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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a fat chick needin' love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend 2 years ago, and when i did i was very athletic and weighed 161 lbs. i got pregnant, and got fat. i now weigh 268 lbs. he does not want to have sex anymore, and actually stopped when i began to gain weight in the beginning. he says it's not because of me, or ... (173 words)

How does chlamydia happen in a monogamous relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a very weird question. I have been with my man for a few years, in what I thought was a monogamous relationship. I got a checkup a while back, and they said I had chlamydia. They also said that chlamydia can only be spread through oral, anal, or vaginal sex. I ... (132 words)

Did I make a mistake by never making an effort with my ex girlfriend when I had the chance?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I had a girlfriend who was really nice to me, gorgeous, independent, smart (college grad), never asked me for material things, cooked for me, took care of me when i was sick, there for me when i needed her, faithful-- and i never made time for her. i blew her off and never ... (266 words)

How do I know if I'm bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I'm a bit confused about my sexuality i mean I'm getting married in 5wks to the most fantastic bloke I could wish for but I fantasize about having sex with women when I watch porn it has to involve at least 2 women I've had 3 somes with women and enjoyed them but still ... (92 words)

I feel controlled by my girlfriend, but I wonder if I am the one in the wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

- Hi, I'm having problems with my girlfriend but im not sure if it is me who is in the wrong. I'm 30 and she is nearly 27. We have been going out 4 mths now, and I normally see her a few times a week. However she doesnt like me arranging social activities with my friends without ... (265 words)

She's abusive. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a party. Then we got in a fight a... (95 words)

Is there something still between me and my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a conversation with my ex boyfriends friend who i had never met before. He asked me if i still had feelings for him and i admitted that i did. A couple of other of his friends were around at the time, would i be niave to think this information wouldn't have got back to ... (183 words)

I have a lot of white discharge and no matter how many times I go to the doctor, it just son't go away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am so sorry this is so long. i just want to know if anyone else has this problem. i have heaps of white discharge. all the time for about 2 years now. maybe a little less. i thought it was yeast ifections. so i would treat it as such and sometimes it would go away. it always ... (269 words)

Does he truly love me, or is he with me because I do stuff to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this is my 4th bf but his the only guy that actully kiss me...then well we started to play around. taking our clothes off but we just touch each other we don't do more than that is that natural in a relationship he tells me he loves me but i'm not sure if he love me fo... (112 words)

I'm worried that I look too young! How can I look older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know most people are concerned about ageing and looking older than their years, but I'm worried that I look TOO young! I'm 23 years old, and I'm often mistaken for 16 or younger. Once or twice I have even been mistaken for 12 (of course this was from children who wer... (165 words)

We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am texting him later he will ... (204 words)

I'm new to the UK and trying to figure out sexual behaviour here. Any statistics/experiences/advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering: In the United Kingdom, what is the average sexual behaviour of people? Are the majority of people ok with no strings attached sex, or do most prefer waiting for a relationship? And is it a foreign concept to wait until you are married? If some of the ... (97 words)

My periods have been regular for more than seven years - until now. What could be causing the difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am 17 years old and started my periods when i was 9 and they have been regular but this month my period only lasted 3 days when they usually last for 5 to 6 days there is no chance of me being pregnant i was just wondering is this normal ... (50 words)

I texted my ex happy birthday and he didn't even reply. Why would he just ignore me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I hope someone can help me. I feel I have no-one I can talk to about this and its churning around in my head. My ex and I split up some months ago and since then we have had very little contact. today was the first birthday he has had since we split and I texted him once ... (125 words)

Hot? Or cool? What sort of relationship is this really?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Kinda long..sorry..I met this really cute guy at a night club. We danced last few songs. Got his number. A few days later I go to his place. We kiss and hug (didn't hit 3rd base), but after we talked and laughed for a few hours. I then saw him again about a week later. Same ... (254 words)

I need to tell him how much I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and just graduated from high school. I like a guy who is turning 17 August 9th. I've liked him for about 5-6 months now and I'm not sure if he knows I like him. We've been best friends for two years now. After getting advice from my friends I reluctantly asked ... (396 words)

