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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will I be doing the right thing by going all the way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - O.k I've been seeing this guy for about 2/3 weeks now but we're not officially an item but I'm sure he's going to ask me once school is over. We've kissed and stuff but is it wrong I want to have sex so soon? We were really good friends before all this so I trust him. I'm also ... (80 words)

I would like some rational opinions on our 16yr age gap?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 27 year-old female. I just started dating a man who is 43. A little more background about the relationship: He has never been married, and has no children. He has a master's degree, good income, and people always think he is in his early 30s when they meet him (inc... (172 words)

My siblings kidnapped my mother from her house...she has serious Alzheimer's. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age - I am at my wit's end and crying in despair. My siblings (except perhaps one) have decided that my mother has serious dementia/Alzheimer's and they are practically causing her serious confusion by kidnapping her from her house without her permisson (and from her husband who has ... (256 words)

Is the third time a charm or should I just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with this woman for approximately sixteen months and have, despite the bumps in the road,asked for her hand twice..The last being just this past holiday. We have lived together for all most ten of those months. I know that there is two sides to every coin and all I am ... (72 words)

Why is he picking fights and not spending time with me?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months now...at about 6 months into our relationship he told me that he wanted to get married anf spend the rest of his life with me...he had never had a serious relationship before this so i was sceptical... but he swore he ment... (118 words)

She gets text messages from an ex. I'm not comfortable wiht it. Should I feel this way?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. The whole time, she would get these random text messages from an unsaved phone number. It turns out it is a person (an X for lack of a better term) she had a fling with (before me), and found out he was married - ad called ... (211 words)

I have a boyfriend but I'm falling for another guy. What should I d?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, and i love him, but ive known this other guy for 5 years, and im falling for him. i broke up with my boyfriend once because of it, but i guess i was scared of being alone so i asked him back out, now i think the other gu... (133 words)

My fiance was telling his ex how much he missed her just 2/3 weeks before we met. I can't shake the feeling he would go back to her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going through my fiance's profile on another site, and saw that about 2 or 3 weeks before my fiance and i met, he was telling his ex how much he loved and missed her. And days before we started dating (after we had already told eachother that we had strong feelings for ... (189 words)

I am in love, but he says he would never date me. How can I stop caring so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best guy friend and I have been friends for a very long time.we hang out every day and love each other very much.Deep down I am IN love with him. I've never told him though,he even asked me if i like him and said no.He told me he would never date me because i deserve so much ... (188 words)

Open marriage plus money worries plus kids... What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I’ve been married 14 years and have a 10 year old son. We have been poly for about 9 years of that time and this has been with various people for both of us. There is one person I have been involved with for almost 7 years of that time. About two months ago her husband passed ... (422 words)

How can I convince her that we both need councelling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Without going into the whole story, I'll be brief. My wife and I have been going through a lot of problems over the past few years because of some involvement I had with an ex of mine. I was completely in the wrong and I know what it did to my wife. Sinse then I have ... (203 words)

Is everyone late on their period after the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so.. The first time i had sex, my period was late about a week and a half. Of course i worried about being pregnant but then i got my period. But my friend just had sex for the first time, and her period was late for about two weeks. Is it normal for this to happen? ... (69 words)

Boyfriend is with ex and kids - I'm feeling fed up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, we live together and he splits custody of his kids(13 and 14) with his ex-wife. History: she left him for another(the gardner) and he wouldn't take her back when she realized her mistake. I've gone along to the kids events ... (390 words)

Juat found out my new boyfriend is an escort... how do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i have falling 4 my best friend i have known him 6years and we have been though so much and was the only 1 that understoad when my dad died. and now we r getting together. well we were he has told me that he sometimes takes women out and gets paid 4 it.im kinda ok with it as ... (69 words)

What's making his penis go red?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, The love of my life and i have alot of sex. For about three weeks now, we have had sex about twice or three times a day, everyday. Now im guessing thats not very healthy, because now when we do have sex, his penis starts to hurt. And we looked at it the other da... (104 words)

