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writes:Hi, So I am seeing this guy I'll call him C, I really like him a lot, and its mutual. We don't want a relationship, for me its because I am scared of commitment and I'm just not ready. For him I think he is just trying to sort out what he wants to do with his life before he settles down, but none the less he says he only wants me. I'm fine with this it just gets a little confusing because we act as a couple when we go out and we both aren't seeing anyone else. Anyways enough with the background information, I accidently sent a text to an old fling I'll call him K the other day and it ended up being nice talking to him, I went over to his house that night. We ended up making out and cuddling in his bed, but I feel horrible because I finally realized I don't have any feelings for K because I really like C. I don't know if I should tell C what I did with K, because C has gotten jealous before about giving my number out to some guy at a restaurant and a couple other times.It wasn't a bad jealous but I just don't want to hurt him or ruin anything, and it's not cheating if were not in a realtionship right? Also C and I agreed that we could see other people but both said we wouldn't want to, it's just open in case we do. I know this is kinda long I just want to get the whole story out sorry for the length. Any advice would be nice :)
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 You're not officailly dating so you have done nothing wrong and there is no need to tell him as it may ruin what you have. X
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