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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Is she my friend or is she just screwing with my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

30 April 2008 (F) age 26-29 - I have a rather involved question. In high school I developed romantic feelings for my best friend who was also a female. At the time though I wasn't totally willing to admit to it, and I really tried to push those feelings away, and as such I wasn't always the best of friends, ... (961 words)

Is she cheating, or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I need some advice guys. My g/f is working lots of over time at work. She makes an extra effort to look good for work. eg. spends about 2hrs getting ready. She's gone on a diet. She went bowling on works nite out last week. The place shuts at 11pm and she came home gone 2am! Am... (67 words)

Could my friend be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My friend who i love sooo much kind of makes some stupid decisions sometimes. She's on birth control and that usually is enough to keep someone from getting pregnant, but if you have a condom why not use it to make sure you are protecting yourself the best you can, right? We... (206 words)

I really like this girl at school, but I've never had a relationship before, and not sure what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I am a 15 year old and i've never had a relationship. There's this girl I really like at school, but i'm not sure what to do.... (27 words)

Has he been pressured into breaking up with me because of the age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, i'm 20 and was seeing a man of 47 years old who is separated with 2 children. We met at work and started seeing each other when he had problems with his wife, who he eventually separated from. For the past year we were seeing each other and got along really well, and we w... (212 words)

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 18-21 - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he went on a trip until Saturday. ... (1036 words)

Boys and Men...what do you think about teenage lesbians?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Older men..do you think 'Oh she's just a teenager, it's just a phase..she doesn't really know what she wants'? We had to talk about it in class today and it seemed that most boys thought it 'hot'. I know some guys think that, but what do the others think? Do you guys think it... (114 words)

How can I stop my Husband beating me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ... (12 words)

Should I just be patient and wait for his call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I just recently got back from a vacation where i met an absolutly wonderful guy. He wrote me a little letter before we left, and we were romantically involved. He gave me his cell number, even though it went into the ocean and doesn't work. I also have his house number whic... (124 words)

I've tried talking to my best friend who is 14 after she slept with a 27 year old, but she wont listen!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, my best friend is only 14 she slept with a 27 year old, who has kids, when she was very drunk, she didn't use protection and didn't get the morning after pill. I am worried about her, and not just for the pregnancy side of things. What can i do? I have tryed talking ... (67 words)

My period is late and I haven't had sex. Could I have a tumor?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well my last period was March 17-24 witch is my normal cycle I havent had sex I am still young but I watched a tv show and a girl have a brain tumor and missed her periods well now it is May 1st and I still didnt get my April period tumors dont run in my family but it has ... (93 words)

My husband will not stop looking at porn. How can I make him understand?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband will not stop looking at porn. i have asked him to stop but he does it behind my back. when i catch him he turns the argument around on me. i am a heavy woman and i am trying to lose weight. it hurts me because i believe he thinks i am not attractive. how can i make ... (67 words)

What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal sex we had was pleasant), what ... (75 words)

Is my boyfriend an expert liar, or worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confused as to what to do with my boyfriend. He genuinelly acts like he cares about me and that he loves me. He says that every one is always saying that they love someone but they don't mean it, but when he says it he means it. He is married, but not happily, he slee... (296 words)

My friends fit into size 4. I'm overweight. How do I diet?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - well, I'm 16 and weigh about 8 stone. i fit into size 8 or 10 clothes usually. i never thought i was particularly fat, although everyone has hang-ups and I'm no exception. however, today, me and few female friends were talking and i discovered how a few of them can fit into siz... (120 words)

My boyfriend is going away for 4 months. Should we break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Hello! I'm a 19 year old girl at university, just finishing my second year out of three, and have been with my lovely boyfriend for over a year. He lives in my home town so we're kind of long distance but obviously I spend all my breaks from university at home so we manage ... (354 words)

Is it OK for girls to look at gay porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - is it ok for girls to look at gay porn? my parents said being gay was a sin but i like watching the men in the porn and i am worried for hell. also all my guy friends watch porn but say its not right for girls to watch it so am i weird?... (55 words)