In love with someone that possibly depises me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - (Semi Long.. but I would really appreciate advice on this) Confused? ..How does he feel?.. I've known this guy since I was a little girl.. we were friends, would talk sometimes.. I remember he always stood out, he was special to me even when I was too little to know anything ... (474 words)

Please help a girl who's out of practice at dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've basically been in and out of relationships for the past year or more. I've completely forgotten what its like to be single and start to date someone. At the same time, my old boyfriend was very hands on.. meaning that he would call me/text me/email me like 50 times a day. ... (162 words)

I'm so confused about this boy I like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll make this quick, basically i've been in love with this guy for over 3 years now and we're good mates. But he doesnt see me in that way, at least i dont think he does, any way the other weekend i was 'in town' with a bunch of mates and we were in our local 'park' and ... (264 words)

What can I do about my husband's porn habit? It's getting excessive..

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time I come into the office, my husband is frantically closing windows on the computer. I was wondering about this because he accidentally left a bunch of porn site passwords on the screen one day. I asked him about it and he got somewhat irritated. Then I checked the ... (125 words)

Friends or more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story cut short. I've known this guy for about five months now, we've talked really really often for the last three months {it's really rare we don't talk with each other at least once a day, and we usually call/IM each other about three or four times a day}; we're bo... (313 words)

I'm disillusioned and heartbroken, why can't I stop thinking about my troubled Ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - It's been 7 days since I sent my ex girlfriend a letter saying we need to stop talking because her stories about how high and drunk she was or who she had sex with were upsetting me when we talked on the phone everyday. Since I couldn't help her I decided out of sight out of ... (339 words)

My wife is threatening divorce over a picture on my phone!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i broke my phone a couple of months ago and bought a used one from a friend who always has a surplus. my wife searched my phone yesterday to see if i was doing anything wrong - which i wasnt - but she found a picture of a naked girl on the phone. we are constantly arguing about ... (354 words)

I want to be a bridesmaid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When I got married my sister was my bridesmaid, now she is getting married and she has asked all her friends and half sister in law, but not me. She says because I have children I cannot be her bridesmaid because I'll be looking after them at the reception. I don't know if I ... (95 words)

She lost her sex drive completely and doesn't know why...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My sweetheart and I are very much in love. In our eyes we are like no other couple, we have something very special that no one else has, not even in the movies. We've known each other for years, and our chemistry is absolutely perfect. Yesterday was our first anniversary, ... (483 words)

My wife had an abortion before we met, now I don't want her.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How to address this situation. I have been married for 23 years and very happily. We have 2 boys and they are now adults. I received an email from a site that revealed someone looking of my wife of 23 years. It turns out that the person is an ex lover who my wife had both a ... (302 words)

My male friend started play-fighting with me. I think he likes me, but should I tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently one of my male friends has started flirting with me alot including play fighting, tickling and even cheekily slapping me on my bum! I also like him too but have not told him yet. Should I keep quiet or tell him I like him as I dont want to loose this valuable ... (54 words)

The problem is, I'm jealous of everyone who is successful...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, but i feel that i've wasted my entirely life doing nothing. I'm often compared with my sister, who is 15 and already has a boyfriend, knows to play the piano, goes to hawaiian dance lessons, is going to enter the school she wants and is a really nice ... (310 words)

I tend to get attached very easily - should I hold back or throw myself in there??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, 11 years ago when i was 16-17 i had a relationship with a bloke of 18-19. We were good friends before (i classed him as a best mate) but we had AMAZING and very adventurouse sex. i was going to uni so was unable to continue to see him. So he found someone else (he... (150 words)

Given my sentence, can I expect my girlfriend to wait for me (she is pregnant)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for just over a year now - I'm 20 and she's 19. We have been good together over the past year and I want things to continue. I am going to court and am due to be sentenced for assault. I have a record so have been told I'll definitely be go... (160 words)

