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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't feel the butterflies in my stomach, does it mean we're not meant for each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very important question. When me and my bf kiss I don't feel butterflys or weak in the knees or things like they say in books and such. Does that mean were not meant for each other? He feels it but I don't. My bf thinks I don't feel it because I'm under a lot of stress ... (112 words)

Is this an unspoken break up? My boyfriend asks me to give him time to get over our fight of 8 weeks ago...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) age 30-35 - It's been almost 8 weeks since my boyfriend and I had a fight (lots of little things building up to him getting "upset" and no longer being even remotely affectionate.. kind of an unspoken breakup). He's behaved like a good friend ever since then.. except when I ask about the ... (333 words)

Why am I crying over spilled milk???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why am I crying over spilled milk??? Its been several months since my ex broke up with me, and I'm finally reaching a point where I know what she did to me was wrong, and that if she asked to get back with me, i think i could stay strong and not go back to her. I know it ... (156 words)

How do I get my colleague to admit his feelings? He was in it for the sex but now that I don't talk to him it seems he is bothered???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I work with and I have been seeing each other for a few months. We have had sex a couple of times. He is from Mexico and is embarrassed that he doesn't speak much English. My Spanish is passible so it doesn't bother me. He talks to everyone else at work except me. They ... (344 words)

How can I get rid of redness and blemishes???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I get rid of redness and blemishes??? I've looked and tried almost everything!! Anything you guys reccomend might help me alot!!!! PLEASE HELP!... (25 words)

How can I make my brother's girlfriend show herself in her true colour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

17 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My brother has a girlfriend who I can't stand because she calls me names (like, tramp,slut and many more) and makes of fun my friends. I did nothing to her cause by bro would kill me if found mistreat her but give her the right to treat me like crap? I tried telling my bro but ... (86 words)

My period has come earlier than expected after losing my virginity in the weekend, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity at the weekend and now my period has come around 10 days early, is this normal? ... (22 words)

I don't know what to talk about or how to make good conversation. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone Okay so I really like this guy and he goes to a different school. I added him on myspace and he accepted so I messaged him and he gave me his number. Eventhough its just the beginning its going really good. He dosent know me personally but he is best friends ... (141 words)

He's much older than me, and I don't allow him to kiss me. I'm not sure I understand everything about love and lust. Opinions, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 year old. Last year I met a man who is 38 through a common friend and we became good friends. I know it sounds a bit odd as the age difference is too much to be friends.he is divorced. After knowing him for four months one day he told me that he is attracted to me but ... (314 words)

What do I do with my wife? I'm desperate to save our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age - Don't know what to do with wife,she is resentful whenever I try to be romantic with her and threatens to go int he other room - has zero interest in sex at all - and used to be demanding of my attentions, even if I was wathcing TV she called me in to take care of her and I ... (166 words)

Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 12 years old and I'm not sure if i'm lesbian. last week me and my best friends had a sleep over and we all started fingering each other. I masturbate to lesbian porn and I don't get turned on by boys. Am I lesbian?... (50 words)

Can I wear a purity ring if I'm a born again virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I'm about to be 21 years old here in the next few months and one thing has been buggin me. I am not a virgin havent been since i was 15. Now I've only slept with 2 guys my whole life but the second guy I slept with i really didnt want to sleep with him but there was a ... (158 words)

Is it true that young guys don't like dating women who are virgins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it true that guys don't like dating women who are virgins in their twenties?... (15 words)

My friend and I like this guy that has a girlfriend. How do I tell her he wants to go out with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok im 13 there's this guy that likes me and i like him too but there's only one problem. My friend likes him too and i met him through her. He said to me that he would go out wit me but he has a gf and when he breaks up with her he says he will go out with me. I don't want to ... (82 words)

Is it possible to find a boyfriend not into religion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I was wondering about this. I want a boyfriend, and one issue i was afraid would come up is that I'm not a religious person. (not that there's anything wrong with it) I know that LOTS of people are religious, and it would probably be really hard to find someone who either ... (86 words)