A period twice in one month? Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) age 16-17 - I'm 17 and Kay well I have my period April 7 - 13 and then I got it again April 25 - current... I did have unprotected sex with my boyfriend in between those times.. but I was just wondering if it was normal to get your period twice in one month.. 'cause its not normal for me. ... (90 words)

I'd like some suggestions as to how we forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, and eventually i cou... (286 words)

How do I get my love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Forgive me if this is too long- Years ago, I met a wonderful man who fell madly in love with me, back then I was not sure of the things I wanted nor was I taking things seriously. We were together for a year and one day I broke up with him because I had met someone who I ... (231 words)

I love him more than anything and don't want our relationship to end but we're at the verge of breaking up please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 27 and until last year I'd never kissed anyone, let alone anyone else. When I was at school boys just weren't interested and then when I was older I was so embarrassed by my lack of experience that if guys did show an interest I'd pretend that I wasn't interested in them ... (990 words)

Please read and advise, is this the kind of person I am or even who I want to be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a problem. I know im going to get all the generic answers of your a bitch who isn't satisfied with your own life so you have to go around messing up other people's etc etc....But Im not like that. Im just a young person who has done things. I shall start at the beg... (603 words)

How can I get a boyfriend without being too forward? Please help I am so lonely.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (?) age 16-17 - I am 17 years old and i have never had a serious relationship with a boy. My friends tell me i am stunning and they don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend they think its because boys are intimidated by me wich i find hard to believe. I am going to be 18 soon and i am ... (92 words)

I'm in love with my lecturer at university, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm in love with my lecturer at university. He's kind, sweet and intelligent. I'm 20 and he's in his 30s. I keep thinking about him and I don't know what to do. I have a boyfriend of 2 years who I love, and I don't want to hurt him, but I'm confused. Should I tell my lecturer ... (77 words)

I'm having huge problems with my cold and withdrawn father! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i dont live with my parents anymore but ive a huge prob with my father and its affected me my whole life. He always lived with us and hes not physically abusive or anything but he is the coldest most withdrawn person. He always expects my mother to do every little thing for ... (222 words)

I now have to work with two people I have previously slept with, how do I keep it cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I'll probably get judged as a complete slapper here (understandable)....but please give me some good advice before judgement. I know, i know....it's my own fault. I'm a student, and done temping work last summer for a great firm. I loved it, and they loved me. Grand. Durin... (140 words)

I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his for 3 months. He did start ... (183 words)

I've been developing some strange sexual fetishes. Will this affect my relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 24 year old male from England. I am quite a good looking lad and don't really have any problem getting the girls, the only problem is I am confused as to what turns me on at the moment and it is the wrong sort of girls i attract. Since i was about 15 I have fant... (538 words)

How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt feel comfortable me d... (193 words)

She still swears nothing more than kissing ever happened what do YOU think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - About 2 years ago my girlfriend started a relationship with her ex for about 2 months behind my back (we had been together for 3 years at the time). They had been in an online relationship for years before we were together and talked frequently on the phone once we were ... (580 words)

Just wondering if there is anyone out there that has hurt the person that they adore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Kieron and up intill a month ago i was one of the happyest men youcould meet. But that all changed when my partner told me she was leaving. It all started about a 3 monthes ago i have had some problems with myself due to things in the past and can find myself ... (530 words)

Do you think he does like me really and if so what should I say to him ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 24 years old soon, and i like a man who is 42. My birthday is coming up soon and he said he will go.He has stared at me and looked at me alot, stood close to me when i have been talking to other people, once he looked at me through the corner of his eye when i was sat next ... (132 words)

I have sex five times a week but he has a girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I have had sex 5 times in a single week with a man who already has a girlfriend. The sex was suprisingly very good and he wants to see me again(obvisouly). I just wanted to have fun and all but now I am not sure whether it's okay to continue down this line, especia... (80 words)

