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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2008 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I talk to a boyfriend that thinks I'm a compulsive liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with my BF for a little over a year. He doesn't trust me and I spend all my time with him. Now I feel like everything I say is wrong so I don't even speak. he gets so mad at me and tells me I'm a compulsive liar and a cheat Im depressed and feel ... (82 words)

Is he staying for me or for the kids? How can I really tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been in a relationship for almost 5 years and we have 2 kids together. I really love him, and I want to be together forever.We have been fighting a lot lately and now I think he wants to end things. He tells me hes not happy and he is gonna leave, but then we talk and... (88 words)

I have no sex drive due to a hysterectomy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a total hysterectomy i had tumors when i was 27 and now i have no sex drive at all i could care less my husband wants to have sex all the time it seems. I don't take hormones I've tried black cohosh and I'm just looking for some help with this .I love my husband and ... (70 words)

What can I do to show her that I want her? I was too afraid before...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age - 3 years ago i met this most amazing lady,i was instantly attracted to her in every way not my usual thing as its normaly a particular something that get my attention.she was just so diffrent and challenging and that i had never seen before, anyway i persuade her until she ... (236 words)

I need tips on how to please girls sexually. I'm bisexual.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, well, here goes, i am 14, and i AM for a fact bisexual, ive accepted that fact, you might think,. "oh shes too young", but i am more experienced and have seen more than you think. my problem is, i have been fingered by a past gf, and had sex and been eaten out by a few past ... (136 words)

Can you buy viagra legally in Cyprus? Or is there anything better you can buy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have trouble getting hard when wanting sex when drunk and going on holiday to cyprus next month can you viagra in cyprus and also is they anything betting you can buy. I bought some blue pills from ann summers but i tried one because i wanted to try before i go on holiday,... (80 words)

He tells me he doesn't want me to go but I feel I have to before its too late for my children. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - How do I leave my boyfriend/ father of my 2 children? My b-friend of almost 7 years and father of my 5 year old son and 18 month old daughter has lied to me too many times for me to count. Alot of the lies involve a girl that he "had" a crush on a while back. He hides phone ... (260 words)

I feel like I'm wasting away. I feel like I'm the one wearing the pants, not him. But I feel I have to ask him permission to see my friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 24. We've lived at his MOMs house for 3years. This guy hugs me everyday, at least 20times a day..so it seems. It annoys me cause we live together and I see him when I get home from work and on my off days. This guy likes to be around me alll ... (243 words)

My boyfriend doesn't trust me at all, he's moody, and seems to spend more time with his friends than with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesnt trust me at all. He recieved a weird message last night with two people moaning and it sounded like they were having sex. We had a fight that night, so he thought it was me, getting back at him. Of course it wasnt me. I do love him. But how can i be in a ... (411 words)

My boyfriend's memory problems... are they a sign that he's not interested in me or something medical? For example, he completely forgot that I had been in hospital!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling upset and that my boyfriend doesn't care about me because he has forgotten some things which have been important to me. I love him so much but I feel like I am getting little in return at times. I am starting to worry that he has a medical problem because the ... (438 words)

He's having an arranged marriage - I felt so hurt and betrayed. Then someone told his bride-to-be and I feel like I've ruined their marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend that I am in love with told me he is going to spend a couple of months in his country. He has been dropping subtle hints to me that he might get an arranged marriage but he NEVER told me directly. He has to respect his family and go through with it so there is no ... (713 words)

I haven't been in a relationship for a year. There's no one I like who likes me, and I've lost respect for myself.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I haven't been in a relationship in a year because I don't think I can handle it anymore. whenever I've been in one I was always stressed out. Especially during school because I'm in almost all honors/ap classes and 2 year ahead in math and I try my best to ... (455 words)

I've fallen for this lad, but I don't want my heart broken all over again. I would be grateful for any advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hello there! okay so this is quite a long confusing question/problem but im hoping people can help! anyways...ages ago i went to this place (i dont really wanna name it) and i saw this lad there and i was like omg! lol anyways i was guessing that he was 19 or something and am... (181 words)

I can't let go of his lies, and it's ruining my marriage. Can anyone offer any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can anyone help save my marraige? I've been married for seven years and am on the verge of ruining my marraige. I have caught my husband telling lies in the past and have checked his phone (stupidly) and seen messages I wish I hadn't. My problem is, I can'... (323 words)

He hasn't asked me anything about my life and my family, but he talks about his. Is that weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 36 yrs old and I am going through a divorce after 18 yrs. Met a new guy and went on a date. Date went great and he has called every day since. I am concerned, he talks about his life and family etc. but has not asked me anything about mine. Is that weird or is it too ... (89 words)

Students Falling in love with Their Teachers can really hurt? Your Opinions?

