we broke up was tht he suspected infidelity though he did not have concrete proof about it. We fought a lot and he ... (218 words)

I just got married and already there are problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i just got married on saturday and it seems like my husband would much rather spend time with his friends than to be with me and his daughter . we are young , i am 20 and he is 19 . we have been together since we were 13 and have a two year old daughter together. i want to know ... (118 words)

What should I do?? wait till marriage or not? seriously need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so am 21... i loved my exes (3) i gave them everything..i loved them. but they all disappeared from my life without goodbye. ive been hurt soo much.. ive been single for 2years now.. the guys i meet just want sex and obviously i dont give in so they leave. i dont slee... (117 words)

I don't know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend!

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31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi hope you can help. i dont know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend. weve been together for seven months and we get on really well. he treats me realy nice , but lately the last month im getting worried when he goes out that he'll meet someone and even though we text ... (228 words)

Her ex is more fun than I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4941 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times. she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates to being flirty. she wont... (198 words)

I just want him to notice me more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey! im 16 and i go out into town all the time and i do drink! but i know this groups of lads who are known very well were i live and i know all of them from just seeing them out.But i was invited to one of thems 21st birthday party and i went and i know there too old an... (210 words)

Thanks to my ex I feel extremely insecure about my small breasts

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) age 30-35 - This is going to sound stupid, but I have a huge complex with my small boobs, thanks to my ex. We didn't break up because of that, we broke up because he was abusive and too controlling. But the thing is, in some occasions he bluntly told me to my face that some singers and... (392 words)

Girlfriend of 11 years pregnant but now I've found the girl of my dreams

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) age 41-50 - 11 years I've been with my girlfriend, didn't marry since I always suspected I'd find someone else, someone I knew the moment I lay eyes on her.. it came about 5 months ago, both the knowledge of a baby girl and love of my life started working where I work.. told my... (153 words)

My dream boy but I don't even know him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone!!! i was wondering if you could help me? there is a boy in my french class that i absolutely love..he's my dream boy. but the problems vary; first, im too shy to approach him. second, there are a lot of pretty girls in my class, and third, he's never met me before, ... (71 words)

She broke up with me and then throws herself at me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok so a month ago a girl broke up with me and since then we've talked still but last night when i go to her house she starts throwing herself at me ( i still have feelings for her so i didn't fight back) now i thought this was strange cause she clearly stated she just wanted to ... (79 words)

Condom tore, the drug I've used in the past isn't good for me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - [I'm 19 not 26] I've got a serious problem :( Me and my bf had sex and just when he finished he took it out and saw that the condom did tear! This happened 3 times before and I took "escapelle" but this isn't good for my body, I have no idea what to do now. please help me ... (69 words)

How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel it will hurt me more than... (434 words)

I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I am someone can give me some advice. I am in a dilemma that I cannot goto anyone else in my life for advice. I am pretty sure that I have fallen in love with a co-worker. We instantlly clicked and he makes me feel things I have never felt before for anyone. The probl... (384 words)

I want him back, but he says "forget it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i was in a relation ship with an older man, he was married and he just had a kid. they were not doing so good they were sort of broke up, but stupid me started a relationship with him. we fell in love she found out and instead of just being broke up she wanted a divorce. he was ... (252 words)

15 years ago we slept together but now he wont?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - We spent two seperate nights together years ago, nothing happened just a fumble, I knew he fancied me then and the feeling was mutual. 15 years after the fumble I saw him again the first night we walked and talked he was sweet, but we slept alone. The second I shared his bed ... (156 words)

Is it wrong for me to fancy my cousin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 17 my cousin is 25 my whole family (all aunts uncles cousins etc.) went out 4 a meal and a few drinks in the hotel afterwards , my family and my cousins family were still there late in the night when i was going i said goodbye 2 my cousin and he said he loves me i said i ... (91 words)