How can I get my ex to take responsibility? I'm pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - im 25 weeks pregnant and my ex doesnt want anything to do with the baby., is there any way i can make him responsible financially when the baby is born and does it matter if he has a good job or not?... (47 words)

Living with my boyfriend but messing around with his friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 22 year old male whos been with my boyfriend now for close on two years. I moved in with him last October and everythings been fine...until now. Last weekend I kissed one of his best friends and don't know what to do. I first met his friend about twelve months ag... (355 words)

I don't want to make her feel sexually insecure but how can I get her to please me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm sort of confused and don't really know a good way to open up this subject or encourage interest. It seems as though my girlfriend is not as interested or excited about pleasing me. She usually comes first and if she doesn't then I am more than happy to dive into her snat... (313 words)

I just found out my new boyfriend smokes so should I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks. We both really like each other and things are great. The only problem is that I just found out he smokes and I find it one of the most disgusting things ever. I would talk to him about it but I don't feel like I can just ask him to ... (70 words)

How can I turn my life around? I've never had a boyfriend and I have no friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a woman aged 35. I am really sad, i have no friends, ive never had a boyfriend. I stay inside all the time. I feel jealous of other people. I don't know what to do.... (37 words)

He asked if I would wear a strap on and take him from behind?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months now. We were fine at first but now.... He has started asking really difficult sexual favours from me. He recently asked me if i would wear and strap on and take him from behind?!?! I didnt know what to do, no i feel pressured, ... (158 words)

Does he love money more than he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age - I've been with this man for two and a half years. He is 18 years older than me. We get on well and the relationship is going from strength to strength. He always says he loves me and I love him too. I have just got my divorce settled. I have got my own flat but have to sell ... (113 words)

He's not ready for a relationship but he promised I'm the one he wants to be with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im going crazyyy please help me... recently ive been seeing a guy and at the moment we have become soo close and really care about each other we became slightly physical and shared many moments, kisses and stories... i then decided to ask him out offically and he said he wasnt ... (651 words)

Why, after all the things he promised me and after telling me he loved me, could he reject me so quickly and without explanation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up 2 months ago with a man I had been seeing for 8 months. He treated me well and we spent many happy times together and even talked about the prospect of living together in the future. He often mentioned his ex wife and how terrible she had behaved towards him and how ... (634 words)

Questions for women about thrush...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Questions for women 1)Is thrush a common problem among women? 2)Do most women have this problem at least once in their life time? 3)How can you keep a check at preventing it? 4)Can this have an effect on your sex life?... (48 words)

Do I have the right to be jealous and should I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with this guy for about 4 months but there were some complications before that. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend but thats only because it's his best mates sister, in the first month of being with eachother he talked to her for ages one night and then ... (416 words)

I feel as though this was my fault, my friend forced himself on me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know how to explain this. I dont know if it's my fault... on the 7th July I went to wales, after work, and i got there about 11pm...so after working all day i was tired ect. I was going to see my friend...my best friend...who had told me he was depressed and ju... (681 words)

Is he just playing me? I really like him but his friend told me he tells lots of girls he loves them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 13 and i really like this guy who is 16 and i have been french kissing him for a bit but were not going out together. i txt him all of the time and he told me he loves me and i said it back and he has complemented me a few times now. but my friends txt him to and my be... (151 words)

My girlfriend became my stepsister!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her dad and my mum have been seeing ... (295 words)

Too many people, two many problems, kicked everybody out of the house, now I feel very bad, why am I not glad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem I had to kick everybody out of my house my best friend my brother and my boyfriend best friend who lived with us for at least 6 months and i got tried of the problems in the house and my kids was see this!! So I was trying to do it in a kind way not a bad way ... (162 words)

Does he want me to regain the weight I lost, because he likes larger women, or what, he lost, and he looks good, he also watches skinny girls in porn, what goes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have lost weight and still in the process of losing. I'm feeling sexier and more confident and finally fitting back into my skinny jeans. I was telling me boyfriend the other night how much I have lost. He told me he'd rather that I gain some weight. He said he doesn't want a ... (208 words)