This question has 54 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. So their own passion is... (457 words)

I had sex with a gay guy. Should I tell his partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I had sex with a guy whos gay and in relationship should i tell his partner even if it means ever one else will find out that i am gay I had serveral sexually flings with this guy, he has a boy friend but there never do much in bed, he allows me and only me to do anything i... (107 words)

At 26, should I stick to sex with guys or try switching to girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old and never had sex with a girl, only guys, I never had the loving for girls, until few months ago, what is the best way to see if I like girls,as i am trying chatting a going clubbing but cant get any girls, should i just stick to guys or should i try different ... (60 words)

An enemy "told" on me to a boy I fancied, and it ruined everything. How can I recover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (?) age 26-29 - :( problem is i love this lad to bits , everything wa sfine between us until my enemy said to him that i fancied him , and yes i do but i kept it to myself so i didnt ruin anything , so i denied it of course to save my friendship , but now he ignoring me and i know for a fact t... (122 words)

I've becoming obsessed with him, but he's sending mixed signals. How can I get him into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - for 7 whole months i have been crushing on this boy and i think its becoming allot more than just a crush, i have told him how i feel and hes just confusing me and sending me the wrong signals and telling me things to confuse me. i dont think i will change my mind about this ... (94 words)

After three weeks of marriage, my 25 year old husband obsesses about his pension and isn't interested in me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, and my new husband's 25. We've been married for 3 weeks now and are set to go on honeymoon soon. Since we got married he's lost all interest in sex - when I initiate it he is more interested in surfing the Internet to look up pension plans. It's his birthday in... (298 words)

We're dating, but he's not sure if we're "going out", and it's confusing me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, So this one is probably been seen often here but since every situation is different, I thought i'd give it a shot. I've known Max* (name changed of course) for about 5 years now. I've always liked him and even asked him out last year, his reply was that there's to ... (521 words)

At 21, I've never had a boyfriend. What's wrong with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm nearly 21. I've never had a boyfriend, and I haven't had so much as a kiss in almost four years. I've went through my degree without going for a single proper night out, and the (very) few times someone's shown interest in me, I feel terrified and freeze them out by ... (155 words)

I can't handle my hormones! How do I stay a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im a 13 yr old girl have have size D boobs, i love them and get lots of attention for the boys beacuse of it, i,e they squeeze them and stuff. i really love it when they do andi get really really horeny aout it all the time, i feel like if i dont have sex im going to explode! ... (117 words)

I just want to kiss him but stay safe.... can I catch his STI?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im 13 and i like this boy and he is 14. He's not a virgin and i am. He wants to have sex with me but im not losing my virginity at this age because im too young. There's only one problem i think he has clamidia because that's what everyone is saying and i dont want to take ... (85 words)

Is it over.....forever?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone so i dont know what to do about this me and my boyfriend got into a fight last nite and he started to pack his things we were talking while he was packinghis things and he put all of his stuff outside and we went for a walk and he told me ill still loveyou no matter ... (170 words)

I told my friend I was gay and she still hasn't said anything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I told my friend a couple days ago that I was gay. I told her that she was the only one I told and that i just need help. She said she wasn't judgemental or anything like that but she won't talk to me. And I have no on else to tell. I have another friend and I asked them, "i... (112 words)

A bit paranoid about the closeness to my lesbian friend, should I talk to her about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well i got a very good friend and she told me a couple of weeks ago she might be a lesbian, but i didnt mind at all. But i had a sleepover sunday and when my other mate fell asleep she got into my bed and started to hold my hand so im feeling a bit paranoid or however you spel... (144 words)