I'm trying to organise something in my community to bring people together. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i'm trying to organize something in my community to bring people together but ideas that will interest people are prooving quite hard to find, in general people act kind of apathetic and closeminded but there is so much more to them when you look. i want something that ... (111 words)

How do I try to overcome these intense feelings of jealousy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i'll just get straight to the point. I like this girl and I have done for quite a while now, and she doesn't feel the same way back. Which I'm coping with, not easily but I can deal with it. But the biggest problem at the moment is, if i know she's spending time with ... (150 words)

I've dumped my boyfriend once before and regreted it. I don't want to make the same mistake again for a guy that comes off as a player.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and I had this friend for a while. We dated for a few weeks and I gave into peer pressure and dumped him. We became best friends but I regretted it everyday of my life for about 7 months, when we started dating again. We've been dating for 2 months now. The first month ... (424 words)

He doesn't know what he wants, I keep being dumped and picked up again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend have been on and off for years. After 5 years i asked him are you sure you really want me?Because lately id been feeling like im more than a nuisance in his life. He spends time going places and doing things with his mates sayin im not adventurous enough or dont ... (184 words)

I'm getting paranoide about my boyfriend's marrieds, female friend. How can I keep myself calm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age - Maybe I am blowing this all out of proportion (past scars and all that), but i am very anxious about tonight... my bf has a friend who's a girl and they've been hanging out a lot, and enjoy each others' company. Also, they have nearly identical careers in a major way. She is ... (119 words)

I really need to understand what his fascination to 'let loose' all over me is all about!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What is with the male fascination with porn and cumshots? I guess I don't understand the appeal of it. Maybe some of the guys can explain it. I can always tell when my b/f has been looking at porn because he will pull out during sex and let loose on my tummy or chest. I don'... (84 words)

Can suffering from S.A.D. "Social Anxiety Disorder" affect your sex life or performance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone suffer from social anxiety disorder? If so, how does it affect your sex life/sexual performance? Do you suffer from feelings of embarrassment or guilt after having sex with a new partner?... (34 words)

Could it be because he can't betray his dead wife's memory?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age - Other people said we looked good together on the dance floor, and we have so much in common its uncanny. we are roughly the same age and just by coincidence he lives in a small town a long way away, but I have a flat that I rent out just virtually down the road to him. he gave ... (187 words)

I feel she's changed, and now it's making me feel very insecure. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Since she got back from holiday she has been different. We were very much in love. Telling each other every day how we felt. Since she has been back we have been different. She doesn't tell me how she feels any more. Beca... (181 words)

Do women like being told straight-up that you fancy them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody. I really like this woman at work and have done so for a couple of years. However, I only see her about 2/3 days a week usually, though when we are around each other we get on well. I don't know if she likes me, but I just have to tell her how I feel about her. ... (144 words)

How can I deal with this? My stepmom won't let me have extended visits with my mom anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Last night I was watching TV and when I had to go to bed I saw my favorite show was on, so I decided to watch it, when it was done I went upstairs to find my stepmom watching me. Because she knew I didn't go to bed, I got in trouble, and now she blames my real mom because I ju... (105 words)

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my friends are girls. I did noth... (79 words)

When I like someone, my old shyness problem awakens again. Why can't I be myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i thought i had dealt with this problem, and i have for the most part, but when i like someone my old shyness problem awakens again. And because of this anyone i like - i cant act normal and like myself around because of how i lock up. But this has also made me have prob... (108 words)

He's like a chav, but he's also like a real gentleman, and I really like him. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is a big story sort of lol. Well i am 13. I like this boy who is in year 9. He has been out with girls my year but i really like him. He is like a chav but is also like a real gentleman. I really like him and i think about him everyday, he has recently split up wit... (108 words)

Confused about my ex and feeling really blue, again! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have wrote on here before and got some really good advice, but im afraid i need help again over the same sort of problem. For background see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/confused-about-my-ex-and-feel-really-blue.html well its been longer now and i thought i was do... (309 words)

I felt he must have thought something of me, or am I being silly here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age - I cant make this guy out. I met him on holiday we didnt have sex although he was trying his best every day!!! He got angry becasue I didnt, but then when he returned back he emailed me and asked to meet up, and we did, a few days later (he doesnt live near me). We met afte... (281 words)