Our open marriage has become a disaster

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is complicated; you've been warned! My husband and I have always idealized, even before we were together, a committed relationship that does not involve monogamy. While I always thought it sounded great, I had doubts about how many people were truly capable of livin... (1225 words)

My kids don't want me to date but to get back with their dad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex left me and the kids about a year and a half ago after i found out he cheated on me and i kicked him out.He has been with that girl ever since. I hate her. I miss him the kids miss him and we all want him home. I see a counselor but I cant shake my feelings for him? He is ... (120 words)

Boyfriend choosing friends over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - soo i used to be bestfriends with my bf's friend but that frienship ended when that friend made fun of the fact that i was molested as a kid and told me to go kill myself when my dad died. he also made fun of the fact that i self mutilated my self. even after knowing this my bf ... (131 words)

After our troubled relationship, why would he buy me such an extravagant gift?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i really need to know how this guy i work with feels about me. when he started i was there for him always and have helped him no end over the past year. i have liked him since day one. anyway the last few months hes grown distant and become very cocky. he had a personal crisis ... (148 words)

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any more i have tried so hard to ... (92 words)

My husband's family hates me but he can't see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) age - I have a very disturbing dilemma in my marriage.I feel,it might ruins it eventually. Hard to describe, but I try. My husbands family is giving me cold treatment. I mean,they dont swear at me or tell me what they think, but from all the comments, and the ways how they talk to ... (188 words)

Husband went to strip club 3X, hid it from me and I can't forgive him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out that my husband was drunk and went to strip clubs about 3 times. He did this behind my back. When i found out i was devastated. I feel such hurt, betrayal, anger. I can't get the images out of my mind. I am nervous and anxious all the time. I don't even bring it up ... (292 words)

My husband met up with his ex and now wants to split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an 8 yr marriege... My husband met up with his ex 3 weeks ago.. We were already having problems.. but this made up his mind.. after 3 weeks he wants too sell house and completely split.. Whats going thru his head??... (43 words)

What can I do to toughen up or is it just that he needs to relax, or am I really that silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Hi, I have been in a loving relationship for the past year and a half and we are very happy! My boyfriend has an incredibly stressful job, and is currently at a part of his life where he feels as though his life has become stagnant with regards to work an... (444 words)

How do you regain confidence after a brush off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you regain confidence after a brush off? The guy I was seeing and I found ourselves at a work related event in which we didn't know anybody, it was only us from our company. So I sat with him (we had a friendly brake up, and were still speaking). We were chatting... (353 words)

He wants to let things go "day by day". Do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm single female w/no children. I have been dating this guy with 7 children for 4 months now. When we 1St started dating he stated he don't trust women and how his relationships never seem to last b/c of his job (bodyguard) and his children. I told him i will try to work ... (167 words)

Husband no longer watches porn and now goes too quickly. How do I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Trying to keep this short and to the point: my husband used to get so turned on just by looking at me. Then I got pregnant and he didn't want to have much sex (i can understand, there's a baby in there! lol) I just had my baby 3 months ago, and I can proudly say I am almost ... (341 words)

My ex husband is causing trouble for my entire family and no one can stop him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age - I was married for a short time 27 years ago. We got divorced,he disappeared, paid no child suppport and I did not look for him, it was done. Three years later I remarried, my husband adopted my daughter and things have been wonderful for years. Then my ex started harrassing ... (531 words)

He says he is young for a relationship, does this mean he has feelings? Should I try for an LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - More than just good friends? I have this really good friend and I have known him for 5 years. At the moment we are in different countries and we only stay in contact through facebook. I have had feelings for him for long. So on April fools day I said that I loved him. I told h... (195 words)

How do I get close to him physically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ll start this problem/question with a little background history! My best friend, let’s call her Beth, has a strange family. Strange, but amazing, and I love them all - and in turn they love me. I’ve had my own bed in their house before, before I moved to the city I was t... (550 words)