Confused and worried about my sexuality...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all. I'm 19, I have a boyfriend which I'm not physically attracted to. But I do care about him. The problem is that I am physically and emotionally attracted to girls. Which would mean I'm probably bisexual or a lesbian in the worst case scenario. I'm ok with that, bu... (91 words)

Is it a good idea to continue taking another pack (the third) of contraceptive pills without a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Need your help please ladies!!! I was just wondering if anyone has continued taking their pack of contraceptive pills twice in a row therefore not having a period (7 day break) for two mouth running? Did you have any major side affects? I continued taking my current pack of ... (138 words)

The constant male attention she receives is causing me some self-confidence issues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, I have a beautiful girlfriend who I love very much...however the constant male attention she receives is causing me some self-confidence issues. I'm not exactly the worlds best looking bloke, so how do I deal with better looking men who are clearly ogli... (202 words)

I uploaded sexy videos of my girlfriend's to the Internet, where do I stand legally now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend made some sexy vids for me and sent them 2 my email while i was working away , months later we split after i found out she was cheating and in the heat of the moment uploaded them to internet . she found out and has said she is going 2 the police . were do i ... (98 words)

He told me he wants to stay friends but I don't think I can...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age - I have fallen in love with someone I dont know that well but I do know my feelings however he has told me he doeant love me which is fair enough and wants to stay friends (we have never slept together)I dont think I can handle this as obviously he will be wanting sex else... (114 words)

Why is his ex still so keen, despite of my presence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm suffering from extreme jealousy. My boyfriend has a lot of female friends, who he knew before me. He's also been single for seven years. My main issue is his ex-girlfriend. She lives in the US, while my bf and I live in the UK. The two of them chatted online, and met ... (160 words)

Did he get angry because he didn't have sex with her and felt he had wasted his time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age - My daughter has just asked me advice but living in a different age cant help her really - so can you please? She has just returned from a holiday with a friend of hers. She met a young man who wanted sex but she held back which is very admirable and wise I think but the ni... (373 words)

Teen hormones plus unrequited love...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i love someone but they dont love me but i want to have sex with him but he dosnt know i want to have sex what should i do?... (29 words)

Strong feelings and I don't understand them...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago. we keep getting together and breaking up and i thought i loved him but he hurt me a lot and all my friends now hate him for making me cry. i thought i was over him and had no feelings but recently i saw a new picture of him and i felt ... (98 words)

My violent boyfriend has cut contact with me. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all im really lost rite now and nees some advice a week ago me an my bf had a huge row he pushed me to the floor so i got up an slapped him an told him never 2 put his hands on me again well he went mad an tried 2 choke me i was terrifed i i couldn brethe then he let me go ... (186 words)

How can I be strong enough to break up with him when he cries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to break up with my boyfriend but I'm not sure how. He's controlling and quite smothering, and I don't want to break up in person. I have tried before and he cries uncontrollably and begs me to give him more chances etc, and I find it very hard to be assertive. I ... (134 words)

Should I have sex or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Could you try and help plz me and this boy are on about having sex i dont know wether i should go on with it or not hes a lovley boy and i do like him its just i think im a bit scared as we will be doing it outside (probably in a bush) it will also be our first time what should ... (66 words)

Does my female friend like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl, go to an all girls school and I have a crush on one of my female friends. We've recently become closer and that's made me like her even more! I sincerely doubt she likes me too and maybe it's just wishful thinking...but it almost seems like she's giving hints! Sh... (174 words)

Pornography Addiction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A porn/masturbation question My bf and I have been together for a year now. I had no issues with porn until now. That's pretty much all he'll watch. If he's watching a show or movie and a commercial comes on he'll switch to the porn channel. He says he just wants to know wh... (169 words)

I can't help but feel jealous. How can I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A relative of mine is very sucessful and has his own company and he has a gorgeous huge house here in the uk and 1 abroad.Also he owns high spec cars. I am very proud of him for what he has achieved but i cant help but feel jelous. I shouldnt be jelous as i live (with my pa... (234 words)

Broken up for two months, after a three year relationshp, talk all the time, had sex, still love each other, but confused, don't know how he will react now, what advice can you give me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship.We talk almost every day and we still visit each other.One day our feelings got too far and we had sex and now we are confused.We are still in love and I had to let him know how I feel about him.I dont know ... (69 words)