Scared for life, walked in on my mom and dad having sex, how do I behave now, also I think it affected me in a negative way, help me out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - walking in on mum and dad.... HELP!!!... (10 words)

My boyfriend is going to be away for three months, we can only talk for ten minutes a week, has anyone else been in this position, I want to talk to him so badly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been sent to MCTC in Colchester for 3 months. Th elast time I saw him as last Thursday when he went to court he was then taken that day. He is allowed one 10 min call a week and one visit per week - I ma finding it so hard as I haen't heard from him apart ... (108 words)

He flirted with me, I liked the attention, so I flirted back, he is married, I do not want any involvement, should I let him know or just avoid him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am single and haven't met my true love yet. In the meantime, I am happily single. As we all know, that's when the men come out of the woodwork, when you are happy as you are. So there is a married man who flirts with me a lot where I workout, and at first I just liked the ... (138 words)

My mother criticizes me all the time, it is affecting my self confidence and worse, what do I do, to get her to stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum is very very controlling and I dont know how to get her to stop being like this.. I am almost 20 and I have to be home at half past 10 every night!! She goes in the huff if I stay at my boyfriends, She shouts at me if I dont eat the lunch she has made me for work and ... (182 words)

Trying to stop smoking, having a hard time, can anyone share their experiences with trying to quit smoking cigarettes, how do I motivate myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I gave up smoking about 2 months ago. 9 weeks to be precise. I have probably smoked 20 cigarettes this week alone though! I only had 2 the whole time previous to that. I am using patches and am on stage 2. I really should be going down to stage 3 next week, then 2 weeks later ... (183 words)

Does anyone know, if urinating in a woman's vagina is harmful, or would create a medical problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - dear cupid. i just want to find out if urinating close to or in my fiances vagina is dangerous. we have a good sexlife but we are carefull when it comes to extreme fetishes. i would like a medical review about it. thanx... (43 words)

More experienced than I am, and loves rough sex, never compliments me after sex, as I do her, instead, I asked a stupid question, and she bragged about her former partners, now I am a little depressed, please help?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Man o man, I am such a mess... I'm not even sure if this even something valid to be upset about, but its like this echoing thought that is pounding my head to death. My gf has had quite a few liaisons, about twice as many as me actually... In which case I do have some problems ... (711 words)

My boyfriend sometimes calls me fat, which makes me cry, and brings out my insecurities, I am driving him away, what can I do to build my self-esteem?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. I would do anything for him and I think he would do anything for me, problem is I think I could be pushing him away. We have been in a relationship for a year and a half and I can honestly say I feel like he is my soulmat... (760 words)

Could I go out with a younger guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Theres this guy i work with and well lately we've been talking a lot and getting quite close. Hes such a nice guy and were getting along so well. The thing is.. hes 17, 18 next april and i'm 18, 19 in two months. People keep saying you cant go out with someone tha... (83 words)

My boyfriend stares at other women... should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are preparing to get married next year. We live together and are very much in love. The thing that bothers me is that whenever we are driving places together... he stares so much at other women. He stares into cars, women walking by... I ask him and he says he ... (89 words)

Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only.... (24 words)

Was it ever real? Could it work again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met the man of my dreams last year December.We clicked,had chemistry,were both divorced,he has two girls,11 and 9,I have two boys,12 and 8.He's amazing with kids and he's a excellent father.We got engaged a month later,moved in together two months after that and everything ... (263 words)

My dad won't let me see my sister. How can I convince him to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16. i have problems with my dad. my sister has moved out from home with her boyfriend, she's 19. my dad dont like her boyfriend, so he dosn't want me near him. my dad wont let me out of my house to see my sister. i want to see my sister because i miss her alot, i havnt ... (106 words)

Out of love with my boyfriend, how do Ifall back in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend but lately I have been doubting our relationship. He came to visit me in Taiwan,where I was working,along with my roomate's bf who proposed to her. Since then, I have been picking fights with my bf and finding flaws with him, such as he's not good looking ... (139 words)