I was scared of commitment, now I want him but I'm scared he is playing with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy im into. Lets call him x. we started hooking up last year, but ended things because i was scared of commitment. then x started hooking up with lots of girls and being a huge player. recently i told him that i still have feelings for him, and he told me that he ... (146 words)

My BF has the chance to see many girls at his summer place of work... and I'm super jealous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i think im just about the most jealous person my bf just got a new job workin at a canoe launch loadin and unloadin the canoes into the water and i went up thr yesterday 2 pick him up from work and the girls there are dropd dead sexy perfect body hour glass figure with big ... (233 words)

Could I get pregnant by having sex during my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know, if i have my period and i have sex with it, could i get pregnant?... (19 words)

She wanted to know from me if I wanted her to go away, or stay with me and wait for me. I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am totally confused and I am afraid I am going to make mistakes and we all know you get older not younger. At the end of the year, I had my heart torn out by a girl I was completely in love with and ready to marry. I was really hurt and wasn't myself for several months. Fina... (429 words)

He never admits when he is wrong and I think he's just wanting to have a reason to break up, should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, we talked about this, this morning.. well more like argued about it this morning, and i told him i don't want to be pulled along in a relationship when I'm the only one wanting it to work, and not thinking about all the negative outcomes... when we first meet he always told ... (212 words)

My Wife is Hurt Since I Saw My Ex Girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 13 years and the past two years have really been bad. Long story short, I became involved with my ex girlfriend who came back into the picture for about 6 months. There was never anything physical other than the occational kiss but it was ... (188 words)

He was Flirting With ME, But My Best Friend Thought It Was With HER

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - MY best mate and i are closer than close, but today after school we were walking along talking and i playfully pushed her into this guy, who just happened to be a guy that supposedly likes me and i like him to, he just looked at my friend like she was crazy ut then turned to me ... (165 words)

My Ex is Ruining Things Between Us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, my story starts in 2002 i met what i thought would be my future wife, within six months we had moved in together and was happy when we planned a pregnancy and she gave birth to my little boy!! i was so happy but soon after she got depressed and told me ... (392 words)

Has Awkwardness in the Hallway Hurt Our Relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy i really really really lik, and lately things have been really great then the other day when we were walking down the corridor our hans brushed and he went to hold my hand, then in only the way that i could i tripped so it looked like i was trying to get away, ... (97 words)

My Girl Wants Oral Sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im dating this new girl.. she asked me if i liked going down on girls.. and that she likes it when guys go down on her.. im not really expierenced with eating a girl out.. she also says she doesnt really like fingering, and if you do that you mine as well eat it too... the past ... (82 words)

How Do I React To Flowers From My Ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M) - Has anybody ever received flowers from an exboyfriend after you had broken up with them? Specifically, if you had only been seeing eachother for a couple of months... Did they send them to your work? What was your reaction? Just trying to sort out any bad ideas ... Than... (56 words)

What Do I Do About A Drinking and Sex Aprty with My Bro?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It was the 4th of July and I am not always in town so I decided to hang with my bro(not dna related) and sis(half sis). I felt safe with them especially since they didn't bring any guys. I was drunk after 3 shots bec I havn't drank a lot but they wanted to really introduce me ... (206 words)

How can I advise him what to do when it comes to his relationship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well here is one for you. i am in my fourties and for best part of my life i have been in bossy abusive marriages been married twice first was very violent and the second well he was a control freak and he only hit me a few times and one head butt all one to much but i stayed ... (464 words)

How can I discard the lingering feelings I have for her so I can be her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had feelings for my best friend for quite sometime now..I know it won't work between us yet I can't get rid of these feelings I have for her...it makes it a little awkward for me when I am hanging out with her, I want to be able to discard my lingering feelings I have ... (62 words)