All 3 fancy me, so which one do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well basically ive known these three guys since primary school till now, and we've all been good friends. All three of them fancied me at some stage in primary school but i have found out over the last couple of weeks that they all still do. problem is, now we are at an age o... (106 words)

I'm heartbroken. I want to confront him about what I discovered, but I don't want him to know how I found out. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for only like a month. i have fallen pretty hard for him. everything about him is perfect to me...and everything always seems to fall into place. the other day he lost his cell phone and i found it today at my house. I DID look through it...whi... (106 words)

I love my girlfriend's best friend. I am confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. so i have beem going out with this girl for over 3 years now. but recentley, she made a new friend (a girl), me and her got talking and became good friends. But in the past few dasy i have started to realy hate my gf but dont have the guts to tell her. But the b... (142 words)

He was so nice to me, and then he said I'm not giving him the space he needs. I feel lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question. I was supported by a good friend during a very painful breakup. He and I became a little more than friends as we talked multiple times a day. He decided after we talked to come out to Arizona to meet me for a four day weekend. It was love at frist sight ... (746 words)

Should I give it one more shot with my ex or move on this other great guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my ex and i had been apart for 3 months and then here he comes (lets name him Will) and saying that he made a mistake and learned what he did wrong and asks me if i want to give it another go. and i still had feelings for Will. thing is our friend (lets name him James) has been ... (248 words)

I have had it with this guy and don't want to see him anymore, but my Dad doesn't back me up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm hoping someone can help me with my problem. (i'm sorry it's running long)There was this guy from my church who really likes me. In the very beginning, he was sweet and really polite and fun to ahng out with, yet he is an illegal citizen (which isn't to say he isn't a ... (414 words)

He was into foursomes in the past. How do I make sure he isnt into that anymore?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is My boyfriend was once married, and then come to find out he and his wife were into foursomes, when I ask him about it because I just want to make sure that he doesn't still have those feeling because I won't do it he get mad at me and walks away, he keeps s... (149 words)

I am a ratty person and I get annoyed when I crave something and don't get it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My GF wants a break away from sex as she said she gets hurt sometimes, im worried that this will make our r'ship break because I know sex aint the only thing in the relationship but it is one main key to a relationship. I'm a ratty person and I get annoyed when I crave for ... (68 words)

How can I support my boyfriend during this trying time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello- Was wondering if you guys could give me some insight on this situation: How to comfort a loved one during and after the death of a family member. My fiance's grandmother is very ill and has just recently stopped eating (which is usually a sign that things are shutting... (120 words)

Can you answer questions about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - can you answer quetions about sex?... (6 words)

I am in love with my boyfriends best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend more than my boyfriend..me and ... (84 words)

Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been interested in. My wife is crazy ... (389 words)

I don't know what I should do if she cheated on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i really love my girl friend we hav been together for 3 years in 15 and shes 18 wut should i do if she cheated on me for i dont know 3 weeks should i go back out with her ? she cheayed on me cuz she heard i was cheating her which wasnt true.... (55 words)

I adore my internet boyfriend, but now I'm worried that he's cheating.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, Im in an internet relationship, He lives in America and im from the UK. We've been together 1 and a half year 1.7 on the 3rd. We've always spoke in the morning and at night but recently he said he wants space, and doesnt want to talk in the morning. ... (162 words)

How can I make my first time having sex enjoyable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi DearCupid, I'm 23 and a virgin. Basically, my question is how can I make my first time having sex an enjoyable one, or at least partially enjoyable? You seem to hear that everyone's first time is a disaster, awkward, or embarrassing, so how can I minimise that to a... (116 words)

Am I over-reacting about this 'friend'? She and I are on a break.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are on a break, but she has told me that just just needs some space and time for a little, and then we can be back together, when she has sorted her personal things out. She has said she won't do anything with anybody else in this time, and even though we ... (377 words)

He talked me into sending him pictures of me in my underwear, I promised myself I wouldn't and I did. Now I feel stupid and used!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey. I know that when you read this you'll think Im stupid, naive and easily led, but I know this already and Im so full of regret at what Ive done. Basicly, I know a lad (we're friends), he is two years older than me. I knew I should stay away from him, I knew I should forget ... (399 words)

Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband can not get me pregnant do to a surgery that he had many years ago. My question for this community is this. Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?... (44 words)

Why do I feel so sad over this guy? I'm not even going out with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do i feel so sad over this guy that im not even going out with? I feel like crying. He likes someone else..i dont know what to do..i have never felt like this about any guy before. im trying to move on but i cant. what should i do?... (50 words)

Why did he pretend that he didn't call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy that i like called me 3 times last night but i couldnt answer because i didnt have my phone with me that night. He left a message, but when i emailed him asking if he called he says "no why baby?" why did he pretend as if he didnt call me? a few weeks later i emailed ... (119 words)

I think my wife is having an affair. Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Readers: I feel my wife is having an affair on me. Thsi has happened in the past feeling this way. She doesn't seem to come on to me or is not interested in sex. She never really wants to look at me when we do it. I initiate it all the time she lets me do whatever I feel ... (79 words)

It was only our third date and he asked me what I wanted to name our kids. Then when I said I thought we would have cute babies together, he freaked out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started seeing this really attractive man and on the 3rd date, he asked me what I would like to name my kids. I thought this was a strange question. But I played along with it because I'm really attracted to him. Since then, he has asked me about what kind of ... (185 words)

My boyfriend wants a tattoo with a bike and some lady on it! I feel a bit uneasy about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

- I'm feeling a bit indifferent about my boyfriend getting his new tattoo. He wants a tattoo with a bike and then some lady on it. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, not planning to seperate, anytime soon at least. I would like the lady to resemble me a ... (161 words)

My boobs aren't growing!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since i was 15 i have had 32a boobs bin a size 6 and 5'8 j havent grown in any way my boobs are so small i feel like getting a boob job because it has brang me down now for past couple of years. i try my hardest to put on weight nothing works is their something wrong with ... (73 words)

On a date, who should pick up the bill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the proper etiquette when going out on a date on who should pay? I always expect the man to pay for at least the first few dates. Then I may put some money towards dinner once in a while. Is this ok? ... (44 words)

I am confused because again there are 2 women in my life and each fulfilles different needs for me. Help me figure my emotions out and make a decision!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, i am a 31 year old male. this is a little complex but bear with me. I was with a girl for 7 years but for the last 4 i was secretly seeing someone else. The problem with my girlfriend was that i was not physically attracted to her but she had emotional issues and was a... (672 words)

Are tampons or pads better for periods?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I was wondering r tampons or pads better for periods? I was going to try using a tampon for the first time, but the instructions said only use it if it's a moderate period. I happen to be having a heavy period. I'm afraid to use tampons though, because i'm bound to put it ... (125 words)

My friend asked the boy I fancy if he loves me; I will took to him soon, what shall I say to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like to begin by saying thankyou to those who are going to help me with my current predicament and if you need any help i will be there for you also! i love this guy. i have for three years. and i know some would think i'm to young to know love but i personally think... (208 words)

Even if I tell her cheating is not my intention, she insists that I am lying and that I ought to just "confess" and she'll forgive me!?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing a woman whom I feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the problem is, she doesnt trust me as far as she can throw me. If I contact any other women whom she isn't familiar with, she accuses me of cheating on her, and she won't let up. Even if I tell her ... (128 words)

She is a bit of a shy person and supports sex after marriage! I am exactly the opposite!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a confused state of my mind regarding my girlfriend.. We were friends from college but chose different universities in different cities to stay in...so we have always been in a long distance relationship..but v hve been together for 4 years now.. However, she doesnt ... (157 words)

He tells me he loves me but it just does not feel enough! I have a fear of our relationship going wrong due to my past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi agony aunts ok ive been with my partner a few months and it got a bit complicated with things going on on both sides..but in the end we really do love each other..just i sometimes have a hard time explaining things or how im feeling i want him to understand..i do love him... (219 words)

I may have developed feelings for my boss who is flirty and has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and have recently started working in a bar. My boss is very flirty and keeps making suggestive remarks. However he is in his 40's and has a girlfriend. I'm not sure if he is just being friendly or is like this with everyone else, he doesn't seem to act this way with... (100 words)

We are having a break while trying to sort our problems. I fear he's not truthful to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - We been together 5 years we been broken up for almost 5 months. He told me he wanted to work things out and become faithful to me. He even told me I could see his phone records so I know he won't be cheating. But right now while we are just getting back in the grove of thin... (197 words)