In a relationship with a drunk violent woman...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for a little over 13 years. We have one child together (Daughter 13), and her son (16) whom I have raised as my own since he was 5. Thats another story. I knew she drank when we met, so did I. We were young, I was in the Navy, and thats the way ... (461 words)

How do I get over this girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid I have been in a very emotional first relationship with a woman on and off for a year. When i met her i was a bit distant and scared of gettin close to someone.I admit i was a bit of a bitch right at the start but she saw this as a challenge.she would do t... (494 words)

My Virgin Bride was not a Virgin. How do I cope?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age - Hi, like many other guys I have a problem with my wifes past. I met her 25 years ago, she was 17 and I was 19. we hit it off right from the start and fell in love. we now have 2 kids aged 10 and 12. Every thing was fine until I asked her if she ever thought what it wo... (312 words)

Was I too impatient with him? Could I have done things differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I've been upset about something and i cant understand why.Last september,i met a guy who is two years younger than me in a nightclub and we swopped phone numbers.We texted each other alot for the first couple of weeks and i found out we had a lot in common.We liked alot of ... (768 words)

I'm in love with my best friend and she tells me her sorrows. The pain just pierces my heart. I can't stand it any longer.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend.she's dating someone else which really hurts me. But now her boyfriend went to another country, she told me about her sorrows which actually hurts me too. Now she's single and i don't wanna talk to her and meet her. every time i here a love or ... (72 words)

Why did he go back to his ex when everything was great?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy in May, we dated for a little and then became exclusive. Everything was great! We had so much in common and he was continuously telling me he hasn't felt this way in a long time and that he couldn't get enough of me. He would text me every morning and every ... (393 words)

I embraced Christianity, but I still have the urge to be a swinger. Can anyone help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

17 July 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Wow this is scary, but I just thought it would be easier then going to a counselor or something. Before I gave my heart to Christ, my very beautiful and yes sexy wife and I played around with the thoughts of swinging. After we be came Christian we spend night and day in the ... (201 words)

We broke up because we fight a lot, but could it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just had a break up, my boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We still have feelings for each other,but we have been fighting a lot. I have now figured out that the fighting has mostly but not always been because of me. I am insecure and not very confident. The ... (174 words)

I just split up with my first love after 7 years. Any thoughts or advice will be very much appreciated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just split up from my boyfriend of 7 years, he was my first love. We have broken up in the past but realised we couldnt live without each other and got back together. (we split for 3 months, he came back and i had kind of moved on but he hadnt so we gave it another ... (498 words)

My mum says my relationship won't last. Why is she so against it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - yeah i know its only 11 months, not THAT long really but i love him! right, ill explain... i met this guy a year ago on sunday and we got talkin and stuff, he ended up asking me out on the 3rd august, which was the best day of my life! but my mum doesnt trust him, im now 16, ... (352 words)

My boyfriend lied about his grades to get into college. Now he has to prove the grades, so do you think I could edit mine to put his name on them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lied about his grades on his college application form as he knew he would not get in without them. He had his interview today and they have agreed to let him in aslong as he proves what grades he got.. The grades he used are pretty similar to the ones I got so do... (194 words)

I want him to be crazy in love, but we need to develop understanding.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my lover do not have understanding so i want a way we both can develop understanding.he loves me alot but he do not trust me that much.i love him alot and i am v sincere.plz i want he should get crazy in my love but i dont know how to dmop that ... (54 words)

Small spots on my penis for a few months - but now there's a HUGE one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, it may not be to much worry but im not sure. for about 6-7month now i have been having between 1 and 2 spot like things on my penis. they went away after a couple week - month but now i have one again only this one is huge it is on the skin under my penis (if this ... (181 words)

Is she really just lying to me to use me to get away from her boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in love with a girl that I met 2 yrs ago. She is my best friend and her boyfriend at that time is my friend also. I had to move but stayed in touch with my best friend. She left her boyfriend and moved up to wyoming getting with another guy. I have talked to her over the ... (348 words)