I'm engaged but I still crave the attention of men, is something wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I crave attention from men. Im engaged to an amazing guy, we've been dating for 3 years, and I love him. I don't have low self-esteem, trust me it's not that, I just love for guys to flirt with me. Is something wrong with me? I've never cheated on a bf but Im starting to think ... (61 words)

When I tell my husband I don't want to come 2nd in his life he tells me to "do what I want"! Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I married a man 1 month ago. Dated him for 2 years. He was separated from ex 5 years ago. They were married 22 years. He and ex won't talk unless it is a text or through their children. My question: Last week we went to Sam's Club. He offered to add me to his account. ... (246 words)

How do I talk to him during sex to make things more intense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid i am half spanish and white and my man is spanish but speaks grate english but when are making love i mainley speek spanish.my man has asked to say nasty thing to hin in english that turn him on but i cant really think of that many i want to turn him on and i dont ... (107 words)

He's a nice guy but he talks too much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy a few months ago,he looked really attractive fortunately he seemed to have a crush on me. we got to flirt about, exchanged numbers and we r in touch. i thought i would fall out with him if he ever asked me out which he did but the problem is that he talks too ... (106 words)

What can I do to keep everyone happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I split from my ex partner 7 years ago after she had an affair.We have three children 12,11 and 9.i have now been married to a wonderful caring woman for the last 2 years(5years in total) she has an 11 year old daughter with no contact with her father and we have a 2 year old ... (306 words)

She doesn't seem to be able to have an orgasm since she went through the menopause. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age - I am 49 and my new girlfriend is 49. We are both very athletic. She has gone through menopause, and now cannot reach an orgasm. What can I do? I have tried everything that I know. she wants to make sure that I am satisfied, but I want to take care of her also. Help.... (56 words)

He keeps pushing me to have another threesome. Does he really love me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have had threesomes with my partner in the past but i have said that i dont want to do this any more but he keeps on asking me i am now confused as to wheter he loves me to keep pushing this subject.... (44 words)

I can't see how fingering could be pleasurable. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound weird to some, but for some reason i really can't see how fingering would be pleasurable. I've tried myself a few times, and going too quickly or applying the slightest excession of strength hurts me. anyway I have a feeling my bf is gonna wanna do that ve... (154 words)

Am I alone in my fight against my husband's methane emission problem? Talk to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Totally weird question I know, but it drives me nuts... You know in that special way only a husband can do to his wife :-) (Just before I start: I love my husband and we dont have any major relationship problems, he is a sweetie most of the time) My hubby constantly irritat... (386 words)

He's my soulmate and I was his until I broke his heart with words I didn't mean. How do I put it right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and i of 5years broke up 1month ago after i said mean things to him, but i didnt mean them. I had depression but im on tablets now and am better. The question is im inlove with him-always have been but my partner said i hurt him so much with the things i said and ... (280 words)

I haven't had sex, as such, am I still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin, and my boyfriend was fingering me. it started to hurt eventually, but i ignored it. After we finished fooling around, i was bleeding. He pointed it out to me. Did he break my Hymen?? Or is it something else? If my Hymen is broken, even though i haven't had sex... (61 words)

How can I make the next two weeks go faster when the one I love is on holidays?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has gone on holiday for two weeks. this is the longest we have een without each other. how can i make the next two weeks go really fast without the one i love?... (35 words)

How can I still be his friend without hurting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, recently i was hanging out with this guy, we got pretty close and became alittle physical too. however when i said lets get together he didnt want to as he claimed his not ready for a relationship. i then was really confused to why not, he said he did care about m... (277 words)

If it is true that he never had sex before will it be painful for him and how should I treat him since I'm not a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am with my boyfriend for almost 2 months and we talked about having sex.when i asked him he told me he'd never before done it.i am so confused because he says he had a lot of girlfriends.how can it be possible that he never had sex before?if i ask him again won't he be angry ... (105 words)

