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writes:Hi, So I am seeing this guy I'll call him C, I really like him a lot, and its mutual. We don't want a relationship, for me its because I am scared of commitment and I'm just not ready. For him I think he is just trying to sort out what he wants to do with his life before he settles down, but none the less he says he only wants me. I'm fine with this it just gets a little confusing because we act as a couple when we go out and we both aren't seeing anyone else. Anyways enough with the background information, I accidently sent a text to an old fling I'll call him K the other day and it ended up being nice talking to him, I went over to his house that night. We ended up making out and cuddling in his bed, but I feel horrible because I finally realized I don't have any feelings for K because I really like C. I don't know if I should tell C what I did with K, because C has gotten jealous before about giving my number out to some guy at a restaurant and a couple other times.It wasn't a bad jealous but I just don't want to hurt him or ruin anything, and it's not cheating if were not in a realtionship right? Also C and I agreed that we could see other people but both said we wouldn't want to, it's just open in case we do. I know this is kinda long I just want to get the whole story out sorry for the length. Any advice would be nice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): honey, i don't believe for one second you are scared of commitment and don't want a relationship. I think this is how C views the situation and not you. C doesn't really care if you are with other guys or he'd want you all to himself and he doesn't so you have no reason to tell him. You are living in a fairytale if you don't think C wants anything to do with other girls and he probably already is. you won't hurt C at all and it's really you that is hurt and will continue to be hurt letting a boy use you for sex that doesn't love you.
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