My husband talks with his female internet friend, for three hours at a time, I am troubled by this, he say it's nothing, am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Husband has internet friendship with female - I am very confused about his new friend he has found in a chat room. He says he has the right to have any friend he wants including a female who is single. He says it is nothing and he is just a chat friend. He tells me it is n... (644 words)

We are teenagers, we have sex, and we want to do it again immediately, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i am 14 and i have had sex many times with my gf who is 15. how come after sex me and her want to do it again. plz dont say under age stuff. we r real in love. we have been going out 4 3 yrs. ty ... (49 words)

Should my boyfriend have told me by now, that he likes me, we have been dating for a month and a half?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have a question. I've been in a relationship for the longest time and I've forgotten how they start. I'm currently seeing this guy that I like.. we've been seeing each other for about a month and a half and go out once a week, so its been about 5 or 6 dates. At f... (276 words)

This girl has an eye on my boyfriend, I am trying not to be jealous, but I am hearing rumors that he is cheating on me, should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for four years and I love him to death. However, to make a long story short, he gave another girl "yellow" roses around christmas time because her grandmother died. It was obvious she had an "attraction" to him. My first reation is always to blow up ... (255 words)

I am a 27 year old virgin, when I date men and they find out, they back off, thinking something is wrong, what do I do to combat this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I don't know how to write what I want to without sounding like a complete loser. lol. Well, the thing is that till date, I have had only short-term relationships, the longest of which was perhaps 4 months. And because I did not want to have sex till th... (191 words)

I really like this guy, but I refused a date with him in the past, now I don't know how to get to ask me out again, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17 years old and have known this lad for 6 years - since i first started high school. After three years of talking to each other, we started getting really close. We had this 'plan' that when it was my 17th birthday, he was going to ask me out. I was really excited about it ... (229 words)

Would my boyfiend be considered impotent, if he is unable to have an orgasm, he wants to marry me, but I have a problem with this, should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have a big problem I am not familiar on this Im only 29 and this is my first time to encounter of this kind of problem.My boyfriend has a problem he doesnt able to come out but he gets hard on.He never ever come out weve been for half a year.I just want... (126 words)

Torn between two boys, one is more like me and we agree on a lot of things, the other is not so much like me, and not sure of his feelings for me, who is the better choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Im in year 9 and i'v had a boyfriend for about 2 months now. When he asked me out i wasnt really attracted to him it was just we are so much like eachother and we never argue because we agree with eachother for practically everything. Now there is this other boy wh... (286 words)

We divorced without any communiction, and now that we have talked , we realize it could have been a mistake, how do we repair this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age - I have an unusual problem which I can relate to the misunderstanding which ended the lives of Romeo and Juliet. I was married to my wife several years; we split up for a while and were out of touch much of the time. Her family had contributed to my not being able to co... (638 words)

Help me!! I'm in a panic about our wedding reception finances!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - oh sombody please help! were in a bit of a panik regarding our wedding reception. Ok My fiance and I have worked so hard since february to be able to afford our reception,we have saved with the credit union every week without fail so we would be entitled to a loan to pay fo... (163 words)

I'm a late starter, but now I'm going to start! So my question is what's the etiquette for just AFTER sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have quite an embarrassing question! I'm a bit of a late-starter, no particular reason, just never really met the right person at the right time. Anyway, I'm now seeing this great girl and I think we will soon start having sex. I just have one question from a ... (113 words)

I am having serious problems pleasing my girlfriend, when we have sex, I don't like it anymore, and I am getting depressed over it, please help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright Im a 19 year old guy that used to be in this huge relationship with my ex. Her and I used to have sex ALL the time and she used to love it. It was so much love and then we broke up, i never thought i could be with someone else till another girl that really helped me ... (522 words)

My girlfriend is insatiable!! How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - how many times realisticly can i have sex in one night.my girlfriends need for penatrive sex is insatiable.is 3 times nearly everynight sufficient?please let me know honestly.... (27 words)

I think I'm in love with someone older than me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Katie and well I like this guy who is 5 years older than I am. I think that he likes me too but he seems to act differently when he is around his family than when he is alone. See, I think that the reason I am even attracted to him (besides the fact that he has a ... (173 words)