Is my sister-in-law teasing me or what???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years now and she has a sister which is a couple years younger than her...I am really not exactly sure what I should do on this situation so I thought I could ask for some advice.... her sister is unmarried and no attachments at the ... (807 words)

She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the moment i do not have any money to get h... (156 words)

I am never good enough to please my mother... what do I do next time she screams at me?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It doesn't matter what I do, my mother never seems to care. I play flute and I'm getting good at it, I taught myself to play piano and I get decent grades at school. But she doesn't care at all. I'm lucky if I get a very quiet 'well done' from her when I get an A or play a ... (207 words)

Should I move on and forget about him?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy that i like called me 3 times last night but i couldnt answer because i didnt have my phone with me that night. then he left a message. i emailed him asking if he called he says "no why baby?" why did he pretend as if he didnt call me? a few weeks later i emailed him, ... (95 words)

How long should I wait before I make a move on this guy who broke up with his long term girlfriend?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How long should a girl wait before making a move on a guy who recently broke up with his girlfriend of 3 yrs because she cheated on him? He sms'd me once and seemed to show some interest in me by starting a conversation with me at a party but i kind of showed a lack of interest ... (145 words)

I'm a gay man, married to a woman... am I doing the right thing, pretending to be straight?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need help!! I am a gay guy age 29, trying to have a straight life and relationship. I love my wife more than anything. now i have two questions: 1: Am i doing the right thing by trying to be straight? 2: Are there ways I can spice up our sex life?... (62 words)

Men, do you discuss details of your sex lives with your buddies?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question for the men. Do you guys discuss what happens in the bedroom with your male buddies, or best friends? I'd like to think what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Do you guys compare notes and tell each other if she was a good lover or not?... (55 words)

He had an orgasm on top, but not inside of me, what are the odds of pregnancy?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - about 6 days agot me and my boyfriend had sort of unprotected sex. hehad an orgasm on top of my vigina but not inside what are the chnces that im pregnant?... (31 words)

What can I do before I lose her forever?

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31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I am a soon-to-be college freshman who has been granted the wonderful opportunity to attend an outstanding university, and I am quite excited at being able to soon take advantage of all the new opportunities presented before me. Unfortunately, I will also be ... (683 words)

I've been rejected... again. What is wrong with me?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age - Hi yet again I have been rejected. I don't know how much more rejection I can take anymore. I don't want to spend the rest of my life on my own but I'm so hurt at the moment. Last year my long term live in partner dumped me for someone he worked with. traumatic the way ... (448 words)

I'm self-conscious about my body, I'm afraid that when we have sex he'll tell his friends about it!

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm self concious of my body and am scared to have sex for the first time because i fear that he won't like my body and will tell all his friends about it. Are guys usually like this. please help!... (40 words)

My boyfriend is a "minute man". Any advice?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is almost 34 years old and is a "minute man". He's the first guy I've been with that didn't have a little more control over said issue. Are there any men that might have some advice? Is lasting longer a genetic thing, a mental thing? Can it be learned? ... (51 words)

Why do I keep thinking about him?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age - I met this young man he saw interest in me and wanted to know me more.I really liked him as well. Well we went out a few times we were really getting to know one another and growing fond of one another.He shared with me that he had friends one day he found out that one of his ... (152 words)

Our relationship is lacking in communication... he never tells me how he feels! Help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating someone for almost a year now. He might very well be the nicest guy I've ever dated. He's handsome, caring, thoughtful and all the things you'd want in a man...almost. I feel our relationship is lacking communication in the fact that he never tells me how he ... (182 words)

Thrilled about a new pregnancy! What is something special that I can do for my wife?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all not really a question but more of an announcement! I want to tell the world but I think this is the closest I shall get! I am very excited, my beautiful goddess of a wife has just informed me we are about to have another child!! It will be our third. I already hav... (163 words)

I get self concious around girly girls, and I sometimes feel like my boyfriend wants me to be more feminine. Help!

