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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My sister married a loser, and how she and I never speak.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Older sister was in love once before, and engaged. Her previous relationship cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. Now, she left that guy and met the guy she is married to now. and he is a total loser. No job, no drive, no personality. He is very drab, devoid of ... (119 words)

I'm in love with my cousin's daughter and need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help, I fell in love with my cousin's daughter. (I'm 21, she's 18) I know some people think it's wrong and immoral but I truly have developed feelings for her. We don't get to see each other since we live far away from each other, we mostly talk via phone or chat. W... (190 words)

Is it over?? Even though it never officially started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I’m 15 yo. I had this huge crush on this boy called 'wb' we go to the same school but now it’s summer break n I haven’t seen him since the last day at school!!!!!He went to Canada I think!! I still think of him all the time and I dream about him mostly eve... (168 words)

Embarrassed that I have to be tested for an STD again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to go for an STI check-up as I stupidly participated in drunken fore play with someone who I don't know that well. I have been disagnosed with an STI before (my ex-boyfriend cheated on me) and I'm just worried about the reaction of the people I'll have to deal with if ... (92 words)

He always has a gleam in his eye when he talks to me, but never texts or messages me!

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31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today on the bus I was talking to my guy friend and he talked to me for the first time I've seen him. He thought that I was absent for 7 days. I told him that I was here for the first two days of school. He argued with me and smiled like he was right. He said that he hasn't ... (153 words)

He hasn't physically cheated, but I feel betrayed. How to work on this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry this is long but I had a hard time cutting the fat from this thread. Here's the whole story. After I wrote and proofread this I realized I don't feel better at all. I'm sure you will have no difficulty understanding how that is. On Thursday I asked my bf to delete pro... (1544 words)

Is this my fault? This is not how I imagined love and commitment to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating the same guy for 4 years. Well, we had an 18 month break in between where we still saw each other and slept with each other daily. I continued to help pay his rent and taking care of his daughter during this time. I felt like that was my way of keeping ... (277 words)

My boyfriend and his new best friend... he seems suddenly secretive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a new female friend who he has been somewhat secretive about. Should I be worried? I've been with him two years now and I've never met or heard of this women. Supposedly they were friends in middle school, but they haven't spoken for at least thre... (285 words)

I love everything about him, except that he drinks too much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly two years and i love almost everything about him apart from the fact that i think he drinks way too much. He says he's not an alcoholic and could stop if he wanted to but he doesn't want to. I don't want h... (160 words)

I'm in love with my brother's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do i tell my brother i am in love with his best friend? I have been seeing my brothers best friend (david) for about a month now behind my brothers back. David says we need to tell my brother so we can have a more opened relationship. I dont know or how to tell my broth... (88 words)

How do I help relieve the stress in her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry this might be a little long, but I need help relieving my girlfriend's stress. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and we live together. My girlfriend is and I are both in college and have jobs but she is doing way too much, well at least I think. My ... (332 words)

I really dislike my boyfriend's sister...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry to say this, but I really dislike my boyfriend's sister. She just isn't a nice girl. She is so rude. She is constantly belching and farting, and doesn't even bother to excuse herself. I know everyone burps and farts, but the fact that she is always letting 'em rip ... (310 words)

Too much in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age - I have been married a little over a year after a divorce from a 35 year marriage. We are both madly in love with each other and spend every minute we can together, we just can't seem to get enough of each other. I moved to a new city to enable her to stay at her job, I am ... (202 words)

How do I punish my son for what he did?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Our 3 year old is very intelligent. He can write his name, sing the alphabet and ride a bike without training wheels. He is an excellent talker and even uses big words to describe things in detail. HOWEVER, he is mean to our dog. I keep threatening to give the dog away and I ... (334 words)

What do I tell people about how and why we broke up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello , me and my boyfriend recently broke up . we both dicided that it ws best not to go out any more . the probem is that lots of people are saying that i dumped him by text and that i was really harsh and all but the truth is , he was just as much a part of it as i was !... (139 words)

I want him to ask me out again! How do I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Nine months ago, I became single after a two-year (not to mention shitty) relationship. Just over a year and a half ago, the guy I'm after became single after a four year relationship. We're both not exactly over our ex's but we're certainly not stuck on them, if you know what ... (230 words)