Off-white discharge for nearly a year, what could it be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 14 and I have been having a off white discharge for almost a year now I am a virgin I thought I might have caught a STD from a public bathroom but I heard that some women just have discharge I don't want to tell my mom becuse what if it is a STD then she'll think I am ... (71 words)

When do you give up? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I take psych medications for depression and anxiety so I dont always know if I am overreacting to something or getting being too nice and always question myself. So I am please asking for advice I am so angry and hurt! My bf of almost three years has been acting mean... (1060 words)

Sticky love triangle here...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi... It all started when my mate and his girlfriend were going through problems. Me and his girlfriend had became good friends cause we spent alot of time going out and partying together with our other friends too. Then one thing led to another and I found myself in bed wi... (361 words)

Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of person I was looking for. I ... (516 words)

I needed time to heal, so I cut all contact. Could she be the one who calls and hangs up without a word?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, About 3 months ago, I recently parted from a long distance relationship of 4 months. I reluctantly agreed to friendship as my partner didn't want a relationship at the time. We sent a "hello" text once a week from then on and a few emails about the weather! I realised tha... (148 words)

I constantly want sex! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Help! I think im addicted to sex. Me and my bf have a great sex life but i think about sex all the time. Even at work. I suddenly get really horny without anything even triggering it! I masturbate every day (sometimes more than once) and even sometimes have to go to the toi... (87 words)

I do not want to see him until my skin looks amazing - how to hide my blemishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi.I need help with something.I like this guy but i don't want to see him unless my skin looks absolutely perfect.I just would like to know which is good make up to use to hide anything like blemishes. I have porcelain skin which is why i'm finding it difficult to find the righ... (64 words)

Could it be possible that the hymen stays intact after fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i were watching a tv show and the question of virginity came up. we started to talk about our first times and my wife said she was fingered for over 2 years before she had intercourse. what i do not understand is she says she still had her hymen. i don't understa... (78 words)

He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half years.. Things have been rea... (281 words)

He is the most popular among girls but only seems interested in studying! How can I talk to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - this question is for all the shy guys or people who know shy guys and also for guys who study all the time but dont perform well academically.. well what do these guys like in a girl..would they go for someoone as hot as a typical cheerleader..this shy guy is hot and is the ... (85 words)

Is three times a day sex normal? Am I addicted to it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I like to have sex around three times a day. Is this normal? Am i addicted to sex?... (18 words)

Any advice on sex when I havent finished the course of albothyl suppositories for cervicitis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hello, i really need help.... I have been using albothyl suppositories for my cervicitis, my ob said that i should not have sexual intercourse until i have finished all my medication for 2 weeks... the problem is my bf and i where having sex though i haven't finished yet the ... (62 words)

I can't imagine leaving my family and mainly my son, but I desperately want to be with this other woman-Can I have advice please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been married for the past 9 years and, like many others I'm sure, the past few years have been rocky ones. I have always done everything in my power to make my wife happy. We have moved 3 times to different homes because she wanted bigger and better. This is where the ... (305 words)

Good break up tips? How do I say goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - 8 months ago i met Shawn when i began a new job where he worked. things went pretty fast and we began to date 2 mths later. along the line, we were convinced we shld get married. but lately there've been so many issues. we had an issue last wk when i put my phone on silent at ... (182 words)

He tells me he is not totally committed in love and that really hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i am a 15 year old gal in love with a 18 year old guy ...we are in a relationship for the past 5 months....i first fell in love with him 2 years back but we couldn't be one as he was loving some other girl....but that girl had no feelings for him , apparently they broke and now ... (168 words)

I have a fear of rejection, so how do I make a move on some one I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

30 April 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - How do I make a move on a girl I like??? I have a fear of rejection. In the past few months, some mutual female friends have told me there is a girl who fights over me with another girl. They've also tried to get me to go to some sort of formal with her and recently, the mu... (152 words)

Is the labia a pleasurable part for some women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

30 April 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - is it true that streching the inner lips of the virgina increases sexual pleasure. i pulled and streched mine but now my pussy looks awkward. wat do men think abt this. do gals in porn movies strech therez too? ... (39 words)