One day I want to be with him and the next day I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I've been with my bf for 2 years now. He is 9 years older then me. I in general tend to oscillate a lot. Well with our relationship is the same. One day I'm 100% sure I wanna be with him and the next I'm wondering rather or not I wanna be with him. We are planing to move in ... (120 words)

How to get him out of my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

- Cutting a long story short.... my now ex broke up with me out of nowhere in a pub in front of all his friends (nice) and didnt speak to me for 2 weeks. When he finally did he thought i would fall at his feet and get back with him, as much as i wanted to i stood my ground as i ... (386 words)

Am I allowed to love my ex husband again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay....I know I am being really really stupid and probably am acting silly, but I really do still love him. Here's my story, I have two kids , and once upon a time I married their dad, but, three years later, we divorced, and he moved to back to his European homeland for work... (176 words)

2nd time I have sex will there still be a burning sensation/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 19 and have been wondering, i jst had sex 4 da 1st in da lst month, it was very painful n i had dis intense burning sensation wen he trusted. So its been month since i had sex hw bad is it going 2 feel da second time and wil da burning sensation stil be there having sex ... (63 words)

Can't reach orgasm without my vibrator!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey peeps. Basically, I am finding it really hard to reach orgasm without using my vibrator! I love the sensation of it and feels so much different from sex. I use it a lot with my fiance but have reached the problem that i can't orgasm without it. It just doesn't feel the ... (112 words)

Husband has been hiding money..do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age - I need a voice of reason. I was married to a man for 7 years and we have recently split up. During that time money has been very scarce due to the fact that initially he was in a very low paid job, then he bought his own business and has been working very hard to pay off his ... (398 words)

Disappointing family members who take you for granted...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's my story, my sister is a bit difficult. She's popular, pretty and very confident if a bit on the dim side (mean but true). My problem with her is increasingly over the years her looks have meant people are bending over backwards to do things for her, to the extent ... (287 words)

I had sex with my brother's 31 year old friend. My brother will kill us!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is gonna sound well bad but here goes i went to my brother's friend's wedding this sunday just gone, and my brothers other friend who i have just recently fancied was there, i got really drunk like really drunk and randomly he started coming onto me, n i came onto him... (141 words)

Does my boyfriend just want me to be pudgy? Why doesn't he support my weight loss and work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been with my fiancee for 3 years. Since we've been together I lost 40lbs. I was on a mission to lose weight even before I met him so I lost a total of 123lbs. In fact, when we met I was jogging with dumbbells. In any case, he hasn't said a thing about my... (377 words)

Do his greedy personal habits warrant me breaking up with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I started a relationship with a lovely man about 4 months ago and it quickly became quite intense. We have both said we love each other and I do think he is a lovely person. He has lots of good qualities, he is financially sound, has a good job and doesn't smoke. He is a social... (529 words)

I like boys so much, I want to be one too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,I'm a girl and I like boys. I have no sexual interest in other girls, but I feel like I'm in the wrong gender. What is the technical term for that? I don't know what to tell people when they ask what my sexual orientation is. I don't know what to do or who to go to for help! ... (66 words)

Be kicked out or have a happy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i still had to leave by ... (321 words)

I feel like I lost my good friends, to each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

31 August 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm an engineering student.About me: A sentimental, and always wanted to joy person.I kept my 5 school friends as my best friends,one of them is more closer to me!Even more than,my college friends,family; i trusted him,i love him. While, in college i had a new friend(g... (239 words)

Ever since I had the miscarriage our relationship has been troubled

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend has been together for a yr and 3 months, everything was perfect until recently about 2 or 3 months ago..around the time we had a miscarriage and i quit my job, we have been argueing alot about stupid things and havent been talking as much as we use to, ... (155 words)

Checked out a porn link in my b/f's history

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

31 August 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a huge problem with my boyfriend's porn watching habbit. We've talked about it, and despite saying he'd never watch again, he still watches it every time I'm not home like I knew he would. But that's not EXACTLY why I'm upset. I feel super disturbed right now. Since this ... (462 words)