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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Love bombed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 360 days ago

29 April 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts and uncles. I think I got lovebombed. I met a 57 yr old man and we started dating. I wasn’t too keen on anything serious bc I as just out of a messy breakup. The new bf wanted to go on this big excursion for his birthday. I wanted a distraction and agreed. This ... (480 words)

Cousin sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

27 April 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 36 year old female and my cousin is 38 male. I have wanted to fool around with him sexually since we were kids and it just never happened bc we didn’t spend enough time together. He’s staying at my house without his wife for a death in the family. I want to seduce him so ... (63 words)

Cousin sex repeat

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27 April 2023 (F)

See me less repeat

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27 April 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend I've been seeing for two years says he only wants to meet up every two weeks instead of every week and that doesn't work for me he also seems to want sex every time we meet up several times a night and day. He doesn't seem keen on getting a place together either. I... (129 words)

Why does he want to see me less?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

27 April 2023 (F)

Guilty family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

23 April 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Cupids, Need some advice about feeling guilty about family. I fulfilled my lifelong dream to move from a small UK town to London as there were very few jobs in my industry back home and didn’t pay well. When I was in my early and mid 20’s, I was so focused on gettin... (456 words)

Affair mess

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23 April 2023 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I’ve got myself in a big mess. I had an affair with a married man at work. It was very intense and we were really close. He said I was his other half and that he had never felt so in sync with anyone like he did with me. Unfortunately his wife found my photos on his ph... (387 words)

Partner cheated and I think he's back to cheating with the same girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

19 April 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Myself and my partner of 10 years decided last week that we would separate. He slept with a colleague in December 2022 and we tried to move past it, work on the relationship etc but after 4 months he said he couldn’t try any more than what he was when he’s getting nothing back. ... (554 words)

My past is back to haunt me. Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 371 days ago

17 April 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a big mess and not sure what to do. Around 15 years ago I had an affair with my boss who was much older than me. He was divorced and I was single so technically we weren’t doing anything wrong but we didn’t want our coworkers finding out. We were together less tha... (454 words)

Advice regarding my parents punishment for my behavior

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

15 April 2023 (F) age 13-15 - I would like some advice from parents please ? i must admit my behavour over the past 2 weeks has been very poor last weekend i was grounded for general bad behavour, i ignored my parents and sneaked out of the house to go to a party, my friends and i drunk alcohol ( iam ... (289 words)

I ignored my LDR boyfriend for 2 months. Now hes dating someone else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 372 days ago

15 April 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF and I have been in a LD committed relationship, with the usual ups and downs. Pandemic took a bit of a toll on us. He likes to be stupid and say things just to upset me.. so I got fed up with it and ignored him the entire January and February 2023, plus at that time I ... (691 words)

Fed up of how my aunt treats me- how can I avoid her without upsetting the rest of my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 374 days ago

14 April 2023 (F)

age 22-25 - ? ?My dads sister is 15 years older than me (there’s a huge age gap between them) and she’s always considered me being like a younger sister and treated me as so. I have no siblings so when I was younger, I like the thought of her being my “big sister” and not my aun... (790 words)

Should my partner not go to the wedding if I am not invited?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 363 days ago

13 April 2023 (F) age - I have been with my live in partner for over 20 yrs. His adult son (32 y/o) still won't accept me and refuses to see his dad if I'm around. The parents were divorces several years prior to our dating. The son has no relationship with his mother. He lived with her out of state... (290 words)

My ex calls me a man hater but he's the one who treated me badly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

12 April 2023 (F)

age 51-59 - My marriage ended 4 years ago after my ex husband said he wanted to move on with his life. He left me, 2 children and a dog. He called our marriage of 18 years “horrendous”, said he wished he’d never married me, etc and ripped me off in the settlement. I thought we had a ... (331 words)

Is he enough? Or should I be looking for more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

11 April 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Long term Dear Cupid girl here! Love this site so much, I’ve been given some of the most helpful advice ever without judgment. So here goes.. I’m not sure if I should stay with my partner. We have been together 4 and a half years now. I’m 27 and he’s... (607 words)

Did my ex come back after she learned I was moving on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

11 April 2023 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been talking again. We broke up over lockdown. I was mentally not there for her, so when we broke up, her male guy friend (married) who is 15 years older than her, started hinting and making moves. She has now revealed to me that she liked his company and ... (214 words)

I think my crush is trying to figure me out?

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11 April 2023 (F)

age 18-21 - We do talk sometimes in person but also online and texting. However lately I notice my crush will basically observe me in person. Somehow he often ends up of a distance beside or behind me! He just seems to pop up where I am and I notice he will be listening to my conversations ... (170 words)

Is it normal to spend holidays w an ex’s family when the child is in their mid 20s?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 381 days ago

11 April 2023 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to spend holidays w an ex’s family when the child is in their mid 20s? Supposedly it was an ugly divorce. He does enjoy the company of his ex in laws. So do I but I rarely see them because I haven’t been in laws with them in 15 years. I probably see my kid’s ... (195 words)

Is this friendship ending my fault?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

6 April 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - Have I been immature or was I acting unreasonably? I had a best friend of 6 years and we haven't spoken in 7 months after an unexpected fallout. We were very close before and she was like a sister to me; we really trusted/loved each other. We would never fight or get into... (539 words)

I did not sign up for my wife's extravagant lifestyle and I am resentful

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 368 days ago

5 April 2023 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some opinions and advice, as I am so stressed. My spouse owns her own business and since I met her over half a decade ago, her business has been rocky to the point that some months, she doesn't even take home a paycheck at all. The problem is, she has an insanely expe... (375 words)

Wife problems

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3 April 2023 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, My wife and I are having problems with regards to who initiates sex. We are both in our 50’s and have sex around 3 times per week. A lot of the time she does say are we having it but I also try to initiate as well by kissing and cuddling to get going. I was diagnosed ... (173 words)

Is she that busy or just blowing me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

3 April 2023 (F)

age 22-25 - I’m new to the area and looking for friends and to spend my time productively. I met a coworker who is also female and we agreed to meet to exercise. However while no set plans and a good reason it seems she always has an excuse. Last time she said she had to complete work at ... (97 words)

Should I contact my friend to see if she's ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 386 days ago

2 April 2023 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend that says she doesn’t feel good and has Been under more stress due to changes at her job. She’s been having to take work home almost all week. I want to check on her and make sure she’s ok and taking care of herself. We were supposed to hang out but she said ... (110 words)