She never calls me and I feel stupid calling her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I,ve been dating this girl for some months now and we do call each other but recently she does'nt call i've always been d one calling her,and anytime i call and ask her why she did'nt call,she always apologise.without telling me why.i am scared of loosing her and she says she ... (87 words)

Why do I feel I NEED this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are together but my sudden problem is - I think that I NEED him. I don't really have many friends anymore. Everyone went their own ways for college and such. He is majoring in Aerospace Engineering and I am majoring in Social Working. I think because of the ... (145 words)

Too clingy and paranoid? Or does he just not love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone and thanks for taking the time to read my question. I'll try to keep this as brief as I can. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and love him madly. I'm never happier than when I am with him just cuddling and laughing at silly things that no-one else... (723 words)

Not feeling the same about my boyfriend anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now and he treats me very well. he is a complete gentleman, he gets along with my family and i with his. I love him but i find that over the past couple of months i'm getting very irritated with certain things he does. we have ... (255 words)

2 years with boyfriend but still think of my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved here a 3 years ago and left back in my country a guy that I had been dating for almost a year. He loved me alot, and now I went back to colombia and saw him again. I had always kept in touch with him, even though we broke up. He has a girlfriend and she lives with him. ... (568 words)

After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had sex on the 10, then we had a ... (139 words)

My cousin's husband is "flirting' with me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay! Im 14 years old. My cousin is 21 and married to this guy who is 23. They have a 4 month old baby together. I went to there house for a week to hang out and babysit. It was a blast. i drove around with her husband all the time he is still like a kid so into his car and ... (300 words)

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and my boyfriend had sex for the ... (231 words)

Why the hell would my boyfriends dad send me 7 friend requests on Facebook?!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, been living with my boyfriend for 5 months now, been together for 5 years. I was checking my Facebook profile the other day when I was surprised to get 7 friend requests from my boyfriend's dad! Why would anyone need 7 Facebook accounts?? I dont get it! I a... (106 words)

What else apart from cranberry juice gets rid of cystitis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 20 and suffer from cystitus quite a bit doess anyone know of anything that helps to get rid of this when it starts apart from cranberry juice because i cant drink it. any answers would be a great help!! thanks... (48 words)

I want sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I first off I know that this is not a medical site but I am too self conscience to ask my doctor about this. I have a bf and we have a great relationship (been daing for 18 months) our sex life is beyond wonderful, but during the last 5 months or so I want more and more. We ... (196 words)

Went snooping through all of his things and found stuff from his past - do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know if this is a *me* problem that I should work on personally, or if I need to talk to my boyfriend about it too. I'll apologize for this being so long now. I just have a lot to say about the issue at hand. This morning, I have no idea what got into me but, I ... (715 words)

I want to go out with him, but I feel that the age difference is holding me back! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so Ive met this one guy online a few months. We live close and I actually found that we go to the same college. Well we met one day and hit it off. He is a sweetheart and I really like him. I think he has serious boyfriend potential. He is pretty much pefect and exactly my ... (130 words)

Making comments about when I was skinny..now he ignores me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfirend made a comment the other day about my weight. He said I looked so good when I was skinny. The other night I was eating a piece of chocolate and he said your never going to lose weight if you keep treating yourself to sweets. He used to be so nice to me when I was ... (93 words)

How can I get the relationship with my daughter back on track?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age - I have a 27 year old daughter who left home and does not speak to my husband, myself and my son. She does speak to my twin sister and my sister does not share what is going on in her life and that has made my sister and my relationship rocky. My sister says she is doing ... (119 words)

Somebody to talk to when she has nothing else to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5351 days ago

31 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok readers, i've got this little problem. I first started gettin to know a women over the net, it was all great at first, contact 24/7, she refers to me as babe, sexyful, and says she's misses me when she hasn't been able to chat to me. Thing is, we have gotten to the point ... (136 words)

Any ideas what it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there i have a dry patch of skin on the shaft of my penis toward the base. it started out as a an angry spot that subsided, and dry skin replaced it. its about the size of the top half of my thumb from the knuckle. its rarely itchy, but when i scratch or rub the the skin ... (97 words)

I'm in love with my friend, I can't live with her and I can't live without her! What do I do?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been close friends with this girl for most of my life. For the past few years I have been in love with her. We went out but things ended badly and we didn't speak for 6 months. Luckily we were able to get past that and ar enow close friends again. The thing is I... (222 words)