How to discover if he really is homosexual before I become more emotionally attached to him and this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for a few months now. We were introduced through friends and hit it off right away - I'm absolutely crazy about him and he treats me like a princess. But when I introduced him to my family and some of my other close friends, everyone thought he was ... (227 words)

Do men expect you to sleep with them right away even if you don't fancy them??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age - Its a pity becasue although I am not spring chicxken I am told I am attractive and lots of married men seem to like me BUt why cannot I find someone who really likes me? I worked with some women once who said if you dont behave more in line of todays world no man will ask you ... (243 words)

He doesn't want me to give up on him yet, but also said if his ex wanted him back he would consider it. So should I wait??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for a few months now. Things seem to be pretty great between the two of us. We get a long and a have a lot of the same interest and goals. I enjoy being with him more than I have anyone else I have dated. But, for him it is bad timing since he came out ... (305 words)

Our LD relation was filled with pain, our last quarrel climaxed into a break up and she's now found somebody else, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I luv my girlfriend of 4 years evean though we've had problems all this time. it has been a long distance relationship for most of the time, mixed with problems of cheating, lieng, you name it we had. Because of all this the relationship was filled with much pain, but somehow ... (150 words)

I did not take him seriously at first, there were rumours that upset us and we've hurt each other's feelings, now I want him back... did I mention we're all young?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I meet this guy about 2 months ago, at first I didn't take him seriously because I've been hurt in the past but after he kept begging me to take in seriously i did! Everything was fine untill someone told him they saw me and another dude out eating lunch together (which ... (409 words)

WHY was he so keen to have sex on holiday if one week later he said he did not want a relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age - Just returned from holiday recently, had some fun nothing romantic although he wanted sex I held back. We met up after the holiday once which was jsut a week later and he told me he didnt want a relationship. WHY was he so keen to have sex on holiday and kept on about it then ... (116 words)

Confused about who my baby's father is...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my name is valsha and i am 18 weeks pregnant if i messed with my friend on feburary 24 is it possible that my baby is his.... (28 words)

My husband got another woman pregnant while in Iraq, how can I save our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im recently in the military and I have been with my husband for almost three years. We have one child (1 year 5 months) and I am currently pregnant. Me and my husband just recently got married in April when he came home for R and R. He is currently in Iraq. We have had prob... (1663 words)

He wants to be with me, but he's pretending to be another woman's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, i am having a really big problem at the moment. A couple of years ago i fell in love with this man, he's attractive, funny, and a perfect gentleman, but i just didnt realise i had fallen in love with him, until he returned home. (He went away to london while i live in ... (390 words)

I don't want to be like a wet fish sucking at him. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend giving me oral,im just not confident in giving it to him.I really want to give him a blow job but i dont want it to feel like a wet fish sucking at him.what tips do you have for a first time go? x... (47 words)

The man I love has just left his wife. Should I leave my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I am in love with has just told me he's left his wife. I am so confused and don't know what to do. We are both married and I have worked things through with my partner - I'm still completely miserable but I guess that's normal when you give up something you love. I'm ... (143 words)

I'm feeling insecure about my performance in bed with this new woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My situation is this. I am 30 and have been in a long distance (5000 miles) relationship with a woman about same age as myself for the last 6 months or so. We are very much in love and have been since the first date. Over the last couple of weeks I have been in a downward... (1124 words)

My husband cheated on me with a prostitute, how can I trust him again?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - how do i save my marriage after my husband of 10 yrs went away "golfing" wiv guys from work and slept wiv a prostitute.i knew by the way he was when he got back and when asked he admitted it.he was drunk(though no escuse) and i belive him that he`s sorry and can`t ... (92 words)

I don't know whether to move forward without her or to keep trying.