Is it necessary to have things in common with a partner???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just a quick question. Is it necessary to have something in common with your boyfriend or girlfriend? My boyfriend said on the phone last night " i dont think we've anything in common". And i said is that bad? Then he said "i think you're meant to have things in common with ... (131 words)

If someone says "leave me alone" when they are heated, do they really mean it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age - If someone tells you to stay away from them and leave them the F alone knowing they were saying it because they were heated does that mean they never want to see you again ever in life? ... (37 words)

Does he truly love me or does he just want to use me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm 28 yrs, i've dated a guy for 3yrs my problem is that i dont trust as he used to lie before cheated on me but i couldn't let go cause i had no proof of that only signs,at that i was not working he used to treat me so bad i used to see him only once or twice in a month and he ... (153 words)

A girl at work is the most perfect person ever! I'm her boss.. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - So I got a dilemma. There is this girl I like at work. I really like her, I never connected with anyone like this before, people probably say that a lot but I've been through a lot of crap to know she is the real deal. I'm her boss though but she is quitting at the end of the ... (188 words)

My boyfriend's parents don't want us to go out, how do I approach them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - help my boyfriends parents told him yesturday that we could go out but today he rang me up and told me that they have decided we cant any more i dont no why but me and him are really upset over this they rule his life. They told him that they didnt want him to go out with m... (116 words)

Any ideas on how to deal with sensitive people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my GF for few weeks now, she's a really sensitive person and she told me that her mood changes suddenly. I noticed this when we had a little tiffle the other night, one minute we was joking around and the next she just switched, we sorted the little argument out ... (96 words)

How can I show him I'm trustworthy, and still give him the space he needs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy and we dated for about a month. Everything was going great, until we almost had sex. I want to wait until I am married before going all the way. After that happened he started acting weird. I think that he got scared, because I really like him too. He would tell ... (334 words)

What can I do to make her stay? I don't want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey thanks for you time im just looking for any advice, i dont really have much to turn to...my situation is as follows.. i met Brandi before i can remember, we have been together since childhood and were always childhood sweethearts. about 2 1/2 years ago we began seeing each... (277 words)

My girlfriend used to sleep with another girl, I'm bothered by her attraction to women...!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 July 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i fell like my girl friend gets horney by sweet girls and some how she used to sleep whith another girl but she always says no and it make me nuts to find out the truth before married thats very important to me? ... (44 words)

I feel I have to vie with pretty younger females for the attention of men!

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17 July 2008 (F)

age - With all this easy internet accesss and lap dancing clubs and easier access to plenty of women its almost impossisble to find a man who wants to have a steady relationship with me. I am reasonably attractive for my age but its so easy now for guys to get women and if you want... (145 words)

18-year age difference, parents say NO, what do I do?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and I'm with a 38 year old man who represents everything I want in a partner. We 'clicked' the moment we met and now have an undeniable connection; we just seem to fit together. I love him deeply, and he feels the same. We REALLY want to make it work. The ... (198 words)

I really like him, but he often seems quite distant. What to do?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i have a bit of a complicated question/story. But here it goes anyways. For the past for years i have had a crush on one of my best guy friends. We are both 18 now and will be going to different schools soon. Dispite our closeness in the past ever since sophmore... (308 words)

Can long distance love and an age gap work?

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17 July 2008 (F)

- What is your opinion or experience of this relationship lasting? My friend works internationally and travels the world but his family and friends are in the UK. During his marriage break-up he is 'consoled' by a woman with whom he worked who is 15 years younger (not so ... (288 words)

Is a female getting wet equivalent to a male getting hard?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just slightly curious here as to whether or not a female getting wet is the equivelant to a male getting hard. IE: Are they pretty much the same thing?... (29 words)

My ex made my girlfriend think I cheated on her, what do I do?