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello! so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. we're close and all so it's all good. but i am so self conscious. like i'm a tom boy i guess. i'm not a girly girl at all and i don't wear girly stuff. it's just not me and i don't want to be like everybod... (276 words)

What are stretch marks?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i've read about streatch marks but i have no idea what r they i know i am a female and i should know about it but i really have absolutely NO IDEA what strech marks r ... (40 words)

How can I talk to my girlfriend and be closer to her?

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31 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i am 14 and my gf is 13. we have been dating 4 a year and a half now. i realy love her. but this summer we have talked about 3 times. wat do i do to be more closer to her. and wat do i say to her. she likes alot of thigs so just give me a topic plz. ... (62 words)

I'm in love with my gay friend, but I'm beginning to wonder if he has feelings for me. He acts like he does.

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend told me he was gay when it was too late and i'd already fallen for him. i'm seriously in love with him, and i have told him exactly the way i feel, it didn't effect our friendship and actually brought us closer together. he tells me things like how he loves me m... (216 words)

I think I'm in love with him, but I don't want to ruin our special friendship.

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been friends with this guy for like a realy long time,he's sweet, sensitive, and everything good, but the problem is im in love with him but he only loves me as a sister. and i cant seem to get him off my mind, i tried to convince myself that i only like him lik a brother ... (170 words)

Will losing my virginity help my self confidence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 in a few days. I always feel lonely and lost even if I have a girlfriend. I guess I just feel different from everyone else. Maybe it's a self-confidence thing. Does anyone think that losing my virginity will help this a little? I mean, I want it to be perfect and ... (71 words)

How can I do something nice for my grandma to stop her stressing out?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My problem doesn't have anything to do with sex or anything, its about my grandma. I love my grandma so much and she's sooooo stressed out I'm 17 and she's like my best friend. Im scared that she's gonna pass away from all the stress from all the family drama. I... (84 words)

Can opposites attract?

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31 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi helpful aunties, I just need some opinions here. Can opposites attract? I'm a pretty easy going guy and don't really have a "hectic" social life. Now, I've met a girl who is very much the polar opposite and who is a big party girl and who has a whirlwind social li... (160 words)

I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!

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31 July 2008 (M)

- what does this mean? ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday . and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl whos not like her one bit ... ... (623 words)

The guy I like is five years older than me and flirts a lot, what do I do?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - here it is. I am falling in love with the guy who is 20, and I am 15, well the age difference isnt my biggest conserne. what realy makes me sad, that he is a very cocky person, he isnt mean to me, and doesnt put me down, but i see him do that with other people, he is ve... (152 words)

Why is everyone I love leaving me? My mum's so upset, it's making me worse!

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31 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hya, my name is Jodie, i was just wondering if you could help me. You see i don't know what to do, as i've just recently come out of a relationship that i wanted to be in my whole life, and i'm tryin my hardest to get over him. But now i have my mum crying and i'm crying as my m... (98 words)

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

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31 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, she always hangs with other ... (148 words)

Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and so does he. He plans on gett... (230 words)

My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.

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31 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ... (43 words)

I'm torn between my ex-husband and my boyfriend! What gives?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. My very soon to be ex husband left me and our two younger children at the time ages 2months and 2years. He left me for his ex girlfriend who was is very first. I was a stay at home mom that was a full time student. I was so hurt he would not come to see his kids ... (399 words)

I don't want our daughter to be involved with the "other woman"!

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i have a five year old daughter together. after an eight year relationship he says that he dont love me. days after he tells me this he is with another woman. i do not want my daughter to see him if he is with her. what do i do?... (52 words)

Does he chat with her instead of spending time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had this girl add him on Msn, he doesnt know who she is and she started talking about sex and trying to have cyber sex with him. I told him i wasnt too happy about it (he would go mad if it was me!) He says he deleted her and doesnt talk to her, but he has been ... (174 words)

Have I lost her forever? She has no patience left for me...

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31 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so if you have read my other question you already know what has been going on somewhat, but for those who havent. My girl that i am madly in love with has decided she wants to know what its like to be single. To not have to worry about anyone but her self. It started off be ... (472 words)

How can I get to know the guy from the pub?

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31 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I really like a guy in my local town and he goes down to the pub alot with some of his guy friends... but i dont really know him and he doesnt know me..? how can i get to know him, my friend knows him and she is trying to play matchmaker and saying "i think you should... (110 words)