He seems committed but won't give me any assurances....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hoping for some good advice here. I have been with my boyfriend a year now , and still no words of love have come from him. He’s very loving and affectionate but I don’t think he’s in love with me. He tells me Im beautiful and sexy etc and also that I mean a great deal to hi... (421 words)

My boyfriend is the only thing in my life - how do I cope when he goes to college

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend found out today that he has been accepted into college to do a chef's course which I should be really proud of but I'm not.. I feel like when he goes to do this I will never see him and he might find someone else in his class or at college that he likes better ... (272 words)

I'm confused and is she? What to do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Back in Feb. I met a wonderful woman and we started on the journey of a long distance relationship. It worked for a while and then she couldn't deal with the distance. We decided to just be friends. The unfortunate thing, I fell in love with her. We still talk two and three ... (499 words)

Torn between my boyfriend and the father of my child.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - 5 May 2008 My little boy is 5 years old, his father and I got divorced when he was 1.5. I always wanted the best for my child, and at the time of the divorce I was not thinking clearly because I was in love with another man. I thought I was doing the best for the both of ... (746 words)

I'm healthy, but I still get horrible spots!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im very healthy. im super fit. i eat well and look after my body yet i still suffer from spots and now i have had two boils on my back. why is this ? i dont understand thanks chris... (41 words)

She sent her new "gay" friend photos and a message. How should I respond?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

16 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been very suspicious of my girlfriends new "gay" friend recently and did something I know I shouldnt do: I accessed her email and found that she had sent a bunch of photos with the message "Hello, as promised the photos. Big kisses, I love you". I am trembling with a... (66 words)

My boyfriend admires his friend's girlfriend and I need him to stop telling me about women he admires because I can't help getting jealous

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please advice me. I have been with my boyfriend for the last 1 1/2years. My problem is he admires his friend's girlfriend and he told me that once he likes her guts.she cnt tell someone point blank incase guys try to approach her. While me personally am soft and unlike her but ... (132 words)

I've been with an amazing boy for 8 months. We haven't had sex, but we're going to. It's a long time since I had sex, and I need some advice.

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16 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey, i know this might sound daft but i am curious, im now 17 and when i was 14 i met my first love, it was like one of those romantic films and we just got on straight away, when we had been together for 6 months, i had just turned 15 and thought i was ready, he was 17 and we ... (490 words)

My mum and dad have been arguing, and my mum said she hates me. I don't know what to do and I need advice.

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I am an 8 year old boy from Cupar in Fife in Scotland. My mum and dad have been not really been getting on well and they have had some bad arguments. One day my mum got very annoyed with my big brother for putting a towel in with the dirty clothes. Then she grabbed my sister ... (198 words)

Leading up to sex for the first time - I would like some ideas on how to make it special

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been dating for 10months we've been doing some stuff and now its leading to sex were both virgins and went our first time to be really really special any ideas on how to make it really romantic and special? and less painful for me cause i know its meant to ... (58 words)

I get jealous and worried - I need to become a better girlfriend. Please help.

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never seeked help over the internet for relationship issues, so as you can imagine typing this is extremely hard - mostly so, because I feel as though no matter what I say, people are going to interpret things different to how I feel, but I just need some sort of advice, ... (1517 words)

I want my boyfriend to make the first moves

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now, we are in love and i have moved in already and we have recently just had a nice holiday. We have a good healthy regular sex life, but its always me that starts it when we have sex, im always the one making th... (130 words)

It's just me, bulimia and weed. How do I get it back to just being me and my husband?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like im going crazy. I dunno whats wrong with me. all i do is go to work, come home and smoke weed with my husband. we rarely have sex and im starting to get bored of the conversation,all we talk about is work or music. i am desperate for this to work. i do not want my ... (216 words)

Internet Dating - what sort of expectations should I have?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I posted on here before about a couple of things and got some helpful answers so I'm back again hoping for some insight. I'm on an internet dating and friendship site and not quite sure how to approach it all as I've never done it before. I met various people, includin... (481 words)

I don't want to break up with my long-distance boyfriend. Please help me.