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7 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm in a a quandary with an ex girlfriend and would appreciate some thoughts on what to do We went out for 18 months and had a great first year together, whilst we lived apart by 200 miles that never made a difference as we spoke daily and met most weekends and sha... (430 words)

I slept with a guy from work who doesn't want a relationship, and I'm pregnant. Should I tell him?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help, i recently finished a long term relationship with the father of my 6 year old daughter and ended up sleeping with a guy who i know from work. He told me he doesnt want a relationship has he too has just finished a long term one. We have had sex a few times and i ... (104 words)

My love is 30 year older than me. How do I stop making an ass of myself like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am in love with somebody 30 years my senior. I finished school last year and have been on a break so my friends are all away at uni. He was always friendly to me, and we would e-mail each other regularly. The content was always upbeat, friendly and sometimes quite ... (232 words)

I really like this guy but I'm only his number 2. How do I deal with this?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my crush likes my best friend and me , he has a top 2 and i am his 2nd choice and my best friend is his 1st. even though my best freind knows i like him, and for long now, she is not single but tells the guy that she also likes him. id dont know how to feel or what to do what... (118 words)

I want to get my nose pierced. Could anyone advise me where to go?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi eveyone ,i know this site is about relationships but i was wondering if i could ask a question about nose piercings.im 15 and i want to get my nose pierced,i live in thornton heath and i was wondering whether anyone knows a good nose piercing place where i can get it done ... (71 words)

I slept with a guy when we were drunk. How could I ever hide such a big secret from my boyfriend?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got this problem but I guess it will make more sense if I tell you about my relationship first. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months, we have known each other for a couple of years and when we first got together it was a bit confusing, i didn't really know ... (725 words)

I could be in love with someone else. Should I stay with my boyfriend?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years. I'm 17 now and he's 18.. So obviously we've been together most of our teen years. He's amazing, he truly is the kind of guy you only dream of finding, but don't really think they exist. He's very well mannered, even ... (805 words)

I am afraid he was just using me for sex, and he might have HIV

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy alot. There was rumours going around about him having HIV. The other night a bunch of us got real drunk. We were about to have sex, when I was like, "No, I need to talk to you about something first" So I straight up asked him if he had HIV. He got all mad ... (203 words)

He said he was in love with me now he says he's not. Is he just mucking me around?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i told my boyfriend of 2 years that im in love with him and he said he was too then yesterday he said hes not in love with with me he lied.is he mucking me around and does he mean it.his mum said she thinks hes lying because their close.what do i do?should i stop ringing ... (73 words)

What does my ex mean when he says to keep our relationship friendly?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What does my ex mean? I cut off all communication with my ex seven months ago by changing my phone number and telling me to never contact me again. He still emails me once in a while but I have never responded. I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive. I was ... (389 words)

Should I go back to school right away or take my time?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not about my relationship, so I don't know if you can help with this, but I am trying to figure out if I should go back to school now, or wait. I just moved to a new city almost a year ago, and I have found a stable job and living situation and have a good home life ... (161 words)

How can we have sex without his religion causing him to feel guilty?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. Afterward, he felt guilty, which I guess is normal since it was the first time for both of us. However, my boyfriend was raised in a very christian family and, though he still really wants to do it, he doesn't feel ... (187 words)

He broke up with me because he's afraid our relationship will lead to marriage! What do I do now?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. Although we tried to remain friends, it didn't quite work out because he's been pretty undecisive regarding whether or not he wanted to get back toghether. As a result, we've stopped talking to each other for the time... (269 words)

I'm lonely now that my friends are moving on with their lives.. Help!