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17 July 2008 (?) age 30-35 - A few days ago I went exes (we're just friends now) place had a few beers and was I too wasted to drive home. I called my girlfriend to ask her give ride home. When she got to the house (she wasn't too happy that I was drunk) my ex told her come then it happen my ex jumped on ... (133 words)

What can I do to make him realize I need more space?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months. He is really sweet but he is moving too fast for me. I told him a couple of times that I want to take the relationship slow. He does not understand, he calls me like 5 times a day and leaves so many voicemails that my ... (218 words)

How can I get out of this dysfunctional relationship?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I keep getting pulled/putting myself into a relationship i consider dysfunctional relationship. I can't tell right now whether i'm in love or just plain obsessed with him, but i can't seem to let him go no matter what he does. I've been trying to leave him alone since i me... (350 words)

Can I stay friends with the woman who hurt me, or do I just move on?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well my question is am I a fool to remain friends with the girl who hurt me? What happened is we've been close friends for over 2 years, I kinda knew she was attracted to me, we started to have these discussions and one thing led to the other where I which was my first ... (1024 words)

I really like this guy, but we're both leaving, can our relationship work?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so Ive been dating this guy for awhile now. since begining of april. I have never been so into a guy befor. I know we love eachother. Only thing is this fall he is leaving for school, and I am leaving for a 9 month program were i cant come home or leave. Is it possible... (88 words)

He refuses to see me or give me my stuff back, and yet, I want him back. Do you think he'll try to contact me?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me in May because he was very stressed and basically he loves plans and planned out his life and his plans failed and he became very despondent. Since I was in his "plans" apparently, he realized that obviously doesn't its going to work out so he ... (214 words)

I don't just want him to email me, I'd like him to call sometimes - What can I do?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've been reading this site and there is some EXCELLENT advice here, so thanks to all of you who're willing to dish it out. My question is - I like this guy. We've been casual dating for almost two months, no sex yet since it takes me a while to get comfortable wi... (274 words)

I don't understand why he's acting like this. Does he like me?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Lately I've been feeling like I'm losing everyone. So when I tell this to one of my best friends, whom I have dated and now like again, he tries to help. He makes me feel amazing like I'm not losing anyone at all, or like I don't need anyone but him. He'll text me ... (163 words)

What age do you start having sex?

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17 July 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - what age do you start having sex... (7 words)

He gets jealous if I'm with other guys but he says he doesn't like me! What is his deal?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here goes, i used to go wi this guy, we split up october, but since them i hav stayed the nyt with him far too many tyms to count, he also gets reli jealous if i am with any other guy or if he hears a rumour about me, he then tells me her reli likes me an wants me bak, an i ... (131 words)

Love triangle: He says he still loves me but his girlfriend is pregnant!

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a bit of a pickle. Im with another guy and have been for a few weeks, hes great n really nice, but recently my ex has come on the scene, he was my first ever real boyfriend,we were engaged, i love him to bits and i always will as he was my first. We broke up nearly 6 ... (226 words)

She broke up with me because she thought I wouldn't want to go to her prom!

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17 July 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 20 and was in a relationship with 17 girl. She ended it because she thought i wouldnt want to go to her homecoming and prom, etc. She said she had too many high school and friend things to do. I want her back. What do I do?... (50 words)

Is this normal that he doesn't really call me?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with (lets say) Max for almost 4 months. For the past month and half our relationship has been long distance. I'm eventually meeting Max in end of August. When Max was here, we had such an amazing relationship and now that Max is gone, he hardly calls me or makes any ... (108 words)

He's confused after getting back together...can it work?

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my boyfriend for 2 months, we got back together 3 weeks ago. Now he is confused, he does not want to get hurt again and says that people say it won't workout, it never does after a break up. He went through a very rough time after the breaking up, and when he ... (71 words)

Tricked into a bigamous marriage?

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17 July 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I began talking to an Indian girl last year that I met on an internet site. After months of emails and phone calls we decided to get engaged. I'm seperated with my divorce going through the courts and I made her aware of this from the very beginning. I flew out to India to meet ... (312 words)

Can my best friend date my much younger brother? Her marriage is basically over.

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17 July 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a best friend who just move back to me and her marriage is basically over! My brother comes and live with me every summer and this summer is no different. My best friend comes to my house everyday and her and my brother got closer she is 27 and his 18. They did not think ... (219 words)