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my bf sooo much,n he said he also love me..but we live 2 other country.he is from uk n me from usa...we r in love from 4months.we met on net.we never meet personaly.i want to meet with him but he dont want to.n now a days he is going far away from me.he trying to make ... (90 words)

I want my turkish boyfriend here in the UK. How do we go about it?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age - i have a turkish boyfriend and we both want to be together here in the uk.How do we go about getting him here.The only problem is i`m still married is there any way he can come here untill i get my divorce.We have tried looking at options but i`m so confused by every ... (57 words)

Why does my boyfriend stay with me after everything I've put him through? And how can I tell him how much I love him?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my names rachel. 2 years ago i was diagnosed with on set psycosis this means i have voices in my head that tell me all different things,this year i stabbed myself and iv also hurt my boyfriend...i just want some to tell me why he stays with me after every thing iv put him... (101 words)

He wants things his way, and becomes aggressive. Space is all we need?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with this man for four years and we have a baby,but jst then i realized that since we moved in together he wants things his way,i become so agressive n close all doors of change in my life,as a child i was sexually molested,and to date i am nt sure if that is why i ... (102 words)

How can I get him down the aisle?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance and I have been together going on five years. We both have had nasty relationships in the past. We have been engaged now three years. Now that our lives are going into the right direction, how can I get him to the alter? He loves me with every inch of his soul, ... (69 words)

I don't understand my husband's uncaring attitude.

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is not understanding and have no patience for our kids. I have told him many times that I feel very lonely. He always thinks about himself first and waits for me to fix and correct everything. i very tried of taking care of him and he has never taken care of us. ... (60 words)

How can I teach him not to be such a sloppy kisser?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heh so like a few days ago I saw hellboy 2 with a guy I'm starting to talk to. he's sooo nice and incredibly cute! the problem is when we made out lol. I've been told that I'm a swell kisser but he was pretty sloppy and wet with it... another thing is I'm sooo more about tounge ... (167 words)

Could my ex be over me in 3 to 4 days?

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16 July 2008 (M) - Ok I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years 7 weeks ago. She was a bit younger than me and wanted to explore life. Last week she wrote me two emails asking for me back how all she thinks of is me, all she wants is me and how much she deeply loves me. I didnt welcome her ... (337 words)

Help. I've shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend.

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - help. ive shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend. we are no longer going out. but i feel really devestated showing nude pics of my girl friend to a friend. i feel as if i gave up my love away to someone else. help.... (59 words)

Really like a guy and did oral - can we make it into a relationship?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen and I'm experienced with oral sex and what not. Its usually been with someone I've been in a relationship with - two different people. In 7th grade dated I someone for 6 mos. 8th grade I dated someone for 10 mos. last year, 9th grade I didn't want a bf because ... (426 words)

My husband doesn't want sex, but does watch porn!

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well me and my husband have almost been married a year and I'm having problems with our sex life... There was a problem with porn before we got married and I made him promise that he wouldn't watch it after we got married, and of course he promised. My biggest reason is I lov... (165 words)

Is my boyfriend gay?? help.!

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, we have just been together for a few months and he is the greatest guy I have ever met. He is sweet, lovely, takes care of himself, no smoking, appreciates what I do to him, but I've always felt something's not right. 1. i met him when I was coming out my miserable und... (441 words)

My boyfriend always stays mad at me!

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My b/f like says he is in love with me but he stays mad at me even over litle stuff... Is it something I'm doing??? Or am I a bad girlfriend?... (33 words)

I feel betrayed by my girlfriend!. What should I do?

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my first girlfriend last year. We started dating a few days after we met, which was at a "Relay for Life" event. We dated for around 9 months, with some breakups and other rough spots in between. 2 months later after the breakup I find out she's moving to Texas, and she ... (233 words)

I'm uncomfortable and shy dancing at clubs!

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16 July 2008 (F)

- My bf keeps trying to get me to dance at clubs but I am sooo shy and scared of doing it. I don't really know how to dance at clubs either. I've tried watching other people and copying there moves but most people seem to dance 'dirty' and I don't want to dance like that. Any ... (60 words)

Is it stupid to be this emotionally involved at our age? Can it work?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I need some advice. I am fifteen and my boyfriend is fourteen, and yes, I realize we are way too young to be in a relationship. However, we're not having sex, doing drugs, partying, etc. etc. He's a pretty decent guy, I've known him for a while and I trust him. He c... (273 words)

I don't like being around my stepchildren or their half-siblings. My wife and I fight about them a lot. What do I do?