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been feeling out of place lately. I am not a teenager anymore. I am not in that 21 phase anymore. I have a career and my own home but am not married. I haven't had a serious relationship in years. I've been feeling so lonely lately. My siblings and cousins are all ... (163 words)

After a nightmare I wet the bed with my boyfriend in it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, this is pretty embarassing. In bed with the boyfriend last night, fast asleep. I have a weird dream that involves me taking a pregnancy test. Next thing I know, I wake up, and it's all wet... Yeah, turned out that dream was a little more real than I'd thought. So a... (165 words)

Family fights all the time, I am miserable, I must leave, is there someplace to live for free temporarily?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im writing becasue I can't seem to find peace at home and I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for about 23 years, but my mom's had to deal with infidelities, indecision physical and physiological abuse (IN THE PAST). I have always been there to hear m... (389 words)

Attracted to three guys, really confused, want to pick one, will you help me?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm torn between three guys. I'm just curious who everyone would pursue. 1) N. One of my fellow band members. Two years younger than me. I've known him for two years but became attracted to him about a year ago. Every time I get up the confidence to ask him out or to a school d... (291 words)

Two, too many bad relationships, what goes, am I to blame?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This past year, I was in an abusive relationship you could say. I liked him for some reason, and so my friend set us up. Well, nobody at my school approved and I couldn't understand why. Until...well, apparently he'd had a reputation for sexually abusing girlfriends. And I was ... (406 words)

Big crush on her, but not sure how to proceed, please help me?

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7 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So, i was on a trip recently and saw this girl at a restaurant who looked like someone i knew but i couldn't figure out who. So, when i got back to my hotel i got on my myspace and looked through my friends list (for abut 30 minutes) and realized it was a girl who i knew fairly ... (248 words)

Can you get aids without having intercourse, should I be worried?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay my cousin made me rub his balls and he fingered me. Can i get aids because of that cause im getting rashes but i got it before everything happened. And my sis wants me to check in to the doctor with her since her heart has been hurting real bad literally. so can i have ... (60 words)

Torn between, my new boyfriend and my old one, totally confused, help?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So back in the day, i fell really hard for my friend zak and i like totally worshiped him for like six years then i finally decided that it was time to move on so i did. I got a boyfriend and we have been together for going on six months now. Well me and zak have remained good ... (137 words)

Why won't my boyfriend pay me any attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I’m dating my ex boyfriend again. He broke up with me last time cause apparently i was being to “bitchy”. Anyways he had dated for about 3-4 months and we broke up. Ever since the break up i couldn’t take my mind off him. We took a break for a couple months. So i dec... (345 words)

Confused, I have a girlfriend, but attracted to certain guys, am I gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

7 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Today I was at a friends house for his pool party, we were messing around and jumping in the pool and stuff and he dived, and his swim trunks came off. Then I jumped in after him(w/ goggles) and then everybody else. Nobody payed any attention to it at all, but, i looked under ... (205 words)

I'm a gentleman, but I can't seem to get a girlfriend, what am I doing wrong?

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7 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 and have never had a girlfriend or a date in my life and its always bugged me why i cant. im a nice guy, never get mad easily, respecting and id like to think gentlemanly i was raised oldschool you could say, hold door open etc. and i was always told that if im kind ... (110 words)

Still love my husband, family interfered, he allowed it, we separated, how can I get him back?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I dont know if my situation is so different or complex that it can not be helped but I am in need for the right advice and right direction that can help me and my ex to get back together. I am a 26 yr old woman and my husband is 29 ys old, neither do we have kids.... (1177 words)

Having sex, or being in a relationship, is there a difference?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what is the difference between having a relationship and just having sex... (12 words)

Lost my virginity very young, got drunk at a party, should I tell my mom about both, I feel bad not doing so, please advise?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity last year (early november 2007 when I was 13 1/2) to a guy who I had been hanging out with and was really close to for about 4 months. We never dated, just hung out a lot(he sort of led me on). My mom knew him and let him come over pretty much whenever. ... (250 words)

My boyfriend makes me nervous, but I want to show I love him, just don't know how, help me please?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so nervous around my boyfriend. He is so loving to me. Always makes me feel wanted, always compliments me.. But I don't know how to act around him. Do guys like being called gorgeous? I don't know how to treat a guy in a relationship. I'm not exactly a sappy person, beca... (99 words)

My ex got married, it isn't working out, I still care, what do I do now?