If a girl says 'thank you' after you've been on a date, does it mean it's over? And how do I ask a girl from school out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) age 26-29 - [Mod note - two seperate questions were from the same poster, so I have combined both] Q1: im gonna ask this girl out. im 15, shes 16. I know her from school. Ask her out at school? If I do ask her out at school it cant be nothing super huge or fancy. what are some tips o... (99 words)

Is he trying to make me feel guilty for turning down sex? His use of words were inappropriate and put me off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out on Saturday and I wanted us to sit down and have a grown-up conversation. I have to admit (I'm a chatterbox). Anyways, it was good because we brought a lot of things out in the open. In between that we were cuddling and he wanted to ... (255 words)

B/f convinced he's not the one for me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years for the first couple of years we got on great we never had a crossed word and we fell deeply in love with each other. But for the last year our relationship has been very up and down and my boyfriend belives that he is no the one for me ... (86 words)

I'm 46 and want to be more than a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age - I am not a young woman, I'm a 46 year old who has been dating a 52 year old man for 3 years now. I'm divorced and his wife passed away. I want marriage but he doesn't. I have an 18 year old son who lives with me and my boyfriend wants to wait til he's on his own before we do ... (140 words)

Ladies preferences on men: Hairy? Or Not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age - This question has probably been asked before but anyway here goes: Ladies; do you prefer your man, lover, partner, FWB, to be: A) Hairy B) Slightly Hairy C) Shaved D) Completely waxed and hairless all over including BCS.... (47 words)

Something seems to be missing in our relaitonship and I keep picking fights with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with a girl for nearly 6 months now and we were getting on great until about 3 weeks ago. I havent fallen out of love with her and still find as attractive as ever but something seems to be missing from our relationship. I find myself picking arguements ... (211 words)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when i asked him about it he said ... (276 words)

We want to tell that we caught them smoking but we are afraid!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Help! My best friends older brother and his friends were smoking, we knew it. We decided to find out of we were right. Then we accidentally walked in on them!! There faces showed it all, plus the cigarettes on the ground and the smoke. They were planning to not let us go th... (118 words)

Marriage-I wake up every morning thinking I made a big mistake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, OK - here is my question. I've been married for two years -- through the engagement, I thought about breaking things off multiple times. Now I wake up almost every morning thinking: I made a big mistake. There are several problems, but it all boils down ... (191 words)

My husband looks at she-male porn. Do straight men do this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3151 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband looks at shemale porn, but says he is not gay. The shemale's are cleary men with breast.what do you think? Are there any straight men that like to look at shemale porn? ... (34 words)

How do you get a diagnosis for bi-polar?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age - Does anybody familiar with bi-polar mental illness? I think, it might be the reason that my husband and children are very hard to live with. There is no really anybody ,who can diagnose it, because it is not as serious,when it comes with all the symptomes. I think it might ... (177 words)

We got into a fight and I threatened to take the baby away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help as soon as possible, me and the love of my life, got in a fight, i lost my temper and threatened to take the baby away, and because of that we broke up. Shes currently pregnant with our child, and i regret saying that and wish i could take it back but i know ... (102 words)

I don't want a thrillsome threesome with my friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf has been talking about haveing a three some...and i was okk with it so i also have a gf I'm biisexual and my gf was my bestfriend 1st soo now my bf is talking about haveing a three some with her i don't feel rite with him haveing sex with her or any other girl then ... (76 words)

I think my step dad may be cheating on my mom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom has been married 4 a while now and i never liked the idea of marrying some one other then my dad soo now its been 9 years and i have gottten over it but now i feel my stepdad is cheating on my mom and don't no 4 sure but it sure does seem like it soo what should i do ... (78 words)

My partner is in love with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - This is so hard I broke u with my Patner last week we were really happy but I found out that he is love with his best friend and that he has been mailing her and wants to be with her but is unble to because he lives thousands of miles away and she said she is not ready to ... (206 words)

How often does it happen where a man can't get it up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

31 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I get the opinions of guys out there - how often do you have problems with not being able to "get it up"? The other night a guy I have just started dating and I tried to have sex for the first time. He's about 27. We were both very comfortable, we gave each other massa... (225 words)