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - been married over 4 yrs been with my wife over 5 yrs we have a 3yr old daughter but she has 3 teenage sons who got on with me fine till they reach certain age then thy have no respect for me or their mum as she has always let them see their dad who left them for another woman ... (111 words)

How do I tell him I have an STD and that he may have it as well?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have a serious issue. I just found out that I have HPV which is human papaloma virus in laymens terms. I have genital warts. I don't know from whom or even when I got them since It can take up to 5 to 10 years for the warts to show up. Well. I have been dating... (255 words)

I love my husband, but I still have feelings for a highschool sweetheart. I feel terrible.

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old. I have been married for two years, and I have a 1yr old son. Im currently pregnant with me second child. I love my husband, and he's a good man. He works hard, never raises his voice to me, nothing to complain about, and yet I have feelings for someone ... (113 words)

I lashed out at my son...how can I apologize?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really upset and don't know what to do, i just came home from work to find that my seven year old son had left his bikes outside after repeadedly telling him to bring them in when he is finished riding, and one of them ( mongoose) was stolen from our back yard. He was being ... (129 words)

Is my online guy being discourteous?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I wonder if you can advise me. I posted on here before and got some good balanced sensible advice which really helped so I'm back for more! I met a guy in February on an internet dating site. We are going to meet in two weeks time. We got on well and had a lot of con... (422 words)

Is no strings attached sex with an ex a good or bad idea?

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - For once, a quick one by me. Is no strings attached sex, with an ex girlfriend (from long long ago) a good or a bad idea? I mean, there is a history that is all behind us now, and she is my ex for a reason, but it's 5 years on, and we're different people. How harmful... (75 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I still have feelings for an old flame. Does this count as cheating?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im with my boyfreind for nearly 8 months and im happy. i have this guy who i had a thing with before i met my current boyfreind, the problem is i think i still have feelings for him. We arnt close anymore and i feel guilty for even feeling this way as i love my boyfreind very ... (70 words)

Should I really fight this hard for him?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically last year I went on holiday with a group of friends and relatives there were a couple of guys I didn't know that also came who were friends of my friends. Anyway I really got on well with one of these guys and we slept together a few times and really liked each other. ... (442 words)

My fiancee had sex with another woman, I'm having a hard time dealing with this.

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - This is crazy! My fiance' and I have been together for a number of years. We have kids together and life is just what it is, life. We have great sex and have had a threesome in the past and the topic has come up to have another and possibly foursomes. Well, the other day ... (150 words)

I'm bi and have a boyfriend - if I do stuff with my best friend, does it count as cheating?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i need some help again! I'm pretty sure i'm Bi, but i have a boy friend who i've been with for a year and 6 months. I have two questions. 1 is how do i go about messing around in bed with one of my best friends? 2 is If i do stuff with my best friend is that chesting on my ... (64 words)

What does 'falsetto' mean?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey!!! i got a question! what does a falsetto mean![lol] im listening to one of my favorite songs by the dream and all he mensions is how his gurl talkin in a falsetto!?!? can any one tell me plezzzzzzz!!! ... (39 words)

I'm trying to better myself for him, do you think he will come back to me?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Im in need of some advice... My boyfriend of about 6 months recently broke up with me... I think. We had been fighting, mostly on my behalf, and when we broke up he told me that he "didnt know" that he "just thought this wasnt working for us right now". I re... (218 words)

Could he have lied to me about being a virgin?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, well my boyfriend and i already lost our virginity to eachother, i have heard from friends that girls arent the only ones who go thru the pain at that process... my boyfriend didnt go thru any pain but i did ALOT!!! i think the only pain he was going thru was the ... (103 words)

Was it wrong for him to do this?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi every body im 13 years old ... is this wrong? a boy held me down and kissed me asked for sex asked for pictures and then when my friend calls him he says he doesnt know me so i talked to him and hes like o i remember you and i was like duh and hes like i just said that cause ... (100 words)

I am in a relationship where I feel, I am being completely ignored and taken for granted in some ways, what is the problem here?