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7 July 2008 (M)

- Hi, I'm a male, 40, and was engaged to an amazing girl 5 years ago. I messed up, and she called the engagement off, and despite my efforts, wouldn't get back with me, and she has since met someone and gotten married. I know this question seems like, "ok, and what don't you g... (325 words)

Having sex with my husband, after having our baby is painful, why, is there anything I can do??

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - when i have sex with my husband it hurts when he puts it in it din't before i got pregnant once i had my baby and began having sex its hurts and its getting worst. why and what can i do... (41 words)

I'm Attractive, but Guys Don't Notice

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Please help me out with something. I don't know what it is, but guys just don't notice me. I'm told that I am attractive, I have been in pageants, was a NFL cheerleader and modeled. Not saying that to brag, but I want you to kinda get a picture of me. W... (134 words)

I care for her, but her past is disturbing, how many sexual partners is too many?

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7 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, this may seem like a strange question, but I really need to know the answer. I met this girl, I love her to death, but her sexual past kind of disturbs me. shes 19, started having sex at age 17, but, from age 17-18 she had 10 different sexual partners. However, she s... (156 words)

I don't know whether to dump him or keep him!

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend ,but he never answers my calls.I've called him for a few days to make plans and go out.It seemed like he was ignoring me.He called today and said he never recieved any calls.I was pissed because he has caller ID and everything. I love him but he likkes t... (143 words)

I'm not very fond of my aunt and I don't know if it's wrong to feel this way!

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7 July 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Have any of you ever felt like so far away from a family member,like emotionally? Well,a couple of days ago,my grandma told my mom that her aunt(my great aunt),had asked about her. My mom's not exactly fond of her. My mom told me in the car yesterday that her aunt was some... (282 words)

I feel like I can't get out of this abusive relationship! Help!

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a situation that I feel like I can not get out of. I'm living with my boyfriend of five years and we have two young babies together. I don't want to be with him anymore because he drinks, and when he drinks he becomes very voilent. He beat me several times in front of ... (148 words)

How do you spot a guy who is a 'player'?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help / advice / tips on how to spot a player or a guy who could be taking you for a ride or what I can do to evaluate. I have met a guy who is nice enough to me and says all the nice things and has said he likes me. To be honest I havent known him for that long and beca... (262 words)

I'm too shy to tell her I'm in love with her. Can you advise me please?

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7 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi am Josian.... and i want it to ask you a question about love. I have a crush on a neighbour, but i am to shy to tell her that i love her. Please - do you have some advice for me? Thank you. sincerely Josian.... (48 words)

We despise each other, yet I still love her. Confusing - I know, that's why I need help please.

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7 July 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Right here's the deal. My ex and i haven't been speaking in months, we've made up many times but we keep fighting, and now it's messed. I dont know what to do, we despise of eachother, but i still have love for her. It all sounds confusing but i need help. :(... (53 words)

What will people think if they find out we're having sex?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend wanna have sex, but we both are afraid of what people will think if they find out. Please, i need help.... (28 words)

I want my ex back, but she says I 'scare' her!

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7 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been a year and a half since i split up with my ex who im still in love with. I realised i couldnt be without her and tried to get her back but she was very confused and possibly shocked at my revelation. she text me the next morning to reveal that at this present moment s... (333 words)

I have equal feelings for the both of them at this point. Who should I be with?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Here is my story. I just recently broke up with my ex of 2 years. He mistreated me so I started to talk to this other guy at work. This other man just had a kid, maybe not even 2 months ago. When we first started talking he had told me that he was not with his... (436 words)

What is the best way for a single person to create a sex life?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The last time I had sex was while I was in a committed relationship. I have been single for some time and want to get in the sex scene again. What is the best way for a single person to create a sex life?... (47 words)

How can I prevent from getting a rash after shaving my bikini line?

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7 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question, when I shave my bikini line I always seem to get a rash which is not very attractive. What can I do to prevent this from happening? Is it even normal? Thanks :) x x x... (45 words)