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend never tells me when she goes out with some friends. for her birthday she went out and no one knew where she was and i was calling her like crazy. the other night she went to a football game and i had asked her if she had any plan and although she knew about the ... (118 words)

I like this girl, we went out and the conversation, turned to a subject about other guys, and she hit my jealousy button, how do I keep my emotions under control?

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there's this girl I just asked out and I like her so much. Anway about 2 hours of being in a relationship with her and she's made me jealous already! I know! Here's how it went. I told her about how much I had a crush on her and asked her did she feel the same an... (170 words)

Six months dating her, do things that she likes, she does not want to have sex, as much as I do, I am feeling neglected, how do I let her know, I may go elsewhere?

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16 July 2008 (M) - Been with this girl for 6 months now and sex between us has slowed down to the point that it is unhealthy. In the last month and 1/2 we had sex like 3 times. When ever I start to make an advance on her she tells me that she doesn't want to get started but I do the little ... (151 words)

Wanted to share this joke with everyone, does anyone find it as funny as I do?

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16 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - A duck walks into a bar and says to the barman, "Got any bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No, we have no bread." Duck says: "Got any bread" Barman says: "No, we haven't got any fucking brea... (136 words)

My sister recently died from cancer, and now I have become very popular, and a guy wants to date me, what is going on?

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16 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister just died from cancer a week ago. Now I'm like Ms. Popularity. All the popular girls want me to be there friend and even one of the (cute) jocks ask me out (I say yes). Before my sis died I isn't very popular. Whats up with everyone? ... (49 words)

Divorced over my affair with a woman, decided to leave her, my ex-husband wants to remarry me, but he keeps throwing my past affair in my face, will a remarriage work, he works four weeks away and two weeks at home?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - should i remarry my exhusban? Divorced a year because of an affair i had with a female when we were married. Was with her for a year, she loves me, she bought a house for us, paid for all bills ect. i had a lot of family stop talking to me becuase of it. so i left her to move ... (130 words)

In a relationship for three years, broke up a month and a half ago, my ex has a new girlfriend, I wrongly thought that he would still love me, even after the breakup, I am sad, but I want to move on, need suggestions?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So i found out last night that, my ex bf who i've dated for 3 years, has a new girlfriend now. We broke up around a month and half ago, and I am speechless. I am in a state of shock. I feel like, I'm not extremely sad, I am a little sad, i am hurt that he found someone else so ... (156 words)

What are the principle characteristics, that women like in their choice of a dating partner, please be as honest as possible?

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16 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I´m 23 years old. I`ve had my share of bad luck in love. I´m afraid I´ve been labled a boring 2nd choice when it comes to dating. I want the female readers to be very honest when they answer. What are the principal characteristics that would make a man to die for. I would ... (81 words)

He is a liar and I cannot stand it, even though I love him, I am hurt and resentful, am I being unreasonable?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I've met a wonderfl man. The only thing is, I think he sffers from low self esteem that or he's an inveterate liar! When first met (at his house) he texted me to say that he had never invited anybody over. I later found this to be untrue as he had a long term relationshi... (227 words)

We didn't use protection, but he pulled out. Could I be pregnant?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - umm, i had sex without protection and he pulled out of my vagina. after he pulled out i seen pre cum and real cum came out at the same time. but it didn't get inside of me. could i be pregnant if that happened ?... (48 words)

In a long distance relationship, I loved him, he cheated on me, and verbally abused me, I fell out of love, he moved close to me, I want to break up completely, he has no one here but me, should I break up and when ?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship. I live in Wales while my boyfriend lives in London (he is at university). I don't think our relationship has a future. We are on a break because he cheated on me and lied to me and abused me verbally, and on top of this he smothers me. ... (196 words)

I am going on a holiday in a day, and my period is due during that time, is it safe to take my next batch of birth control pills, even though I did not have a period last month?

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16 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am going on holiday in a day but I am due on my period around the same time. As I would prefer not to have my period then, is it safe to continue taking my next pack of pills (so not to have the seven day break i.e period) ...even though I continued taking my curren... (93 words)